Codependency Self Parenting

Self-healing through self-parenting, a concept introduced a generation ago, has helped thousands of adult children of alcoholics who are codependent and have conflicts in their primary relationships. Now Patricia O'Gorman, PhD, and Phil Diaz, MSW, authors of the classic book The 12 Steps to Self-Parenting for Adult Children and its companion workbook, expand the reach of that successful healing paradigm to anyone who has suffered from any kind of trauma.

Learn how to value your own opinion over those of others. Codependency books are perfect for those of us who live as if what other people think matters more than what we think. This thinking leads to constantly trying to please or even to change others. Codependent behaviors can have negative effects on us and those around us, even leading to a dysfunctional family. It can be difficult to say no to those we love.

Establishing clear personal boundaries is essential to creating and nurturing mutually respectful relationships based on equality. Setting limits can also protect you from getting involved in exploitative relationships, and help you avoid toxic personalities who don't have your best interests at heart. This evidence-based workbook will show you how to set healthy boundaries across all aspects of life - without sacrificing your kindness or compassion for others.

More than personal boundaries, this book is really about relationships - healthy and unhealthy ones. Here best-selling author and psychotherapist Charles Whitfield blends theories and dynamics from several disciplines into practical knowledge and actions that your can use in your relationships right now. This comprehensive book opens with clear definitions and descriptions of boundaries, a self-assessment survey, and a history of our accumulated knowledge. Going deeper, it describes the 10 essential areas of human interaction wherein you can improve your relationships.

In No More Narcissists!, psychologist Candace Love provides a road map for women to finally get the love they deserve. Using skills based in cognitive behavioral and schema therapy, you'll gain an understanding of why you're attracted to narcissistic men, how you can avoid being drawn in by a narcissist's initial charm and magnetism, and how to heal so you can finally move on to healthy relationships.

From the author of the New York Times best seller Adult Children of Alcoholics - a wonderful book that affirms and encourages ACoAs by developing your skills for living. Imagine how good you would feel if: you could stand up for yourself without losing your temper; you could make a decision without second guessing yourself; and you didn't have that sense of worthlessness every time someone criticized you. In Lifeskills for Adult Children you can learn how to do these things and more.

Best-selling author and frequent Oprah guest Dr. Harriet Braiker offers help for anyone who has ever felt the resentment of giving 100 percent of themselves to others and getting nothing in return. The Disease to Please explodes the dangerous myth that “people-pleasing” is a benign problem. It is the first book to treat people pleasing as a serious psychological syndrome, and it breaks new ground in its approach to offer a cure.  

The most successful and satisfied people on the planet have one thing in common: the ability to create and communicate clear, healthy boundaries. This ability is, hands down, the biggest game changer when it comes to creating a healthy, happy, self-determined life. In Boundary Boss, psychotherapist Terri Cole reveals a specific set of skills that can help you stop abandoning yourself for the sake of others (without guilt or drama) and get empowered to consciously take control of every aspect of your emotional, spiritual, physical, personal, and professional life.

Being in a relationship without knowing how to share your feelings and receive your partner’s feelings in useful ways is like jumping into a pool without knowing how to swim. You can flail around all you want, but it’s not going to keep you afloat for very long—you need to be able to move in any direction at will. Like  swimming, knowing how to share your feelings and respond to your partner's feelings will move your relationship in the direction you want: toward more intimacy, closeness, connection, and trust.

Do you feel like life is weighing you down all the time and you don’t know why? Do you feel like you’re constantly getting caught up in abusive relationships and you don’t know why? This audiobook is going to answer all of your questions. Being an empath isn’t a clear-cut road, it is a broad term with many meanings, and there are many different aspects to it. So, you might be an empath or you might display a high amount of empathy, either way, you probably share the same symptoms a true empath has, and this audiobook is designed to help you overcome life’s harshest critics and challenges.

Un ami, un collègue ou un conjoint vous a-t-il déjà donné l'impression que vous n'étiez jamais à la hauteur et que tout ce que vous entrepreniez courait à la catastrophe ? Avez-vous été continuellement critiqué par l'un de vos parents ou par un proche ? Vous sentez-vous parfois humilié ou déprécié par un client ou un voisin ?

Sensible, anxieux, vulnérable et exigeant, l'assujetti manifeste un intérêt excessif à satisfaire les besoins des autres au détriment des siens. "Non" est un mot qu'il n'utilise pas, ou mal. En perpétuelle quête de reconnaissance, capable de grandes choses mais otage de lui-même, de son environnement et de la société moderne, l'assujetti peine à trouver sa place et à donner un sens à son existence.

This text has everything you may need to get ahead in life, whether it's emotionally, socially, or even economically. Within the text of this book, we go through a variety of topics discussing and analyzing the psychology behind the manipulation. From history to real-life examples this book has everything you may ever want or need to know about manipulation psychology.

In Love Is a Choice, best-selling doctors Robert Hemfelt, Frank Minirth, and Paul Meier walk you through their 10 proven stages to recovery from codependency that results from external circumstances. Humans are susceptible to codependency because of our sinful tendency to use defense mechanisms to fool ourselves. In codependent relationships, deceitful games are played, and important Christian principles are often taken out of context and abused.

Narcissistic Abuse is an audiobook devoted to exposing the warning signs, red flags, and traits of the malignant narcissist. It can help level the playing field by providing the tools needed to survive the narcissist’s traps as well as recover from the psychological injury the narcissist inflicts on their victims.

Signs of codependency are often hidden in plain sight. Are you making lots of sacrifices to make other people happy, but they don’t seem to return the favor? Does your relationship seem kind of one-sided? If this sounds like you, you likely suffer from codependency. But you don't have to be worried! There are lots of ways to even the battlefield and get your life back. The first step is to understand what codependency means. Experts say it's a behavior pattern in which you find yourself dependent on approval from someone else for your self-worth and identity.

This audiobook is designed to help anyone who has fallen into the claws of a narcissist. Codependency is a dangerous game. It’s not just clinginess; sadly, it’s one of the most common issues for many people. Codependency is best felt when we live our lives through others, and depend on them for feelings of self-worth. The good news? There is a way to become less codependent! In doing so, you will also avoid becoming a victim of narcissistic abuse. 

Boundaries & Protection is Pixie Lighthorse’s fourth book. Guided by the graceful, territorial, fiercely protective spirit of Mountain Lion, Lighthorse takes us on a healing journey through our developmental lacks and traumas to find the unique medicine in each situation. Gently but firmly, she also guides us to recognize where we have violated others’ boundaries, to grow our humility, and to make amends.

Fühlst du dich schuldig, wenn es anderen Menschen schlecht geht? Glaubst du, dass du für ihr Glück verantwortlich bist und dass es deine Pflicht ist, ihre Probleme zu lösen? Falls du dich zu wenig um deine eigenen Bedürfnisse, dafür aber ständig um die Bedürfnisse anderer kümmerst, wird es Zeit, "Nein" zu sagen. Tappe nicht in die Beratungsfalle. Denn erst wenn du erkennst, dass du nicht für das Glück der anderen verantwortlich bist, kannst du loslassen und ihnen auf achtsame Weise helfen. Die Autoren zeigen, warum Selbstmitgefühl der erste Schritt ist: Für dich und für die, denen du hilfst.

Audio Hypnosen sind die effizienteste Möglichkeit um persönliche Ziele zu erreichen und / oder schädliche oder negative Glaubenssätze oder Verhaltensweisen loszulassen. Die Vorteile für dich (im Vergleich zu einer Sitzung bei einem Hypnotiseur) sind - sofort verfügbar - im Verhältnis sehr kostengünstig - du kannst die erworbene Audio-Hypnose beliebig oft und lange nutzen - durch die regelmäßige Nutzung wird die Wirkung massiv verstärkt - dein Unterbewusstsein kann das Gehörte so immer besser umsetzen.