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What do you do when someone slides a blank check across your desk and asks you to fix a grade? For Dr. Fay Niewiadomski, a former university dean, founder and CEO of ICTN since 1993, and an international award-winning change management strategist, that wasn't a hypothetical. In this episode, Fay joins Dr. Dan Freeman to talk about ethics as the everyday standards we set for ourselves, and how those standards get tested when pressure, power, and context shift. She explains why she starts with a culture's proverbs to understand how people were raised to respond to conflict, money, and authority, and why a clear sense of identity matters more than any rulebook when you have seconds to decide.
The conversation then moves into the traps leaders and consultants fall into. Fay explains why accepting the label of "expert" can set you up as a scapegoat, and how to reframe the relationship as a partnership built around shared outcomes. She also covers how to interview a client as carefully as they interview you, and when compromise, resignation, or speaking up is the right move. She makes the case for building a "productive symbiosis" while you create alternatives, and why resigning in anger rarely changes anything. The episode closes with her approach to silence as one of the most underused tools in leadership communication.
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