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What Happened to You?

Conversations on Trauma, Resilience, and Healing

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What Happened to You?

Written by: Oprah Winfrey, Bruce Perry
Narrated by: Bruce Perry, Oprah Winfrey
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Oprah Winfrey and renowned brain development and trauma expert, Dr Bruce Perry, discuss the impact of trauma and adverse experiences – and how healing must begin with a shift to asking 'What happened to you?' rather than 'What’s wrong with you?'.

Through wide-ranging and often deeply personal conversation, Oprah Winfrey and Dr Perry explore how what happens to us in early childhood – both good and bad – influences the people we become.

A simple change in perspective can open up a new and hopeful understanding about why we do the things we do, why we are the way we are – and provide a road map for repairing relationships, overcoming what seems insurmountable, and ultimately living better and more fulfilling lives.

Many of us experience adversity and trauma during childhood that has a lasting impact on our physical and emotional health. And as we’re beginning to understand, we are more sensitive to developmental trauma as children than we are as adults. ‘What happened to us’ in childhood is a powerful predictor of our risk for physical and mental health problems down the road, and offers scientific insights into the patterns of behaviours so many struggle to understand.

A survivor of multiple childhood challenges herself, Oprah Winfrey shares portions of her own harrowing experiences because she understands the vulnerability that comes from facing trauma at a young age.

Throughout her career, Oprah has teamed up with Dr Bruce Perry, one of the world’s leading experts on childhood trauma. He has treated thousands of children, youth, and adults and has been called on for decades to support individuals and communities following high-profile traumatic events.

Now, Oprah joins with Dr Perry to marry the power of storytelling with the science and clinical experience to better understand and overcome the effects of trauma.

Grounded in the latest brain science and brought to life through compelling narratives, What Happened to You? shines a light on a much-needed path to recovery – showing us our incredible capacity to transform after adversity.

Developmental Psychology Mental Health Psychology Psychology & Mental Health Relationships Self-Help Success

Critic Reviews

An incredible dialogue that bares the fundamental causes of trauma, and rightly turns the question of shame on its head and back to the environment. There is so much more we need to learn and this book is the perfect guide to reframing how we can act – through research, experience and compassion – in tomorrow's world. An essential read (Dr Camilla Pang, biochemist and author of Explaining Humans)
Revealing, intimate, and educational, it’s a testament to the authors’ wish for readers to come to grips with, and let go of, the past – and to move forward into 'post-traumatic wisdom' (Leigh Haber, O Magazine)
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An excellent book and insight to trauma. Let’s be empathetic and pick each other up.

one of the best book on trauma

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This books helped me heal from my past life pain. I am looking forward to gather post traumatic wisdom as it showed that what happened to you is what happened for you, for your own betterment later in life. And I'm forever grateful for this approach. Scientific basis to the positive information on mental health is indeed, a cherry on the cake. Thank you for this creation!

Life changing experience!

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It’s a must read for everyone, with or without trauma! Awesomeness and wisdom is what you will gain!

Life changing!

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Amazing book - I heard the audible version. Narrated well.
The book has a very easy going flow and simple language to understand something as complex as trauma or post trauma impact.

Must read for those supporting trauma impacted people

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Honestly, when I started to listen to this book I didn't think I could finish it in one go but I did.
It revealed things to me that I was hiding inside of me for years. I wept alot while listening because I felt someone just said it out loud what I was going through inside and explained it so well. I have forgiven people and my anger has subsided. Ifeel calm and my heart just opened up. My head is less chaotic and headache is gone. I just offloaded alot of emotions I had no words for. You must listen to this if you had a troubled childhood and you're a difficult adult. Thanks alot Oprah and Dr. Perry.

It healed me. It's therapeutic

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