You can be having good sex… and still feel unsatisfied.

Not broken.

Not disconnected enough to leave.

Just quietly aware that something isn’t landing.

This episode speaks to the moment when “fine” stops working.

Aaron Michael and Dr. Saida talk openly about bespoke sex coaching—and why people seek it out when talking, adjusting, and trying harder hasn’t touched the real ache underneath.

This is about being met.

In your desire.

In your body.

In your truth.

And here’s what makes this episode different than almost anything you’ll hear in the sexual wellness space:

🔥 The Members-Only Erotic Insert (the “real-time transmission”) The full version of this episode includes a 30+ minute erotic insert where we practice what we preach—not as performance, but as embodied, moment-to-moment intimacy. You don’t just hear concepts. You hear the craft in real time.

Inside this private segment, you’ll experience:

• Live erotic communication: how we speak to sensation, discomfort, desire, boundaries, and arousal while it’s happening

• Real-time adaptation: how a skilled lover adjusts technique, depth, pace, and rhythm based on the body’s yes/no/maybe—not ego, pressure, or “doing it right”

• Pleasure without pushing: what it sounds like to stay connected when the body is sensitive (gut tension, deeper vaginal soreness, changing arousal states) without shutting down or forcing through

• The feedback loop most couples never learn: cue → response → refinement → deeper trust → more pleasure

• A raised standard: moving beyond “sex that doesn’t hurt” or “she had an orgasm, so we’re good,” into a shared ability to hold an orgasmic state together—connected, sustainable, and wildly intimate

• Why coaching works: because what changes people isn’t more tips—it’s learning how to feel, communicate, and create in real time

Most professionals will talk about intimacy.

Almost nobody will demonstrate embodied intimacy—especially not with this level of honesty, skill, and lived practice.

If something in you keeps asking for more and you don’t know how to name it yet, this conversation will feel familiar.

👉 For the full, explicit version (including the Erotic Insert), listen at: https://embodiedlove.love

If sex were actually working for you, you wouldn’t be trying so hard.

Trying to last.

Trying to relax.

Trying to do it “right.”

Turn-taking sex taught effort, timing, and control—but not shared pleasure. And when it comes to penetration, the message goes even deeper: it’s framed as something for men. Women are told to relax, surrender, and receive—while somehow also being tight, responsive, and present.

Your body knows how impossible that feels.

This episode names what rarely gets said out loud. When pleasure is divided into turns, one body stays active while the other goes passive. Penetration becomes friction instead of sensation. Connection thins. Desire fades. Sex starts to feel mechanical instead of alive.

In this conversation, Dr. Saida Désilets and Aaron Michael dismantle the turn-taking model and expose how cultural conditioning, body mechanics, and advice like “just relax” quietly sabotage intimacy—especially for women. They point toward a different experience of sex: one where penetration doesn’t privilege one body over the other, and pleasure becomes a shared, sensorial state.

This isn’t about orgasms happening at the same time.

It’s about what happens when your body is no longer waiting.

Once you understand why turn-taking doesn’t work—especially in penetration—sex can’t feel the same again.

If you think your relationship is stuck because your partner won’t change, you’re lying to yourself.

Your intimacy isn’t dying because of them —it’s dying because you’re hiding behind the same bullshit story you’ve been recycling for years.

“I’m too broken.” “They’re too broken.” “It’ll get better when THEY finally do something.”

No .It won’t. And deep down, you already know that.

This episode is a slap in the face to every excuse that keeps your love life mediocre, numb, shut down, or stale.

Dr. Saida and Aaron Michael rip apart the patterns you’ve been protecting — the pretending, the resentment, the apathy, the pornified fantasies, the emotional laziness — and show you the truth:

Your relationship changes the moment YOU stop bullshitting yourself. Not one second before.

Inside, you’ll confront:

• how you sabotage connection in ways you swear you don’t

• why you keep attracting resistance — in them and in yourself

• the truth your body’s been whispering, screaming, then shutting down over

• the cycle that turns dead bedrooms into electric, alive intimacy

If you’re terrified to look in the mirror, good. That means you’re finally ready.

This episode isn’t gentle. It’s not comforting. It’s the line in the sand.

Listen only if you’re done living small —and done blaming everyone else for it.

Most women have no idea they’re walking around at only a fraction of their true arousal capacity. Full engorgement — the plump, swollen, pulsing aliveness your body is meant to have — unlocks deeper desire, richer lubrication, and pleasure you can feel in your bones.

In this milestone 50th episode 🎉 Dr. Saida & Aaron Michael expose the real reason women lose desire, the hidden erectile structures almost no one talks about, and why the culture’s obsession with “tightness” keeps women numb, tense, and underwhelmed. When the female erectile system finally wakes up, everything changes — in sex and in life.

And when you’re ready to go beyond the basics — into the part we can’t put in the free feed — unlock the members-only continuation at EmbodiedLove.love.

Start listening. Your body will tell you what to do next.

If a thin layer of latex can ruin your confidence, it’s not the condom that’s the problem.

It’s the story you’ve been telling yourself about what makes you a great lover.

This is where sex education finally grows up.

Dr. Saida Désilets and Aaron Michael get brutally real about the condom conversation—the myths, the turn-offs, the excuses—and how to flip them into power, confidence, and connection.

If you’ve ever lost your erection while fumbling with a condom, felt your partner’s vibe crash the second you mentioned one, or bought into the “it kills energy” line, this episode is going to rewire the way you think about sex.

You’ll learn how to:

• •Stay hard and stay connected (00:45–03:50)
• Make condoms part of the foreplay, not the awkward pause (08:00–11:30)
• Use them to increase arousal instead of kill it (15:30–20:00)
• Put one on soft and still own the moment (22:20–24:00)
• Turn “safe sex” into the sexiest power move you’ve ever made (49:20–52:00)

This isn’t another health lecture—it’s real sex education for people who actually have sex.

No shame. No awkward demos. Just straight talk about pleasure, protection, and presence.

If you want to be the kind of lover people remember, start here.

🔞 Want to hear the explicit erotic audio where Dr. Saida & Aaron Michael put it all into practice?

Listen to the full, uncensored version at EmbodiedLove.love

You’ve been taught to chase orgasm, perform, and play a role. That’s not sex—that’s conditioning. In this episode, Dr. Saida and Aaron Michael show what happens when polarity dissolves and pleasure becomes power: no scripts, no shame—just erotic intelligence waking up in your body.

In the episode

• Polarity → singularity: when leader/follower disappears

• Arousal as fuel for focus, creativity, and life

• Signature SUCTION SEX® Active Receiver & Adaptive Giver dynamics (attunement > technique)

• Dropping “shoulds” to let your erotic genius lead

• Landing parasympathetic, deeply nourishing states
  

Erotic Insert (members)

• Step-by-step suction mechanics & hip patterns to amplify her arousal

• Breath + pelvic floor for ejaculatory choice and sustained pleasure

• Attunement cues (voice, timing, micro-movements) to stay in flow

• Post-lovemaking integration to carry the charge into your day

✨ Want the explicit, in-bed walkthrough? Join the Explicit Segment at EmbodiedLove.love

You’ve been lied to about sex your entire life.

Porn trained you to perform. Religion told you to repress. And “No Nut November”? It’s the worst advice ever given to men.

In this explosive episode, Aaron Michael and Dr. Saida Desilets blow up the myths that keep men ashamed, disconnected, and half-alive.

Here’s the uncomfortable truth:

👉 Real control isn’t about holding it in — it’s about feeling everything without losing yourself.

👉 Your erection is a mirror of your nervous system — fix the stress, and the power comes back.

👉 The best lovers aren’t the longest-lasting; they’re the most attuned.

They’ll show you how to retrain your body for deeper pleasure, longer stamina, and next-level confidence — without pills, porn, or pretending.

This isn’t a “don’t touch yourself” challenge.

It’s a revolution in how men use desire to build strength, focus, and freedom.

⚡ Mo’ Nut November challenge officially starts November 1st, however, we're going to invite you in this week, so you can jump in now and be ahead of the curve — 21 days to turn arousal into mastery.

If you’re only listening to this on Spotify, then you’re only hearing the talk, but missing the Erotic Insert that shows you how to do it—live, in-bed, step by step.

In the members version, this week’s Erotic Insert covers:

⚡ YEAHFAP partnered practice to feel more & last longer ⚡ Perineum massage that wakes the whole system—fast

⚡ Breath + pelvic-floor switches for ejaculatory choice

⚡ “Forbidden moves”—how your partner can push your limits safely

⚡ Edge → plateau → new baseline (how to keep climbing)

⚡ Suction mechanics & hip patterns that amplify her arousal

⚡ Heart-open sex: voice, breath & connection cues that deepen trust

⚡ Sleep-to-stabilize for boosted capacity & sustained full-body states

If you want tasteful, explicit where it counts—and results you can feel tonight—upgrade to unlock the Erotic Insert now → EmbodiedLove.love

Let’s be real: most sex education is weak. It teaches mechanics but ignores the truth — you’re numb because you’ve been cut off from your wildness.

In this episode, we take you into the wilderness — the real thing, not a safari staged for tourists. Out there, you can’t fake it. Your nervous system resets, your instincts roar back, and your sensuality stops being a concept and starts being alive in your body.

This episode includes a “members only erotic insert” that’s an intimate guided “wild bush” journey inspired by iMfolozi, South Africa—using a co-created fantasy that blends Dr. Saida’s raw wilderness experience, her felt state in that land, and how Aaron Michael weaves it into their bedroom so he too can taste the wild. It’s a star-lit, breath-driven erotic exploration that brings the bush into the body.

👉 Click here to join the Member’s Area and unlock the Erotic Insert

If you’ve ever felt flat in intimacy, starved for desire, or tired of giving more than you receive — this conversation is for you. It’s raw. It’s primal. And it’s the wake-up call your body’s been begging for.

👉 Press play. EmbodiedLove.love.