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This Is How Your Marriage Ends
A Hopeful Approach to Saving Relationships
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This Is How Your Marriage Ends
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Narrated by:
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Rob Shapiro
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Written by:
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Matthew Fray
The marriage advice book that helps good guys become great partners, before it’s too late.
Good people can be bad at relationships.
Matthew Fray thought he was a good husband. He wasn’t a cheater, a drinker, or a gambler. He was a decent guy who loved his wife. Then she left him.
One night during his divorce, after one too many vodkas and a call with a phone-in therapist who told him to “journal his feelings,” Fray started a blog. He needed to understand how the eighteen-year-old college freshman who once adored him had become a woman who couldn’t stand to be around him. As he pieced together the story of his marriage, he faced a hard truth: even though he was a decent guy, he was a bad husband.
His raw, honest, and darkly funny posts about what he got wrong soon drew a following. In 2016, his post “She Divorced Me Because I Left the Dishes by the Sink” went viral and was read more than four million times. Readers recognized themselves in it, because it was never really about the dishes. It was about the thousand small moments when one partner feels unheard, unseen, and alone.
Drawing on his own life-changing experience and years of coaching couples, Fray reveals the root problem behind so many failing relationships: most of us were never taught the skills a healthy marriage requires. Often, it’s the belief that we mean well that keeps us from seeing how we’re hurting the person we love. In This Is How Your Marriage Ends, you’ll learn to:
Recognize the everyday habits that quietly erode trust and connection
Understand why “small things” matter so much to your partner, and what they really signal
Stop defending your intentions and start listening to your partner’s experience
Break the cycles of resentment, conflict, and disconnection before they become permanent
Funny, frank, and refreshingly practical, this is a must-read for every partner at every stage, whether you’re engaged, newly married, years into a long-term relationship, or trying to understand what went wrong. It’s the book many readers wish they’d read years ago.