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Morgan is determined to prevent her daughter from making the same mistakes she did. By getting pregnant and married way too young, Morgan put her own dreams on hold. Clara doesn’t want to follow in her mother’s footsteps. Her predictable mother doesn’t have a spontaneous bone in her body.

What if the smartest people in the world understand something that the rest of us don't? (They do.) What if they know that in order to achieve success, they will sometimes have to do things that others may initially perceive as stupid? The fact of the matter is that the smartest people in the world don't run from stupid, they lean into it (in a smart way). In The Power of Starting Something Stupid, Richie Norton redefines stupid as we know it, demonstrating that life-changing ideas are often tragically mislabeled stupid.

رغم أنه من السهل الشعور بالندم، فإنه من الصعب تعريفه. وقد حاول العلماء وواضعو النظريات والشعراء والأطباء جميعًا تعريفه، فقد عرفه المعالجون النفسيون بأنه «الشعور غير السار المرتبط بتصرف قام به شخص أو تقاعس عنه، ما أدى لحالة كان يتمنى لو كانت مختلفة».1 ويرى واضعو النظريات في مجال الإدارة أن «الندم يحدث بسبب مقارنة النتيجة الفعلية بالنتيجة التي كانت لتحدث لو كان صاحب القرار قد اتخذ خيارًا آخر».2 ويرى الفلاسفة أنه ذلك «الشعور بالحزن والضيق الناتج عن التفكير في شيء ما فعله الشخص في الماضي، والمقترن بالتعرف على حقيقة شيء ما، والعزم على التصرف بطريقة أخرى معينة في المستقبل».3

É comum se arrepender. Com frequência, somos tomados por aquela sensação ruim de que estaríamos em uma situação melhor se tivéssemos tomado decisões diferentes. Isso é parte do ser humano, mas não é algo necessariamente negativo. Se aprendermos a lidar com o arrependimento de forma nova e criativa, ele se torna uma ótima ferramenta para a vida.

This is a meditation intended not to absolve us from a guilty conscience, but rather to help us find the cause of guilt, take the gifts and lessons our experiences carry, and get in touch with our humanity by bettering ourselves and, in turn, the world around us.