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Dear Bri: Community Strategy, Fiascos, and Drama

Dear Bri: Community Strategy, Fiascos, and Drama

Written by: Bri Leever Community Consultant Strategist and Founder at Ember.
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Welcome to Dear Bri, an advice column for community conundrums, fiascos, and drama! In each episode, host and community strategist Bri Leever invites a guest community expert to respond to an anonymous letter from a real-life community creator in distress. From online community-building mishaps to community engagement tactics gone awry, this podcast delivers relatable stories and sound community strategy for navigating the chaos of digital communities—all with empathy, expertise, and a touch of drama. The mission? Helping community managers and community creators feel a little less crazy and a lot less alone while building thriving brand communities. You're in the right place if you are... 🐣 Community Curious: Creators or brands exploring the benefits of a community-powered business. Learn the fundamentals of community strategy for online businesses, and discover how to build an online community from scratch. 🐥 Community Hatchlings: Newcomers to community building seeking guidance and support. Get tips on how to grow a paid community, avoid common mistakes in community building, and build trust through smart community roles and responsibilities. 🦅 Senior Community Folks: Seasoned pros facing complex dilemmas. Explore topics like managing community drama, setting boundaries in digital communities, and advanced community retention strategies. Dear Bri combines relatable storytelling with expert community strategy, making it a unique and valuable resource for community managers and creators. Episodes provide the most up-to-date community management practices, common mistakes to avoid in community building, the best community engagement tactics I've seen, tips on setting boundaries and building trust in online communities, and of course, a touch of community drama to keep things interesting and fun! Community creators listening to Dear Bri will feel a little less alone in the important work of community building and a whole lot less crazy as each episode normalizes and provides strategic insights for some of the toughest online community scenarios. Whether you're curious about building a community, just starting out, or a seasoned professional looking for advanced advice, Dear Bri has something for you. Episodes drop weekly on Tuesday. Hit the follow button so you don't miss out! Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.© 2026 Dear Bri: Community Strategy, Fiascos, and Drama Economics Marketing Marketing & Sales
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  • Great Community Engagement Starts With Asking a Different Question
    Jul 14 2026

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    Engagement isn't something that happens organically. It's something you design for.

    In this episode of Dear Bri, we're diving into one of the most misunderstood topics in community building: engagement. Most community owners focus on tactics, posting more content, creating discussion prompts, or trying to motivate members, but those solutions often miss the real issue.

    Drawing on BJ Fogg's habit-formation research, I walk you through the two hidden forces that influence member behavior in every online community. You'll learn how both affect participation, why members often stop engaging without realizing why, and how small design decisions can dramatically change community outcomes.

    Finally, I'll share the three-question Community Engagement Recipe I use to diagnose and improve engagement issues in any community, no matter its size or business model.

    If you're tired of posting into the void, wondering why your members aren't participating, or looking for a more strategic approach to community engagement, this episode is for you.


    ⏳ Timestamps

    00:00:00 | Why "How do I get engagement?" is the wrong question

    00:02:23 | The question you should ask instead

    00:02:59 | Why community engagement is a design problem

    00:03:42 | BJ Fogg's habit formation model and how that translates into digital community design

    00:07:13 | A real community engagement case study

    00:11:57 | The Community Engagement Recipe [Framework]

    00:15:52 | Full recap


    📌 Resources Mentioned

    S3E1: https://youtu.be/6SvqnZJojTo

    4 Types of Community - The Masterclass: https://preview.mailerlite.io/forms/775267/185716772091987335/share

    52 Prompts for Engagement: https://dashboard.mailerlite.com/forms/775267/151824965371429968/share

    Designing for Great Engagement Miniseries: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NA_cxyCo_r0&list=PLOOwTnL2Q6sY84bv-3McIQWfygPwIpv2r&index=3

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    18 mins
  • How much should I charge for my membership community? I don’t want to blow it!
    Jul 7 2026

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    Pricing your community isn’t just about revenue. It shapes the kind of members you attract, how they engage, and whether your community actually creates transformation.

    In this episode of Dear Bri, I’m breaking down the biggest myths around community pricing and why common strategies like free trials, low-ticket memberships, and tiered entry points often backfire. Because when pricing isn’t aligned with your community strategy, it can quietly erode the energy, retention, and results inside your space.

    I also walk you through the “pricing compass” framework I use with clients to help them confidently choose a price point that aligns with their business model, their goals, and the transformation they want members to experience.

    You’ll learn why low prices don’t always lower the barrier to entry, how membership tiers can accidentally create disengaged lurkers, and the one question you should ask before designing any offer or onboarding experience.


    ⏳ Timestamps

    00:00:00 | Why community pricing matters more than you think

    00:01:08 | Myth #1: Free trials get people in the door

    00:02:29 | Myth #2: A lower price point will be easier to sell

    00:03:45 | Myth #3: Start with a lower tier and members will upgrade

    00:08:18 | Introducing the “pricing compass” [Framework]

    00:12:00 | Monthly vs quarterly vs annual pricing

    00:13:32 | The question that changes everything

    00:15:37 | Full recap


    📌 Resources Mentioned

    Episode with Diana Davis: https://www.emberconsulting.co/post/17-creating-a-community-that-doesn-t-rely-on-you-with-diana-davis

    4 Types of Community - The Masterclass: https://preview.mailerlite.io/forms/775267/185716772091987335/share

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    19 mins
  • My freemium community isn’t working… Did I do something wrong?
    Jun 30 2026

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    “Start with a free community, then upsell people into your paid offer.”

    Sounds smart, right? It’s one of the most common community growth strategies out there, and in this episode of Dear Bri, I’m explaining why it usually backfires.

    I break down the biggest flaw in the freemium community model, why mixing your audience and alumni in the same space creates confusion instead of connection, and what actually drives engagement inside a paid community.

    You’ll also hear real client examples, including how one nonprofit community generated 78 paying members in its first two weeks by offering people a “taste” of the experience instead of unlimited free access.

    If you’ve been wondering whether your community should be free or paid, how to structure your offer ecosystem, or why your community engagement feels flat, this episode will help you rethink your strategy before you build the wrong thing.


    ⏳ Timestamps

    00:00:00 | Why Freemium Communities Rarely Work

    00:01:15 | The Problem With Mixing Alumni and Audience

    00:04:18 | The Myth: Understanding Good Community Strategy

    00:05:14 | Charging for Community Changes Member Behavior

    00:07:34 | Replace Your Freemium Strategy with This [Framework]

    00:10:37 | Full Recap


    📌 Resources Mentioned

    Join the email list: https://www.emberconsulting.co/newsletter

    Ligare Case Study: https://www.emberconsulting.co/post/case-study-launching-a-thriving-membership-community-on-heartbeat-from-idea-to-78-members-in

    4 Types of Community - The Masterclass: https://preview.mailerlite.io/forms/775267/185716772091987335/share

    S3E5 How much should I charge for my membership community? https://www.emberconsulting.co/post/how-to-price-a-paid-community

    Season 1 episode with Alli Ball: https://www.emberconsulting.co/post/if-i-build-it-how-do-i-make-sure-they-come-with-alli-ball-founder-ceo-of-food-biz-wiz

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    15 mins
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