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Divorce Curious

Divorce Curious

Written by: Lisa Mitchell
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Divorce-Curious is where we say the quiet parts out loud as we get real about all the things that come with deciding if you should get a divorce. Divorce-Curious conversations cover everything from the "how did I end up here?" confusion to the "I'm a married single parent" anger to the "we never have sex" frustration and all the financial, legal and logistical pieces that come with considering a divorce. So how do you decide the next best step for you? Listen and find out.

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Episodes
  • Hate Your Husband Suddenly? It Might Be Perimenopause ft. Alyx Coble-Frakes
    Jan 8 2026

    Perimenopause & Divorce: why everyone should care about this.

    It can seem like most of our lives as women, we are being controlled by a mysterious power behind the scenes: our periods!

    And we're really not wrong for feeling that way. On this episode of the Divorce Curious podcast, I'm joined by the founder of The Agenda Period, Alyx Coble-Frakes, and she is dropping some seriously fascinating knowledge on us about how our cycles impact every part of our lives, including and especially our relationships.

    Did you know that 70% of all divorces are filed by women who are in perimenopause? That's just one of the suprising pieces of data that Alyx shares in this episode as we discuss the impact of perimenopause on relationships and so much more!

    Give it a listen, leave me a comment, and share this episode with the women and men in your life.

    Connect with Alyx Coble-Frakes

    www.theagendaperiod.com

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    Bio:

    Alyx Coble-Frakes is a femtech founder, speaker, and creator of The Agenda., the cycle-based planning platform helping women reclaim their health, energy, and productivity. She is a regular media guest across local and national television and podcasts, known for making the menstrual cycle relatable, actionable, and empowering — especially during the often-ignored perimenopause transition.

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    54 mins
  • The Empty Stocking Problem: How To Communicate Your Way Out of Disappointment
    Dec 20 2025

    Unmet needs in a relationship create resentment.

    Few times make that as apparent as the holidays as social media illustrates with tens of thousands of women sharing their stories of how they are so often forgotten at Christmas and find themselves met with an empty stocking on Christmas morning. This, after having poured their heart, soul, money and sometimes sanity, into making the holidays magical for their partner and families.

    The empty stocking has come to symbolize a deeper issue that many women are having, the struggle between feeling like they shouldn't have to remind their partners or families to think of them versus the hurt and anger that comes from being continually disappointed.

    It doesn't have to be this way. There's another option: communicating your needs and expectations clearly and giving your partner the opportunity to succeed.

    In this episode, Lisa shares a framework to help get more of the thoughtfulness and outcomes that you want, and less of the hurt and frustration that you don't want.


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    29 mins
  • Perimenopause, Divorce & 1 Burning Question: Is Having A Boyfriend Embarrassing?
    Nov 3 2025

    Season 2 of the Divorce Curious is coming hot! Literally.

    We're going to be tackling it all: from the growing discussion around the intersection of perimenopause and divorce and what the experts on this topic have to say, to the latest hot take from Vogue that having a boyfriend is embarrassing now and all of the fiery topics in between.

    I'm excited to get to introduce you to all of the incredible people that will be sitting down with me this season to share their wisdom, perspective and stories in hope that you'll feel good about making the next best decision for you on your divorce curious journey.

    Have a topic that you're burning to know more about? Drop me a message at lisa@divorcecurioushelp.com or slide into my DMs @divorcecurioushelp and let me know!


    Takeaways
    The intersection of perimenopause and the rate of divorce are a hot topic these days (even Oprah is talking about it!)

    You don't need to apologize for being happily partnered or happily single


    There is a cultural shift from being proud for being partnered to being proud of being single

    Happiness and success are individualized concepts.








    TEXT ME! Let me know what you think of this episode or what topics you would like to see covered next!

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    Have a comment for me or a topic you want to see covered on the podcast? Email me at lisa@divorceecurioushelp.com

    Connect with me on Instagram at @divorcecurioushelp

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    17 mins
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