Our Back to School series concludes with a very special interview featuring Matt & Julie Barnhill. These two are not only gifted counselors, they are also dear friends and incredible role models.

Spending time with them is like being in the presence of master teachers. In this episode, they unpack timeless lessons for marriage, family, and faith—leaving us encouraged, inspired, and equipped to live with greater intentionality.

This is one you won't want to miss.

Jim & Christie Jacobus

Marriage is the most important class you'll ever take! In this solo episode of Your Marriage Matters, Christie Jacobus, Licensed Professional Counselor and Registered Nurse, takes you 'Back to School' to learn the ABC's of a Successful Marriage.

With practical wisdom and heartfelt insights, Christie shares how appreciation, beliefs, and commitment can transform your relationship. Tune in and take home tools that will help you and your spouse graduate your marriage with honors!

Hey gang ...

We're back—and it feels good to be "Back to School"! In this kickoff episode of Your Marriage Matters, Jim and Christie share their #1 marriage flex: never stop learning. After 38 years of marriage, they've discovered that growth—personal and relational—is the foundation for a vibrant, resilient, and joy-filled marriage.

Together, they unpack 10 powerful reasons why a growth mindset is essential for couples, from keeping the marriage dynamic to modeling something transformative for kids and grandkids. You'll also hear about their reset of the podcast, YouTube channel, and Instagram—and why now is the time to go back to school on your marriage.

This month's theme, Back to School, sets the stage for a series of conversations and resources designed to help you and your spouse keep learning, growing, and reconnecting with God's design for marriage.

Jim & Christie Jacobus

www.yourmarriagematters.com

The Fundamentals for Building A More Vibrant, Healthy Marriage!

Hey gang ... Welcome to Your Marriage Matters episode 189 - The Fundamentals for Building A More Vibrant, Healthy Marriage! Since we are doing a new YouTube channel. we felt like it was important to go back to the fundamentals as a reset for everything we are going to be covering in the days and weeks ahead!

The fundamentals we are going to be covering during this episode are simple but powerful! They are: Create a "shared vision" for creating a compelling life together! Master the critical skill of communicating effectively! Master the equally critical skill of being able to solve life's inevitable problems together!

In this episode we discuss these from a bit of a 30,000ft view! In future episodes we will get into much more depth with very practical, real world skills anyone can learn! We do want to get you started creating a shared dream together so we put together a "Bucket List Exercise" downloadable pdf to prompt your discussion with each other!

You can download this exercise by Clicking Here! Thank you for joining us for this episode. Click

Here to watch the YouTube video! Catch you next week ...

Problems, struggles, and conflict are signs of a healthy relationship!

Two imperfect people working to build a life together in an imperfect world are bound to face struggles. This is due to the mere fact that they:

• Are male and female
• Grew up in different households
• Have different personality styles
• Have different views on sex, money, household roles and responsibilities, parenting, and a dozen other subjects.

All of this, and more, means there will be conflict! What matters is how we handle it!!! This entire month, we will be following the theme of "I Am NOT the Enemy" (thanks Ben and Megan Coleman) and looking closely at effective strategies and mindsets for turning the inevitable differences we are going to have into a strength in our relationships!

Knowing we have each other's backs and that we will process struggles in a positive and healthy way builds confidence in ourselves and in each other! It isn't easy but it is well worth it!

Join Jim & Christie Jacobus on episode 187 of Your Marriage Matters as they delve into the profound lessons learned from their adventurous journey as full-time RV travelers. In this insightful episode, 3 Life Lessons From the Road, they explore:

1. Beauty Everywhere: Explore the breathtaking landscapes of America through the eyes of seasoned travelers. Discover how every corner of this country holds its own unique charm and beauty, reminding us to appreciate the world around us.

2. People's Splendor: Dive into the heartwarming experiences of connecting with diverse communities across the nation. Jim & Christie share inspiring stories that highlight the kindness, resilience, and beauty of humanity found in every place they visit.

3. Embracing the Moment: Learn the invaluable lesson of living in the present and making the most of every opportunity. With a message of "DO IT NOW," they encourage listeners to seize the moment, explore new horizons, and forge meaningful connections without delay.

Tune in to Your Marriage Matters and embark on a journey of discovery, inspiration, and joy with Jim & Christie Jacobus!

Welcome back to Your Marriage Matters with Jim & Christie Jacobus! In this episode, we delve into the crucial topic of trust in marriage and why it's the cornerstone of a strong, enduring relationship. Trust isn't just a nice-to-have; it's the foundation upon which emotional connection, communication, stability, and growth thrive.

In this episode, we discuss:

1. Foundation of Emotional Connection: How trust lays the groundwork for deep emotional intimacy.
2. Enhances Communication: The role of trust in fostering open, honest communication.
3. Promotes Relationship Stability: How trust contributes to a stable and secure partnership.
4. Strengthens Bonds: Ways in which trust strengthens the bonds between partners.
5. Encourages Growth and Development: How a trusting environment encourages personal and relational growth.

Tune in as we share practical insights and actionable tips on how to cultivate trust in your marriage. Whether you're newlyweds or seasoned partners, these strategies will help you nurture a relationship built on trust, respect, and love.

Listen to the full episode on Your Marriage Matters podcast now!

Ways to Develop Trust:

1. Be Honest: Transparency and honesty are the building blocks of trust.
2. Follow Through on Commitments: Keeping promises reinforces reliability.
3. Communicate Openly: Create a safe space for open, non-judgmental communication.
4. Respect Boundaries: Honor each other's boundaries to build trust and mutual respect.
5. Be Dependable: Consistency and reliability are key to earning and maintaining trust.

Don't forget to Like, Subscribe, and Share this episode to help others strengthen their marriages and build trust in their relationships. Let's spread the love and wisdom together!

🎙️ Join Jim and Christie Jacobus on Your Marriage Matters as they dive deep into "The 5 R's of Spring Cleaning Your Marriage"! 🌷

In this episode, they discuss practical strategies to revitalize your relationship and create a stronger bond this spring. From reorganizing your time together to renovating your finances, refreshing appreciation, revitalizing shared goals, and renewing your commitment, Jim and Christie provide actionable tips for couples to strengthen their marriages.

Tune in to discover how to:

1. Prioritize quality time for bonding activities.
2. 2. Align your financial goals and create a budget together.
3. 3. Express gratitude and appreciation for each other daily.
4. 4. Set new challenges and adventures as a couple.
5. 5. Reaffirm your love and commitment to each other.

Don't miss out on valuable insights that can transform your marriage! 🌟 Subscribe, listen, like, and share this episode with friends and family who could benefit from a healthy and thriving relationship! 💑✨

Listen now on your favorite podcast provider or watch on YouTube and followYour Marriage Matters with Team Jacobus for more inspiring content! 🚀 #YourMarriageMatters #SpringCleaningYourMarriage #RelationshipGoals #PodcastWisdom #JoyhaulingWithTeamJacobus 🌻