They didn’t leave Jesus… they left the church.

A growing number of Christians still believe, still pray, and still love Jesus—but they’ve quietly walked away from church. They’re often called “the Dones.”

In this episode of Beyond the Numbers, I explore:

- why so many people never returned after the pandemic

- what Acts 2 reveals about the church God intended

- why community is something we desperately need even after being hurt.

If you’re a pastor, ministry leader, volunteer, or someone who has experienced church hurt, this conversation is for you.

Because maybe the question isn’t…

“How do we get people back?”

Maybe it’s…

“What are we inviting them back to?”

👇 Join the conversation in the comments:

Have you ever considered yourself one of the “Dones”?

What would healthy church look like to you?

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Chapters

00:00 The Rise of the “Dones”

01:56 What are the “Dones?”

03:10 Why people stopped coming back

05:05 Church isn’t Netflix

06:30 When leaving is healthy

08:00 What Acts 2 actually looked like

10:48 Why isolated faith eventually collapses

11:50 The community that carried me

14:42 The Lost Sheep

16:16 Would we notice they were gone?

17:26 What are we inviting people back to?

19:36 To those who left church

20:47 A challenge for every church leader

22:05 Final challenge

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A youth pastor gets asked to step down. Not because he failed. Not because students stopped growing. Because leadership decided he'd aged out.

I've had this same conversation multiple times over the last six months. And it's just one symptom of something bigger.

The church has started caring more about how things look than how healthy they actually are.

In this episode I'm sharing three real stories: a worship pastor hired for optics who felt used from day one, a church that bought me brand name shirts because I gave the wrong image, and the prosperity theology that turns poverty into a spiritual failure. And then we look at the one model that actually works the one Jesus gave us.

This is for the leaders who've been discarded because of optics. For the ones who've been doing the hiring and know it. And for every church that's drifted from health into image management without noticing.

📌 TIMESTAMPS

0:00 — Coming Up

0:15 — The Youth Pastor Who Aged Out (Cold Open)

3:02 — Welcome to Beyond the Numbers

3:30 — What Is the Optics Problem?

5:12 — Three Stories

5:15 — Story 1: The Worship Pastor Who Felt Used

7:24 — He Knew Why He Was Really Hired

8:05 — Story 2: The Church That Bought My Clothes

10:11 — Story 3: The Poverty Curse Theology

11:44 — What Optics-Driven Ministry Actually Costs

12:50 — The Model Jesus Actually Used

13:00 — He Healed People and Told Them to Keep It Quiet

14:06 — He Disappeared at His Most Popular

15:18 — He Said Things That Emptied Rooms

16:18 — He Went to the Outcasts Without Caring What It Cost Him

18:24 — Four Ways to Build Something Better

22:21 — For the Leader Who Was Discarded

24:21 — For the Leader Who Did the Discarding

26:00 — The Question to Sit With This Week

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The church is trending. Not for miracles. Not for lives being changed. For scandals, cover-ups, and corruption. And the question no one is asking is — why does this keep happening?

In this episode I'm not pointing fingers at specific people or piling on. I'm asking a harder question: what did we quietly discard that was supposed to protect us from this?

The answer is two things. Discernment and integrity. And I think losing both of them is connected to something most of us didn't even notice happening.

This episode is for pastors, ministry leaders, church staff, and anyone who loves the church enough to ask the hard questions.

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📌 TIMESTAMPS

0:00 — Church, What Is Going On? (Cold Open)

1:16 — Welcome to Beyond the Numbers

2:00 — How Did We Get Here?

3:09 — Is This a New Problem or an Old One Finally Exposed?

4:10 — The Two Things We Quietly Discarded

5:00 — The Entertainment Drift (And How I Fell Into It)

7:34 — Discernment: What We Lost

8:00 — What Scripture Says About Discernment

9:57 — The Gatekeepers Who Left the Gate Open

11:00 — The Copy-Paste Student (And What It Taught Me About the Word)

12:27 — Integrity: Who You Are at Midnight

13:10 — The Cover-Up Culture

14:29 — Is There Anything You're Hoping Doesn't Get Found Out?

15:00 — Three Ways to Rebuild Integrity

18:00 — For the Ones Who Were Hurt By a Leader

20:00 — The Church Is in a Moment — Here's What I Think Is Happening

21:30 — Two Questions to Write Down This Week

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One of the most impactful ministry moments I ever had happened in a baseball stadium… and almost nobody knows about it.

In a culture obsessed with views, followers, platform growth, and recognition, it’s easy for pastors, youth leaders, and volunteers to believe that ministry only matters when people notice.

But what if the moments that change lives the most are the ones no one ever sees?

In this episode of Beyond the Numbers, I share some stories from student ministry:

-Including a hospital visit at 2:30 AM

-A simple baseball game that changed a student’s life

-and the hidden moments that shaped his ministry more than any sermon ever could.

If you’ve ever felt overlooked, exhausted, or wondered if your work is making a difference, this conversation is for you.

Because heaven doesn’t measure ministry by views.

It measures it by faithfulness.

👇 Share your own quiet ministry story in the comments.

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TIMESTAMPS

00:00 The Ministry Moment Nobody Saw

00:25 Why Quiet Ministry Matters

02:28 A Baseball Game That Changed Everything

04:43 Ministry Isn’t About Recognition

06:58 The Comparison Trap

07:49 Serving in the Shadows

09:16 The 2:30 AM Hospital Call

12:23 Presence Over Performance

13:04 Jesus and the Woman at the Well

15:45 A Challenge for Every Ministry Leader

16:48 Celebrating Quiet Ministry

18:05 Next Week’s Episode Preview

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Next Week:

For our next "Voices From the Field," I’m sitting down with Fernando and Faith. They are a husband-and-wife team currently planting a church in New Mexico, and their journey of following God's call is as real and raw as it gets. From leading large camps and student ministries to navigating battles with cancer and celebrating unexpected blessings, their story is a masterclass in faith and resilience.

You absolutely won't want to miss this one. Hit that subscribe button and turn on notifications so you don't miss the drop!

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When did so many pastors become... Unouchable

What happened to the role of the pastor?

Somewhere along the way, access was replaced with distance… and shepherds started looking more like CEOs. We cared more about the look, and status than Christian leadership, and being caring church leaders.

In this episode of Beyond the Numbers, we dive into the tension between platform and presence, growth and discipleship, and ministry wise, ask a hard question:

Are we still building people… or just building systems?

Next week, Voices From the Field returns with JonMark Baker from Minor Prophets as we dig deeper into celebrity culture, leadership, and the tension between building platforms and shepherding people.

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⏱ CHAPTERS

0:00 The moment everything shifted

1:17 Welcome to Season 3

2:00 Shepherd vs CEO

5:22 Have we traded presence for platform?

7:02 Jesus and the outcasts

8:20 Is this model working?

9:31 The heart check

10:57 Have we redefined “pastor”?

11:32 A call back to shepherding

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Sometimes the biggest move of God happens when nobody is watching.

In this episode of Beyond the Numbers, I sat down with Fernando and Faith to talk about leaving visible ministry, walking through cancer, stepping away from platform culture, and learning what it really means to trust God in the quiet seasons.

From running massive youth camps to planting a church in New Mexico with no guarantees, this conversation is raw, honest, emotional, and deeply needed for ministry leaders wrestling with calling, burnout, identity, and faith.

If you’ve ever wondered:

* “Did God forget me?”

* “Why does God keep slowing me down?”

* “What if ministry became my identity?”

* “How do I know when to step out in faith?”

…this episode is for you.

Whether you’re a youth pastor, church leadership, volunteer, church planter, or someone simply trying to follow God faithfully, this conversation will challenge and encourage you.

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Time Stamps

00:00 – Coming Up

00:42 – From Big Stages to Church Planting

03:00 – The Diagnosis That Changed Everything

07:17 – When God Says “Not Yet”

09:23 – The Fear of Stepping Out

16:23 – From Platform Ministry to Quiet Ministry

18:45 – When Ministry Becomes Identity

22:13 – Beyond the Numbers

23:34 – Small Wins That Matter Most

27:05 – How to Step Out in Faith

29:10 – Stop Reading the Manual

30:23 – Final Encouragement + New Story Church

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Podcast: https://rss.com/podcasts/the-new-story-podcast/2747688/

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Most pastors don’t start ministry wanting to build a machine.

But somewhere along the way, it’s easy for church leadership to become more about growth, performance, numbers, platforms, and pressure… than actually making disciples.

In this conversation with JonMark Baker from the Minor Prophets podcast, we talk honestly about:

• Shepherds vs CEOs in the church

• When church goals become unhealthy

• Why discipleship often gets replaced by performance

• The danger of building ministry identity instead of Christ-centered identity

• How pastors can check their hearts before burnout or pride takes over

This wasn’t a “call-out” conversation, but more of a heart check for all of us.

If you’re in ministry, leading volunteers, serving in church, or just wrestling with what healthy leadership actually looks like… this conversation matters.

Watch the full episode and let me know what stood out to you most.

If you found this helpful, you need to check out JonMark’s work over at the Minor Prophets Podcast. I listen to his show regularly it’s some of the most honest, high-accountability content for leaders out there right now. It will definitely help you keep your Shepherd’s Heart in check.

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CHAPTERS:

00:00 – Intro + Why This Conversation Matters

02:20 – Shepherds vs CEOs

04:48 – The Real Goal of the Church

07:10 – When Leaders Build Identity on Performance

10:54 – The Difference Between Leadership and Love

15:25 – Are Churches Actually Making Disciples?

19:50 – Why Mentorship Is Missing

24:51 – Questions Every Leader Should Ask

27:19 – The Biblical Model of Shepherding

32:34 – How Leaders Can Check Their Hearts

35:39 – Final Thoughts + Encouragement

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Why do so many pastors and ministry leaders feel lonely — even when they’re surrounded by people?

In this episode of Beyond the Numbers, We talk about one of the most overlooked struggles in ministry: friendship.

Ministry is deeply relational. Your calendar is full. Your Sundays are packed. Your phone never stops buzzing. And yet… being surrounded isn’t the same as being known.

In this episode, we explore:

• Why pastors struggle to build real friendships

• The connection between isolation and burnout

• How leadership roles quietly damage relationships

• Why “lone wolf” ministry is unbiblical

• What healthy, durable friendships actually look like

• How to build friendships without oversharing or losing boundaries

If you’ve ever felt alone in ministry…

If you’ve watched relationships fade when roles changed…

If you’ve wondered why leadership feels isolating…

This conversation is for you.

You were never designed to carry spiritual responsibility alone.

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Where has it been hard?

Drop a comment below.

Because sustainable ministry requires sustainable relationships.

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