Just releasing a lot of emotions. This New Moon transitioning from Aquarius into Pisces along with the new lunar year of the fire horse is doing a lot. Plus, I’m really tired from the three days of discounted readings so I’m in bed creating faceless content. I just wanted to have a conversation about chasing. We shouldn’t have to chase men. Especially when we believe in magic.

Black women shouldn’t have to prove themselves to random people on the Internet. I am not sacrificing my safety to seek approval.

Conjure with your coochie. Don’t let this colonizer nonsense stop your sacral flow. Pleasure helps people tap into their power. Desire is not demonic.

Stop this “shut my brain off” bullsh**. Husbands are husbands. Fathers are fathers. Men are not life insurance policies. Neither is marriage! I don’t understand why people want to repeat the past that their ancestors wished and worked so hard to escape from.

Dear Big Mouth Mermaid,

How do you know if you’re being spiritually abused?

I just needed to share a really traumatizing short-lived friendship I recently escaped. I figured I couldn’t be the only person who’s ever dealt with this type of problem. Sometimes it’s therapeutic to know that you’re not alone and that you have also experienced the same atrocity. But this manipulative mf plans on becoming a therapist. Praying that she’s stopped before ever being able to practice.

Thank you for the support. I figured I would explain myself to those that might not always understand. But honestly, the only people who will understand are the ones who deserve to.

I am a Scorpio sun, Capricorn, moon, and Sagittarius rising.

I cannot do clingy and I cannot do containment.

Dear Big Mouth Mermaid,

How do you deal with psychological warfare in competitive environments? How do you send to yourself and play up your strengths to combat it?