If you’re coming into 2026 already feeling behind, this episode is for you.

In this episode, Taniel invites you to pause before diving into another year of goals, resolutions, and self-improvement pressure. Instead of trying harder or fixing yourself, this conversation explores why real change starts with capacity, not discipline - especially for working moms carrying invisible emotional and mental loads.

You’ll hear why pressure and self-attack keep us stuck, how your nervous system responds to criticism, and what it actually takes to create movement that feels sustainable instead of exhausting.

This episode sets the foundation for the next two conversations on procrastination and guilt - two patterns that are often misunderstood but deeply meaningful.

In this episode, we cover:

• Why January doesn’t always feel hopeful
• The hidden cost of starting the year from self-attack
• Why your nervous system shuts down under pressure
• What “doing it differently” actually looks like in 2026
• Three simple rules to support sustainable change

Free Resource:

Download the free 5-Minute Calming Hypnosis Audio - a gentle nervous system reset for overwhelmed moms: https://tanielstrydom.com/5-min-calming-reset-audio

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If you’ve ever started Monday with colour-coded to-do lists and ended the week hiding from your inbox, this episode is going to sting a little… in a helpful way.

In this episode, Taniel talks about why “I just need more willpower” is one of the biggest lies women tell themselves – especially working moms who are already running on fumes. We’re breaking down why you can’t “discipline” your way out of survival mode, and what your nervous system and subconscious are actually trying to do when you procrastinate, self-sabotage, or “fall off the wagon.”

You’ll hear why your patterns are often protection, not failure, why your brain will always prioritise safety over goals, and what to focus on instead: safety, capacity, and self-trust.

This is not another productivity pep talk. It’s a reality check on why willpower keeps letting you down – and a practical guide to what genuinely helps you follow through in a life that’s already full.

What You’ll Hear:

• Why “I just need more discipline” is a trap
• How your nervous system quietly overrides your willpower
• The difference between laziness and protection
• Subtle signs you’re in survival mode (not flaky or inconsistent)
• What actually works: safety, nervous system regulation, and small honest moves

This episode is for you if:

• You start strong… then crash and burn on every plan
• You think you’re “bad at consistency”
• You keep calling it procrastination, but deep down it feels heavier
• You’re tired of feeling like a grown woman who still needs someone to “keep her accountable”

Free Resource:

Download your free 5-Minute Calming Hypnosis Audio – a gentle nervous system reset for overwhelmed moms.

👉 https://tanielstrydom.com/5-min-calming-reset-audio

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The invisible load isn’t the dishes, the errands, or the lunchboxes - it’s the mental and emotional weight of carrying everything for everyone, all the time.

In this episode, Taniel breaks down what the invisible load really looks like, why working moms are more overwhelmed than ever, and how this constant mental labor quietly drains our energy, identity, and nervous system.

Dr Gabor Maté recently said this is “the hardest time to be a mother since World War II,” and honestly… the evidence is everywhere. Mothers are expected to work like they don’t have children and parent like they don’t have jobs. And that pressure shows up in our minds, our bodies, and our emotional capacity.

You’ll learn how to name the load you’re carrying, why your body feels constantly braced, and how to start putting down the parts that were never meant to be yours alone.

What You’ll Hear:

• What the invisible load actually is
• Why today’s motherhood culture is heavier than ever
• How the mental load impacts your nervous system
• The emotional residue no one talks about
• Simple shifts to lighten the weight and get your capacity back

This episode is for you if:

• You feel responsible for everything
• You’re tired even after sleeping
• Your mind never switches off
• You want to feel lighter, calmer, and connected to yourself again

Free Resource:

Download your free 5-Minute Calming Hypnosis Audio - a gentle nervous system reset for overwhelmed moms.

👉 tanielstrydom.com/5-min-calming-reset-audio

➡️ Episode page: https://tanielstrydom.com/the-invisible-load-of-working-moms

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That sinking feeling on Sunday night?

It’s not just “Sunday Scaries.”

It’s your body bracing for survival.

In this episode, Taniel shares her personal experience with the Sunday night anxiety spiral and explains why it’s not about dreading Monday - it’s your nervous system remembering past stress.

You’ll learn how to decode what that anxiety is trying to tell you, what it needs instead of control, and simple ways to bring your body back to calm before the week begins.

What You’ll Hear:

• The real reason moms dread Sunday nights
• How your body “time travels” into stress
• What your anxiety is actually trying to tell you
• Gentle ways to interrupt the spiral and find calm
• A powerful mindset reframe that makes Monday feel lighter

This episode is for you if:

• You dread Sunday nights because your mind won’t switch off
• You start the week already exhausted or anxious
• You want to stop over-preparing and start feeling safe in your body again

Free Resource:

Download your 5-Minute Calming Hypnosis Audio - a free nervous system reset to help you feel grounded before Monday.

👉 tanielstrydom.com/5-min-calming-reset-audio

➡️ Episode page: https://tanielstrydom.com/sunday-night-anxiety-spiral-for-moms

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We’ve all had those moments - the ones where you lose your cool, yell louder than you meant to, and then feel that crushing wave of guilt.

But what if those reactions weren’t really your fault?

What if your body was just doing what it was designed to do - protect you?

In this episode, Taniel unpacks what’s really happening when you snap at your kids and why it has more to do with your nervous system than your patience.

You’ll learn how stress and overstimulation push your body into fight-or-flight mode, why guilt keeps you stuck in the same cycle, and how to begin teaching your body that calm is safe again.

This isn’t about being the perfect mom - it’s about understanding your body, repairing with compassion, and finding your way back to calm when life feels loud.

What You’ll Hear:

• The real reason you snap - and why it’s not your fault
• How your nervous system reacts to overwhelm and chaos
• Why guilt keeps you stuck in the same emotional loop
• Simple ways to reset and repair after you’ve lost your cool
• How to start teaching your body what safety and calm feel like again

This episode is for you if:

• You find yourself snapping or yelling, then drowning in guilt afterward
• You’re tired of feeling reactive, overstimulated, or constantly “on edge”
• You want to understand how your nervous system shapes your emotions
• You’re craving more patience, peace, and connection with your kids

Free Resource:

Download your free 5-Minute Calming Hypnosis Audio - a gentle reset to help you regulate your nervous system and return to calm, even on the busiest days.

👉 tanielstrydom.com/5-min-calming-reset-audio

Connect:

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In this episode, we explore what happens when survival mode stops being a temporary response and becomes your everyday normal.

Taniel shares her personal story of living in constant “go mode,” how her body forgot what calm felt like, and the small, gentle shifts that helped her rebuild safety, peace, and presence from the inside out.

This isn’t about doing more — it’s about doing less, on purpose. If you’ve been holding it all together for everyone else and feel like you’ve lost touch with yourself, this episode will remind you that you’re not broken — you’re healing.

What You’ll Hear:

• The hidden ways survival mode shows up in daily life
• Why your body stays “on” even when you want peace
• What it really means to re-teach your nervous system safety
• Small, realistic ways to start feeling calm again
• How healing often looks slower, softer, and more real than you expect

This episode is especially for you if:

• You’re constantly “on,” even when exhausted
• Rest feels uncomfortable or unearned
• You’re ready to feel calm, safe, and in control again

Free Resource: Join the waitlist for my 5-Minute Calming Hypnosis Audio — designed to help your body remember what safety feels like again: tanielstrydom.com/5-min-calming-reset-audio

Connect with Taniel:

➡️ Episode page: https://tanielstrydom.com/what-to-do-when-survival-mode-becomes-your-default

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Episode Summary:

In my last episode, I shared the moment I realized I didn’t recognize myself anymore.

But what happens after that?

After you leave the job, the role, the relationship, the version of yourself that was built in survival?

This episode is about that in-between place—the one no one talks about.

Where everything is finally quiet… and instead of peace, you feel panic.

Where your nervous system doesn’t know how to rest, because for so long, it only knew how to survive.

If you’ve ever slowed down and felt lost instead of relieved, this one’s for you.

What You’ll Hear:

• What survival mode really feels like (and why it often goes unnoticed)
• Why stillness can feel threatening, even when it’s what you crave
• The small rituals that helped me reconnect with myself
• How I discovered nervous system + subconscious healing out of necessity
• What healing actually looks and feels like (hint: it’s not always a glow-up)

This episode is especially for you if:

• You’ve “made it out” but don’t feel better yet
• Rest feels uncomfortable, unfamiliar, or even unsafe
• You want to heal, but nothing seems to stick
• You’re craving calm, clarity, and connection — but feel stuck in the in-between

Join the waitlist to receive a free calming hypnosis audio, designed to help your body feel safe again — even in the middle of a chaotic day: https://tanielstrydom.com/5-min-calming-reset-audio/

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There was a moment—7 months pregnant, sitting in my home office after a leadership call—that I realized I didn’t recognize myself anymore.

I was successful. Respected. In a senior role at a global company. But I was also exhausted, silenced, and pushed so far beyond my edge that my body went into early labor just two days later.

This episode is not just about corporate burnout—it’s about what happens when we abandon ourselves to survive in toxic environments, and how we begin the journey back to the woman we used to be.

What You’ll Hear:

• The slow unraveling behind professional success
• A traumatic meeting that sent me into early labor
• How I lost myself—and what helped me find my voice again
• Why burnout is not a mindset issue, it’s a nervous system response
• A gentle invitation to reclaim your calm

This episode is especially for you if:

• You're stuck in a high-pressure job that’s draining your energy or identity
• You feel anxious at the thought of another Monday
• You've normalized survival mode but know something has to change
• You want to feel calm, safe, and confident again—but don’t know where to start

✨ Join the waitlist to receive a free calming hypnosis audio, designed to help you reset your nervous system and reconnect with your true self: https://tanielstrydom.com/5-min-calming-reset-audio/

➡️ Episode page: https://tanielstrydom.com/the-moment-i-didnt-recognize-myself/

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