Righto - today's ep is 12 QUESTIONS TO ASK YOUR PARTNER

We have hit a massive milestone today: Episode 900! 🎉 And to celebrate, I am bringing you an incredibly special, deeply personal, and high-vibe episode. If you’ve been following along on Instagram, you already know the massive news… after almost nine beautiful years together, we officially got ENGAGED earlier this year! 💍✨

Stepping into this brand-new chapter has us reflecting on everything it takes to go the distance as a couple. Love isn't a destination; it's a constant, beautiful discovery. Whether you are on date number three, navigating the early years, or sitting at year nine like us, the secret to keeping the spark alive is staying curious about the person sitting across from you.

So in today's episode, we are skipping the small talk and diving straight into the deep end. Grab your partner, pour a cozy drink, and use these 12 deep-diving questions from today’s show to map out your own path, strengthen your connection, and see how well you really know each other:

This was such a fun one to record, but shout out and thank you to Teddy Bell from https://www.marriedbyateddy.com/ who kindly gifted us these conversation cards.

Here are the 12 questions we unpacked today:

1. If we could live anywhere in the world for a year after the wedding, where would you choose and why?
2. What does our "perfect ordinary day" look like to you?
3. If our love story were a film, what genre would it be?
4. What part of our future excites you the most right now?
5. If we wrote a letter to ourselves to open in 10 years, what would you hope it says?
6. What personal dream of yours feels closer now that we're getting married?
7. If we had no limits: time, fear, money - what would you most want us to experience together?
8. How do you imagine us growing - individually and together - over the next 5 years?
9. What does "a good life" actually mean to you?
10. What do you hope never changes about us?
11. Tell me something about you that people often misunderstand?
12. What part of your personality are you most proud of?

This Week's Listener Challenge:

Don't read these questions to each other ahead of time! It was so fun flying blind in these questions, less thinking and more just being in the moment. Sit down tonight, hit record on your phone just for yourselves, and answer them completely raw and unedited. You might be surprised by what you learn! We absolutely loved it! If you liked this ep and you want another just like it, let me know, there's a lot more questions in this deck of cards.

Connect with the Show: Enjoyed this episode? Hit Subscribe and leave a 5-star review! Share the ep with your mates. That helps the poddy grow so much! Share your breakthrough moments from today's questions on Instagram DMs and tag me at @yummololaberry

Big Love Lola x

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Big Love

Lola x

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Righto - We have a Solo ep today! We're talking all things: DHARMA

Ever feel like you’re doing everything "right" on paper, but you still feel strangely disconnected? 🌀 In today’s episode, we are diving deep into the yogic concept of Dharma—your unique cosmic blueprint and life purpose. Spoiler alert: It’s not just a job title.

Finding your purpose isn't about creating something new from scratch; it’s about remembering who you have always been. Grab a journal, find a quiet space, and use these five deep-diving questions from today's episode to map out your own path:

• The Question: What do people consistently ask you for help with?
• The Reflection: We are often blind to our own zone of genius because it feels easy to us. Look at your text messages and your friendships—what is the specific energy or skill the world naturally seeks from you?

• The Question: What is a specific problem in the world that moves you to tears or makes your blood boil?
• The Reflection: Dharma is rarely just fluffy, happy thoughts; it is often born out of a holy frustration. Your purpose is intimately tied to something you feel called to heal, fix, or protect.

• The Question: Whose life or career do you secretly envy, and why?
• The Reflection: Don't shame yourself for jealousy, just decode and understand it. Envy is actually a map showing you your own unlived potential. Are you jealous of their bank account, or are you actually craving their creative freedom?

• The Question: Before the world told you who you had to be to survive or pay bills, what did you do for pure joy?
• The Reflection: Go back to your ten-year-old self. Your younger self knew exactly what your energy was meant for before adult expectations took over. What did you lose track of time doing?

• The Question: If you keep living the exact lifestyle you lived this past week for the next 10 years, what will you regret most?
• The Reflection: Shakedown your own complacency. Don't let your comfort zone become the graveyard of your potential. What is the thing you will wish you had started today? I'm all about having no regrets, and this question cuts right through to the core.

For the next three days, wake up 15 minutes earlier. Before checking emails or scrolling social media, sit in morning silence with your journal. Clear out everyone else's opinions so you can finally hear your own intuition speak.

Connect with the Show:

• Enjoyed this episode? Hit Subscribe and leave a 5-star review! That helps the poddy grow!
• Share your breakthrough moments from today’s questions on Instagram DM and and tag me at @yummololaberry

Big Love

Lola x

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