Episodes

  • Closing the Deal Isn't the End of the Relationship (It's the Beginning)
    May 4 2026

    If you think your sales team costs more than they're worth, this episode is for you. Scaling back is one of the most expensive decisions a business owner can make, and the numbers back me up.

    I’m sharing what you should do instead to see ROI from your sales team, how one of my clients doubled their conversion rate with one small change, and the three things you need to do for every customer so they’ll stay loyal to your business long-term.

    If your sales team needs help with closing deals *and* retaining customers, visit my website to reach out about working together: https://rebeccakilday.com/podcast-2/

    Most sales podcasts give you more tactics. This one proves you don’t need them.

    I’m Rebecca Kilday, and Don’t Just Sell is the podcast where your sales career gets easier when you quit selling like you’ve been trained, and start selling like yourself.

    Produced by SpeakEasy Productions.

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    9 mins
  • Don't Change Your Swing When You're in a Sales Slump
    Apr 20 2026

    Everyone in sales knows the feeling: leads dry up, yeses turn to maybes, and suddenly you’re questioning everything. For us women, it can be even worse because when we hit a slump, we're tempted to overhaul everything and start from scratch. But that’s actually making it worse!

    In this episode, I’m sharing how to bust your sales slump and have more sustained hot streaks. You’ll hear about a client of mine who just went through this exact situation, how I helped her overcome her doubts, and why optimism (not positivity) was the secret key to success.

    If you’re ready to take it one step further, I’m sharing my free Resilience Builder workbook. Download it here: https://www.canva.com/design/DAGUVCZL0E4/jyJv-PFh9GQf0i_zqbQpwA/view

    Or, if you want personalized support, reach out about my coaching program: rebeccakilday.com

    Most sales podcasts give you more tactics. This one proves you don’t need them.

    I’m Rebecca Kilday, and Don’t Just Sell is the podcast where your sales career gets easier when you quit selling like you’ve been trained, and start selling like yourself.

    Produced by SpeakEasy Productions.

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    10 mins
  • Ditch the Script (Your Own Words Work Better!)
    Apr 6 2026

    Most companies hand their sales reps a script because they don't trust them to know what to say. If you've ever read those words out loud and thought “this doesn't sound like me,” you're right. It doesn't.

    Most sales scripts were written by men, for men, and women in sales are left trying to make someone else's words fit.

    But when you're focused on reciting the right words, you stop listening to your prospect, and that's exactly when you lose the sale.

    This episode will change how you think about:

    • What a script is actually signaling to your prospects
    • The difference between reciting words and making a real connection
    • Why your own words are more powerful than anything you've been handed

    This episode is for you if you're ready to stop sounding like every other sales person, and start sounding more like yourself.

    If you’d like help rewriting your scripts, this is exactly what I help my 1:1 coaching clients with. Use this link to reach out about working with me! https://rebeccakilday.com/podcast-2/

    Most sales podcasts give you more tactics. This one proves you don’t need them.

    I’m Rebecca Kilday, and Don’t Just Sell is the podcast where your sales career gets easier when you quit selling like you’ve been trained, and start selling like yourself.

    Produced by SpeakEasy Productions.

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    9 mins
  • Being Polite is Costing You Sales (You're Allowed to Follow Up!)
    Mar 23 2026

    Most women in sales aren't struggling with follow-up because they don't know how. They're struggling because they don't want to be a bother.

    Your instinct to be considerate (while completely understandable) is quietly costing you deals that were already yours to close.

    If you're ready to stop letting politeness get in the way of your pipeline, this episode is for you.

    You'll learn:

    • Why the follow-up gap has nothing to do with your skills
    • What the data says about how many touchpoints it actually takes to close
    • How to build a follow-up cadence that feels personal, not pushy

    This is exactly what I help my 1:1 coaching clients with. Use this link to reach out about working with me! https://rebeccakilday.com/podcast-2/

    Most sales podcasts give you more tactics. This one proves you don’t need them.

    I’m Rebecca Kilday, and Don’t Just Sell is the podcast where your sales career gets easier when you quit selling like you’ve been trained, and start selling like yourself.

    Produced by SpeakEasy Productions.

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    11 mins
  • You're Losing Sales And It's Not Your Competition's Fault
    Mar 9 2026

    You've been taught to know your competition inside and out. Know their offer, know their clients, know what car they drive. The more you know, the better your chances of winning the sale.

    But what if that obsession is the very thing costing you deals?

    If you’re ready to funnel your energy from your competition to your prospects, this episode was made just for you.

    You’ll learn:

    • How knowing your competition too well is actually working against you
    • Why a scarcity mindset burns out saleswomen faster than any quota ever could
    • What your prospects have been waiting for you to do instead

    Use this link to get in touch with me about bringing this training to your organization: https://rebeccakilday.com/podcast-2/

    Most sales podcasts give you more tactics. This one proves you don’t need them.

    I’m Rebecca Kilday, and Don’t Just Sell is the podcast where your sales career gets easier when you quit selling like you’ve been trained, and start selling like yourself.

    Produced by SpeakEasy Productions.

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    12 mins
  • The Price Conversation Feels Awful for a Reason
    Feb 23 2026

    I've seen some pretty terrible sales advice on social media lately, especially when it comes to the pricing conversation. When someone asks your price, tell them to guess? The person who names a number first loses?

    In this episode, I break down the worst pricing advice floating around social media and share what *actually* works when you need to discuss money with prospects, without being manipulative or eroding trust.

    You’ll learn:

    • Why withholding price until the end costs you sales (and when you should bring it up instead)
    • The pricing games that make you look incompetent
    • How my medspa client increased revenue 11% in one week by getting comfortable with price conversations
    • My anchor range strategy that helps gives you negotiation room while building trust

    Use this link to get in touch with me about bringing this training to your organization: https://rebeccakilday.com/podcast-2/

    Most sales podcasts give you more tactics. This one proves you don’t need them.

    I’m Rebecca Kilday, and Don’t Just Sell is the podcast where your sales career gets easier when you quit selling like you’ve been trained, and start selling like yourself.

    Produced by SpeakEasy Productions.

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    12 mins
  • Nobody Cares About Your Product Features (Until You Do This)
    Feb 9 2026

    You know your product inside and out. You've memorized the features, studied the specs, practiced the presentation. So why aren't prospects buying?

    Well, when you rattle off features without connecting them to what your prospect actually needs… you sound like a late-night infomercial. And nobody's reaching for their wallet.

    In this episode, I break down why listing features feels like selling but actually repels buyers - and what to focus on instead when you're in front of a prospect.

    You’ll learn:

    • Why product knowledge alone won't close deals
    • The Ginsu knife test: what you sound like to prospects when you lead with features
    • How to know which feature actually matters to your buyer
    • The one shift that makes prospects feel heard instead of sold to

    **Free Email-to-Manager Template: Use this to start the conversation about bringing connection-first sales training to your whole team

    Most sales podcasts give you more tactics. This one proves you don’t need them.

    I’m Rebecca Kilday, and Don’t Just Sell is the podcast where your sales career gets easier when you quit selling like you’ve been trained, and start selling like yourself.

    Produced by SpeakEasy Productions.

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    9 mins
  • Why Trying to Be Likable Is Costing You the Sale
    Jan 26 2026

    You've been told that "people buy from people they like." So you scan your prospect's office for common ground, force small talk about their family photos, and waste energy trying to be likeable instead of credible.

    In this episode, I share the story of the time I helped a prospect pull weeds trying to get them to like me. (Embarrassing, I know!)

    You'll learn:

    • Why "people buy from people they like" leads to burnout and negative self-talk, especially for women in sales
    • A story about when I held boundaries instead of people-pleasing (and they signed for 3x longer than before)
    • How being reliable builds more trust than being agreeable

    This isn't about learning new rapport-building techniques. It's about understanding why the constant need to be liked is exhausting you and undermining your credibility.

    Use this link to get in touch with me about bringing this training to your organization: https://rebeccakilday.com/podcast-2/

    Most sales podcasts give you more tactics. This one proves you don’t need them.

    I’m Rebecca Kilday, and Don’t Just Sell is the podcast where your sales career gets easier when you quit selling like you’ve been trained, and start selling like yourself.

    Produced by SpeakEasy Productions.

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    10 mins