Most Christian men aren't building their families in a way that is producing strength, legacy, or long-term faithfulness. The Bible teaches us a better way.

In the third episode of this "Abrahamic Starter Kit Series," we unveil The Abrahamic Model — a completely different operating system for marriage, child-raising, and money. In this episode, we go back to the biblical mandate and show what it looks like for a man to lead his home with sacrificial authority so that his wife thrives and his children grow up ready to carry the family torch. This isn’t about trends. It’s about reclaiming God’s original design — and building something that lasts for generations.

About Abraham’s Wallet: Abraham’s Wallet exists to inspire and equip Biblical family leaders. Please partner with us in inspiring and equipping multi-gen families at https://abrahamswallet.com/support AW website Apple Podcasts Spotify YouTube Facebook LinkedIn Instagram

• (00:00:00) - How to Run Your Home and Your Dough Like a Biblical Boss
• (00:00:22) - Abraham's Wallet
• (00:08:38) - Abraham's Wallet: I Don't Want to Be an Influ
• (00:12:09) - A Pastor is God's Chosen Leader
• (00:20:10) - The Abrahamic Profile
• (00:26:38) - Marriage and the Family
• (00:27:07) - Marriage Talk: Male Headship
• (00:30:03) - How to Raise Children in the Abrahamic Machine
• (00:35:03) - Deuteronomy 13: The Care of Your Children
• (00:38:01) - God on Money and Marriage
• (00:42:41) - Households and Money
• (00:48:00) - Abraham's Wallet: The Family Vision

Every February, we do something that feels almost rebellious in today’s culture—we practice telling ourselves no. No extra spending. No impulse buys. No quick coffee runs or “let’s just grab takeout.” Instead, we use what’s already in the house, clean out the freezer and pantry, and slow life down just enough to notice how often spending has replaced presence.

In this episode, we talk about why this simple reset is so powerful. Saying no to consumerism builds self-control, margin, and connection. And it often leads to better conversations, more time together, and a surprising amount of peace. If you’ve felt stretched thin, distracted, or stuck on the spending treadmill, this February challenge might be exactly the reset your family needs. About Abraham’s Wallet: Abraham’s Wallet exists to inspire and equip Biblical family leaders. Please partner with us in inspiring and equipping multi-gen families at https://abrahamswallet.com/support AW website Apple Podcasts Spotify YouTube Facebook LinkedIn Instagram

• (00:00:00) - Lofeb
• (00:06:01) - February's Low-Dollar Budget
• (00:11:11) - One Week of Lo-Do
• (00:14:23) - Self-Control
• (00:20:20) - Lodofeb
• (00:25:46) - A Week of LodoFeb for Family Life
• (00:30:24) - Abraham's Wallet

This is Episode 2 of the Abrahamic Starter Kit, where we lay out what Scripture actually calls the primary mission of men: marry, multiply, and fill the earth. We return to Genesis 1 and 1 Corinthians 7 to challenge the idea that marriage and children are optional, secondary, or a distraction from “real” ministry. They aren’t. They are central to God’s design.

Whether you’re single, married, or already a dad, this episode resets the vision for family, fruitfulness, and legacy. We talk practically about how marriage must function differently when dominion—not comfort—is the goal. If you’re ready to stop drifting with culture and start building something that lasts for generations, this episode will rewire how you see your mission.

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• (00:00:00) - How to Be a Dad at Work
• (00:00:21) - Abraham's Wallet: The Starter Kit
• (00:02:19) - Episode 4
• (00:03:57) - Travel Lesson Learned from Cambodia
• (00:07:51) - The Two-Day Vacation
• (00:08:14) - Traveling with the Lord
• (00:09:22) - The Abrahamic Sticker Kit
• (00:10:09) - Dominion over all of creation
• (00:16:34) - The Mandate to Fill the Earth
• (00:22:04) - Paul Never Married and Never Had Kids
• (00:27:24) - "If You're Married, You're Choosing Marriage"
• (00:28:59) - Big Brother Advice for Newcomers
• (00:36:03) - Have A bunch of Kids!
• (00:42:44) - Sen. Rand Paul on infertility
• (00:43:09) - Big Brother Advice for Wealthy Families
• (00:47:08) - The Rotten Fruit of Avoiding This Mission
• (00:51:28) - The Home Office Family Unit Starter Kit

After the sudden loss of a close friend, we felt compelled to have a conversation most fathers avoid—but shouldn’t. In this episode, we talk honestly about preparing your family for the unthinkable. Not because money can ease grief (it can’t), but because wise preparation can remove unnecessary fear, confusion, and pressure when tragedy strikes.

This isn’t about morbid planning or living in fear. It’s about faithful stewardship and providing for your family which is what every father is responsible for. Loving your family means planning for both the future you hope for and the one you can’t predict. Links Mentioned in This Episode Policygenuis.com Survivors Guide: outpostadvisors.net/s/Survivors-Guide.pdf Donate to the Family of Joshua Perry: https://www.gofundme.com/f/honoring-joshua-perrys-memory-and-supporting-his-family Send a screenshot of your donation to mark@abrahamswallet.com for a matching donation

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• (00:00:00) - Be a Biblical Boss for Your Family
• (00:00:36) - Abraham's Wallet: Are You Ready to Die?
• (00:05:27) - Wonders of the World: Financial Planning
• (00:07:03) - How to Prepare for the Day You Die
• (00:07:52) - Should You Buy Life Insurance?
• (00:11:51) - The Story of Joseph and His Preparing for the Future
• (00:14:37) - Life Insurance, the 4% Rule
• (00:23:56) - Term Life Insurance
• (00:27:09) - What Would Be Very Hard If a Family Leader Were Dead?
• (00:30:11) - Have You Developed a Plan for If Your Wife Dies?
• (00:32:45) - What Happens If Your Death Was Due to Negligence?
• (00:35:08) - The Secret to a Successful Business Plan
• (00:38:00) - 5 Things You Need to Do Before You Die
• (00:40:54) - A Death Wish List for Family
• (00:45:29) - Widows and orphans need our help
• (00:51:27) - Family Preparedness for the 31st

Pop Christianity has sold families a version of faith that looks good on the surface, but quietly undermines God’s design for marriage, children, and legacy.

In this episode, Steven is joined by Jeff Davenport to expose 5 big lies threatening the biblical family and to introduce The Abrahamic Starter Kit—a short, no-fluff series designed to help Christian men step off the spiritual merry-go-round and start building multi-generational faithfulness.

This conversation is especially for dads who sense there’s more to biblical leadership but haven’t had the language or framework to articulate it yet. Stick around, and you’ll begin to see your family, faith, and future through a completely different lens. Links Mentioned in this Episode: Pagen Christianity The Open Church

About Abraham’s Wallet: Abraham’s Wallet exists to inspire and equip Biblical family leaders. Please partner with us in inspiring and equipping multi-gen families at https://abrahamswallet.com/support AW website Apple Podcasts Spotify YouTube Facebook LinkedIn Instagram

• (00:00:00) - The Abrahamic Starter Kit
• (00:03:04) - The Symbols of the Family
• (00:04:20) - 5 Big Lies That Threaten God's Design for Your Family
• (00:06:54) - He Deserves A Mission
• (00:14:09) - Wonders' gatherings and the Great Commission
• (00:22:40) - Hebrews 6: The Basic Skills
• (00:24:19) - The Pastor is the Real Spiritual Head of Your Home
• (00:29:55) - The Role of the Pastor in a Church
• (00:33:25) - Abrahamic Family Leader Lie #4
• (00:40:13) - Give to the Local Church House
• (00:42:57) - No Child Is a Burden
• (00:46:54) - Overvaluing Children in the Culture
• (00:50:00) - The fruit of the Pop Christian story
• (00:54:11) - The Problem with Church Services

What if the “safe” job you’re clinging to is actually holding you back from the calling God wired you for?

In this episode, Steven sits down with longtime friend and father of nine, Michael Beausejour,to unpack how an ordinary corporate employee stepped out in faith, built a thriving framing business from scratch, and provided more for his family than he ever imagined.

Michael wasn’t trained in construction. He wasn’t an entrepreneur. He had a demanding day job and a growing family. But he also had a God-given itch to build, create, and multiply—and he refused to ignore it.

Whether you’re dreaming about starting a business, just feeling stuck, or wondering how to take a faithful risk without blowing up your family’s stability, this conversation will give you the courage, clarity, and practical wisdom you need for faithful, fatherly, entrepreneurship.

• (00:00:00) - Abraham's Wallet
• (00:01:31) - Michael Buble on His Hockey Tournament
• (00:02:01) - The Amazing Transition From Full-Time Employee to Full Time Entrepreneur
• (00:08:24) - Michael Jackson on Becoming An ENFP
• (00:12:22) - Bradley on Starting His Own Business
• (00:18:44) - Many framers struggle to get jobs
• (00:19:47) - Starting Your Own Business in Your 20s
• (00:22:45) - How to Build a Work-Life Balance
• (00:24:32) - The Scariest Moment in My Business
• (00:29:29) - Married Men Talk About Responsibilities
• (00:30:58) - Leading a Large Business with Multiple Jobs this year
• (00:36:26) - Good Samaritan Tells Story of His Pro Golfer
• (00:36:49) - Amino on Side Businesses
• (00:39:20) - Abraham's Wallet: Prayer for Family Legacy

“I’ve been fired from four churches in five years because weak men can’t handle my masculinity.”

Yep. That’s a real tweet - and it’s the perfect picture of what happens when men refuse to take responsibility for their own failures.

In this episode, we break down why blame-shifting is destroying the credibility of Christian men, and why building a culture of accountability is essential if you want to lead your home, church, or community with integrity.

If you want to be a man your family trusts, your church respects, and God can use—this is where it starts.

About Abraham’s Wallet: Abraham’s Wallet exists to inspire and equip Biblical family leaders. Please partner with us in inspiring and equipping multi-gen families at https://abrahamswallet.com/support AW website Apple Podcasts Spotify YouTube Facebook LinkedIn Instagram

• (00:00:00) - Be a Biblical Boss
• (00:00:48) - Employee Complaints and the Economy
• (00:02:49) - Pastor Loses His Fourth Job in 5 Years
• (00:07:35) - This Pastor Lashes Out Over His Long Twitter Rant
• (00:11:26) - I Misspoke On The Sukkot Epistle
• (00:14:34) - Culture of Accountability and Reparation
• (00:15:50) - Proverbs: Open Rejection of Bad Parenting
• (00:19:48) - Galatians 6: For Brothers' Accountability
• (00:20:19) - What is Repentance?
• (00:25:24) - Holding Others to Accountability
• (00:26:01) - What Does a Leader Need to Be Like?
• (00:34:17) - The Culture of Accountability in a Church
• (00:40:38) - The Importance of Conviction, Humility and Openness
• (00:44:44) - Call to Action for Christians
• (00:46:53) - Look inward before you blame
• (00:50:22) - Abraham's Wallet

As the new year begins, this episode is a word of encouragement for Abrahamic fathers who are carrying more than most people ever see.

For the dads who shoulder responsibility quietly. For the husbands who keep showing up. For the men who serve God and their families faithfully—even when no one applauds.

It’s easy to lose sight of why we’re doing all of this.

In this special New Year’s address, Steven calls fathers back to their divine assignment: to love their wives as Christ loved the Church, to die daily for the good of their families, and to lead with sacrificial strength. This isn’t about hype or resolutions—it’s about faithfulness, holiness, and stewarding every area of life God has entrusted to you.

As we step into 2026, this is your reminder: what you do matters. Your obedience matters. Your quiet sacrifices matter.

The Kingdom starts at home.

About Abraham’s Wallet: Abraham’s Wallet exists to inspire and equip Biblical family leaders. Please partner with us in inspiring and equipping multi-gen families at https://abrahamswallet.com/support AW website Apple Podcasts Spotify YouTube Facebook LinkedIn Instagram

• (00:00:00) - A message for fathers in 2019
• (00:07:08) - 5 Spiritual Capitals That Matter
• (00:11:26) - Physical Capital and Financial Capital
• (00:16:26) - 365 Days of Fruitfulness for You
• (00:19:50) - God's Blessing for You in 2026