People will view us, judge us, accept us, or reject us based upon our attitude.
Our initial concerns come from seeing someone else's attitude, which gets modified down the line the more we know of them. But if we have one inital meeting we can be a success or a failure in an instant.
Our attitude is part of our "Shop Window" so if it looks shoddy or unkempt then that's how others see you. Of course everything in situ whether you are at work or at play you dress appropriately, but your character still remains relatively constant so a great assessment needs to take into account all mitigating circumstances.
But someone who has a low self-esteem or an ego usually gets spotted in seconds as it has the effect of grating instantly on others. Remember "con men" are some of the nicest in the world, hence they con you. A good listen.
This audio download instill what our attitudes do and whether we put on airs and graces we still show who we really are and eventually let ourselves down.