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Matthew Hodgson spent his entire career knowing he had the ability and never quite trusting it. The moment basketball was gone, so was everything he thought he knew about himself.

He made the Boomers. Had a stint with the Dallas Mavericks. Won championships.

And still felt like a loser.

When the phone stopped ringing, he was sitting on a beach in Hawaii with an 18-month-old daughter and no plan.

What came next was messy.

In this episode, Ryan sits down with Matthew Hodgson, former NBL pro and founder of People Performance Advisors, to talk about what it actually looks like to rebuild an identity from scratch.

What We Get Into:

- Why making the Boomers and having a stint with the Dallas Mavericks still wasn't enough to make him feel good enough

- The injury that ended his career and the free agency that confirmed it was over

- Sitting on a beach in Hawaii and realising the phone wasn't going to ring

- Turning down a masters degree the day after getting accepted and why it was the right call

- The job he took that he knew he'd hate and what it taught him anyway

- The $100,000 he spent trying to fix his own head while he was still playing

- Why he was punishing himself and calling it discipline

- How a kid who wanted basketball coaching accidentally opened the door to his entire career

- What he actually does now and why it finally feels like using his strengths

- Why he threw out the AI content and started recording straight after training when the feeling hit

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Jack’s career didn’t end on his terms.

It ended with a letter.

No warning.
No backup plan.
No income.

Just a moment where everything he had built… stopped.

In this episode, Ryan sits down with Jack to unpack what it really takes to rebuild your life after sport when you’re forced to start again.

From surviving the brutal, cutthroat world of professional umpiring to being released with nothing, Jack shares how he turned one of the hardest moments of his life into the foundation for a multimillion-dollar business.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode

- The reality of chasing a professional sports career (and how few make it)

- What it feels like to be cut without warning

- How Jack turned frustration into a clear plan

- Why writing things down changed everything

- The simple math behind building a successful business

- Why athletes must stop expecting to “start at the top”

- The importance of starting from zero and earning your way up

- How discipline from sport translates into business success

- Why most people don’t prepare for worst-case scenarios

- The mindset shift from athlete to business owner

This episode is about ownership.

Not of a business…
but of your next move.

Jack didn’t wait for someone to show him what to do next.

He sat down, faced reality, and built a plan.
Even when he didn’t know exactly where it would lead.

And that’s the difference.

Because most people stay stuck in the moment.
He used it.

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Joe thought he knew what life after football would look like.

He had the degree.
He had the plan.
He had a clear next step.

But the reality felt completely different.

In this episode, Ryan sits down with Joe to unpack what really happens when your identity is built around sport… and suddenly, it’s gone.

From growing up in a football family to playing professionally for over a decade, Joe shares how the transition out of the game hit harder than expected and why most athletes aren’t prepared for what comes next.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode

- What “player care” actually means and why it’s missing the mark

- The hidden pressures athletes face when they leave the game

- Why most players don’t feel “ready” for life after sport

- The identity and ego shift that hits after retirement

- How relationships change when roles reverse financially

- Why choosing the wrong second career is more common than you think

- The mistake of jumping into the “obvious” next step

- How Joe realized journalism wasn’t the path for him

- The importance of creating calmness before making big decisions

- Why uncomfortable environments accelerate growth

This episode goes deeper than just career transition.

It’s about identity.

Joe opens up about leaving football with fear, not clarity.
About losing his role as the provider.
About not knowing how to carry “Joe the footballer” into the next phase of life.

And that’s the part most people don’t see.

Because from the outside, it looks like a career change.
But internally, it feels like starting from zero.

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Josh Allan thought he had it figured out.

He was fast. Really fast.
Running national-level 400m times.
Training with some of the best athletes in the country.

But deep down, he knew something most athletes avoid admitting.

This wasn’t going to be his career.

In this episode, Ryan sits down with Josh Allan, now Head Coach of Men’s Rugby at the University of Toronto, to unpack the real decisions behind leaving one path… and choosing another.

From growing up in Halifax and playing multiple sports at a high level, to representing at national level in both rugby and athletics, Josh shares what it actually looks like when you’re good at everything… but forced to choose one thing.

And more importantly, what happens when none of those paths turn into the future you imagined.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode

• Why being talented at multiple sports can actually make decisions harder
• The moment Josh realized track wasn’t going to be his career
• What it really takes to “go all in”… and why most people don’t
• Walking away from elite rugby pathways and what that felt like
• The reality behind the “3%” who make it professionally
• How he ended up moving to Chicago with no real plan
• Why sport became his gateway into life, not his destination
• Building confidence through coaching, gyms, and personal training
• The identity shift every athlete has to face
• What he now tells 18-year-olds who think they’re going pro

This episode isn’t about success in the traditional sense.

It’s about awareness.

Josh knew early on that continuing down a path just because he could… didn’t mean he should.

And that honesty changed everything.

From stepping away from track after hitting a ceiling, to returning to rugby, to eventually realizing sport wasn’t going to be the end goal, this is a story about making decisions before life forces them on you.

It’s also a reminder that just because something doesn’t become your career… doesn’t mean it wasn’t worth it.

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In this episode, Brad Stanton shares his raw, unfiltered journey from world champion fighter to entrepreneur, coach, and founder of a new wellbeing venture in Abu Dhabi.

Brad opens up about growing up in a disciplined, athletic household, overcoming bullying through martial arts, and rising to the top of his sport. But behind the success came personal challenges that forced him to step away from fighting, including his father’s illness and the emotional toll that followed.

From working in a warehouse after being at the top… to rebuilding his life in the UAE… to burning out from a successful gym… this conversation dives deep into what it really takes to start again.

Key Topics Covered

• How early discipline and family shaped Brad’s mindset
• Overcoming bullying and finding confidence through Muay Thai
• The reality of becoming a world champion at a young age
• Walking away from sport at the peak of success
• The emotional impact of his father’s illness and passing
• Losing identity after sport and starting over from scratch
• Why success in business led to burnout
• The hidden danger of building a brand around yourself
• Lessons from closing a successful gym
• Rebuilding with purpose through wellness and community
• Why athletes must think beyond sport early
• The importance of financial structure when starting a business

Golden Nugget:
“You are your own worst enemy. The moment you let doubt in, you’ve already failed at day one.”

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Sometimes the hardest part of any journey isn’t the outcome, it’s learning how to make peace with what actually happened. In this episode, we explore what it really looks like to redefine success, especially when life doesn’t unfold the way you expected. We talk about the pressure to measure everything by results, how long it can take to genuinely feel proud of your effort, and why “good enough” often lands very differently when you’re in it versus when you look back. This is a conversation about growth, perspective, and learning how to move forward without carrying the weight of what could have been.

What we talk about in this episode:

• Redefining success beyond outcomes and external validation
• Why achieving a goal doesn’t always bring immediate fulfillment
• The emotional aftermath of not getting the result you wanted
• Letting go of “should have, could have, would have” thinking
• How identity and purpose evolve after a major life chapter
• Balancing passion with a life beyond one pursuit
• The role of perspective in healing and moving forward
• Why acceptance is often a long-term process, not a quick shift
• How having other areas of meaning can support resilience
• Learning to feel proud of the journey, not just the result

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Born with a disability and introduced to swimming as a child, Charlotte went on to become a Paralympic medalist in the pool before stepping away from the sport she had known almost her entire life. But retirement from swimming did not bring instant clarity. Instead, it brought confusion, anxiety, and a deep loss of identity she had not fully prepared for.

In this episode, Charlotte shares how she found her way through that difficult period, why switching to canoeing gave her a second chapter she never expected, and how she now approaches performance, purpose, and life beyond sport very differently.

What You’ll Hear

• How Charlotte’s early disability shaped her path into sport
• Why swimming gave her freedom, independence, and community as a child
• The chance meeting that introduced her to the Paralympic dream
• What it felt like to make her first Paralympic Games in Beijing
• How a serious infection in Beijing affected her first Paralympic experience
• Why missing out on a medal in 2008 fueled her drive toward London 2012
• The pressure and overtraining that nearly derailed her path to the home games
• What really happened emotionally when she retired from swimming
• Why moving into a second sport did not automatically fix the loss of identity
• The moment she realized she needed help to process the transition
• Why even a “dream life” in sport can still leave someone feeling anxious and lost
• How canoeing became the most successful chapter of her career
• What she is doing differently now to prepare for life after sport
• Why exploring opportunities outside of sport has made her a better athlete

Golden Nugget

Want to Go Deeper?

Charlotte’s honesty in this episode is what makes it so powerful. She speaks openly about what many athletes feel but struggle to admit. That you can be living the dream, doing sport for a living, winning medals, and still feel lost.

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Chris Lawrence went from debuting in the NRL at 17 while still in high school to building a business that now helps athletes keep learning during and after their playing careers. But his path was not a smooth one.

In this episode, Chris shares what it was really like to be thrown into professional sport so young, the pressure of balancing school with first grade football, and the injuries that forced him to confront the reality that his career could end at any moment. He also opens up about the frustration of trying to study in systems that were never designed for athletes and how that experience shaped the business he runs today.

What You’ll Hear

• What it felt like to debut in the NRL at 17 while still in Year 12
• The moment Tim Sheens told him, “Looks like you’re playing, kid”
• How he scored on debut at Suncorp after one simple piece of advice
• Why trying to balance university and professional sport became so frustrating
• The experience that made him realise traditional education systems were not built for athletes
• How a dislocated hip left him in limbo and facing the possibility of career-ending surgery
• What helped him mentally get through serious injury
• Why he started building a business while still playing
• The reason he believes learning is a skill athletes need to keep developing
• How sport taught him lessons about resilience, clarity, sales, leadership, and performance
• Why building skills early gives athletes more options later
• The mindset shift that helped him know when it was time to stop playing and go all in on business

Golden Nugget

Want to Go Deeper?

This episode is not just about retirement from rugby league. It is about what happens when an athlete starts asking bigger questions while they are still in the game.

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