Episodes

  • #48 - Wolf Castillo: How to Keep the Heart Open When We Feel Unsafe
    Jul 3 2023

    "To love is to know “this could hurt so bad” and still be willing to lean in” - Brené Brown

    In this episode, I dive into what it really means to keep your heart open when life gets hard — when betrayal, fear, or discomfort creep in. How do we stay present in the moments that matter most? This is about vulnerability, courage, nervous system regulation, and becoming the safe space we crave.

    Whether you're healing from heartbreak, trying to show up more authentically, or learning how to respond vs react... this one's for you.

    What You'll Learn:

    • When it's necessary to close our hearts to protect ourselves
    • When we should strive to keep our hearts open, despite how scary it is
    • Why it's so tough to remain open-hearted in times of stress
    • Practical tools to develop the ability to keep our hearts open when it matters most


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    Peace, Love, and Weirdness,

    Wolfie 😁

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    ⏱ Timestamps:

    00:00 When Your Heart Closes: The Choice Between Safety and Presence

    02:29 Pause & Reflect: Preparing to Lean In

    03:38 When Love Hurts: A Story of Betrayal

    05:05 Spiraling Into Survival: The Body’s Stress Response

    08:46 Courage in Vulnerability: Choosing to Lean In

    11:34 Breathe Through the Chaos: Cultivating Resilience

    15:07 Rewriting Your Story: From Self-Doubt to Empowerment

    18:18 Courage Under Fire: Keeping Your Heart Open in Crisis

    21:43 Training for Resilience: Embracing Eustress and the Cold

    24:13 Your Choice: Embrace Love or Seal the Heart

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    Email: Wolf@wolfcastillo.com

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    27 mins
  • #47 - Josh Rose: You Can’t Hate Yourself Into Someone You Love
    Jun 26 2023

    “You can’t hate yourself into someone you love”. When Josh said that, it sent chills through my body.

    Josh Rose is a Transformational Coach, Trauma Informed Plant Medicine, Kambo & Breathwork Practitioner who has been supporting individuals in naturally healing from depression, anxiety, and trauma for 8+ years.

    He helps people transform their lives from the inside out by shifting one's consciousness out of the distortions of shame & unworthiness created by trauma, back into harmony with the truth of their authentic selves so they can BE who they truly are and create a life they truly love.

    In this episode we covered,

    • Why “self-help” is making us helplessly miserable
    • The problem with the “I am broken” mindset to healing & transformation
    • Why we need to ditch the tendency to identify with our trauma
    • How to create the type of self-love that feels like a “FUCK YES”


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    Peace, Love, and Weirdness,

    Wolfie 😁

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    | Connect with Josh |

    Website | www.transformationalmedicine.life

    Instagram | www.instagram.com/itsjoshrose

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    Email: Wolf@wolfcastillo.com

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    1 hr and 32 mins
  • #46 - Wolf Castillo: Do YOU Boo Boo: The Power of Living a Life that is True to You
    Jun 19 2023

    #1 of regret of the dying, as discovered by Bronnie Ware, is that they wished they had the courage to live a life that was true to them, not the life others expected of them

    This has to change and our intention is for this podcast to aid in that change.

    This podcast is dedicated to those who desire to live a life that is true to them. Cheers!

    In this episode we covered:

    • The true essence of authenticity
    • Why living out of alignment with your truth can leave you feeling anxious, depressed, and lost
    • How to know when you're living in your truth
    • Practical ways to live more authentically
    • The obstacles you could face when pursuing the path of your authentic truth


    Follow/Review: If you like this show please tap that follow button and leave us a review. That's a small way you can help us to build this community of people who are inspired to create an authentic life that lights us the f*ck up.

    Peace, Love, and Weirdness,

    Wolfie 😁

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    Get in touch in the comments or drop me a line in...

    Instagram: ⁠⁠ / followth3wolf ⁠⁠

    X: ⁠⁠ / followth3wolf ⁠⁠

    Email: Wolf@wolfcastillo.com

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    Work with Wolf:

    Ready to create your most authentic, lit-up life?

    Book a free discovery call: ⁠⁠https://bit.ly/FTWdiscoverycall

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    32 mins
  • #45 - Mistress Damiana Chi, Ph.D.: The HEALING Power of BDSM: A Professional Dominatrix's Perspective
    Jun 12 2023
    Mistress Damiana Chi, Ph.D. is a professional dominatrix, clinical psychologist, and certified sexologist with over 20 years of experience. She specializes in kink-centered coaching and is the founder of The Evolutionary Dominatrix™ Academy, where she mentors women in the art of Conscious Female Domination. She also hosts the Lightworkers Who Play in the Dark podcast and leads the Conscious Kink Community, a safe space for kink-minded connection and exploration.This will prove to be one of the most provocative, tantalizing, and vulnerable conversations that have ever happened on this podcast.In this podcast you will learn:◦ What BDSM is really about and how to create a conscious, consensual experience◦ The myths and mistruths about BDSM in the media◦ How FemDom can be healing◦ The 4 archetypes within a Dominatrix◦ What Domme and SubSpace are and how to drop into them◦ The role of mother archetypes in BDSM and why safety matters◦ How pain and suffering can lead to “dark bliss”◦ How BDSM can turn pain into ecstasy, shame into acceptance, and fear into loveFollow/Review: If you like this show please tap that follow button and leave us a review. That's a small way you can help us to build this community of people who are inspired to create an authentic life that lights us the f*ck up.Peace, Love, and Weirdness,Wolfie 😁____________________⏱ Timestamps:00:00 Why BDSM Can Be Deeply Healing05:37 How Kink Helps You Reclaim Power13:24 The Art of Conscious Female Domination19:28 BDSM Misconceptions & What It Really Is26:30 How BDSM Supports Psychological Healing32:53 Breaking Down the Kink Spectrum39:12 Using Psychodrama to Transform Pain54:19 What It Means to Be a Dominatrix01:08:15 The 4 Archetypes of the Domme01:14:13 Creating Ethical, Empowered BDSM Spaces01:26:54 What Dom/Sub Space Feels Like01:38:05 Practicing Safe, Soulful BDSM01:55:35 Turning Shame Into Love Through Kink____________________Connect with Mistress Damiana:Website | https://damianachiphd.com/Academy | Academy.TheEvolutionaryDomintrix.comFacebook | https://www.facebook.com/DamianaChiPhD/Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/damianachiphd/Twitter | https://twitter.com/DamianaChiPhD____________________Get in touch in the comments or drop me a line in...Instagram: / followth3wolf X: / followth3wolf Email: Wolf@wolfcastillo.com_________________________Work with Wolf:Ready to create your most authentic, lit-up life?Book a free discovery call: https://bit.ly/FTWdiscoverycall
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    2 hrs and 2 mins
  • #44 - Wolf Castillo: Let That Shit Go: How to Release What No Longer Serves You
    Jun 5 2023

    If you are ready to HEAL past pain, REMEMBER how DOPE you are, and FEEL FULLY ALIVE, Sign up for my FREE newsletter: zfrmz.com/zB1rNRpQ7u9JgnoOU1yp

    How do we know when it is time to LET GO?

    To let go of the person/people, places/environments, things/vices, that are no longer serving us.

    And when we do know it’s time, HOW do we go about letting go?

    That’s what this podcast is all about.

    In this podcast you will learn:

    The DANGER of falling in love with POTENTIAL

    WHY our UNHEALTHY ATTACHMENTS are DISRUPTING our ability to MANIFEST

    How to know when to LEAN IN & when to LET GO

    My intention for this podcast is to support you in giving yourself permission to let go.

    When we let go of unhealthy & unserving people, places, or things, we make space.

    We make space for what truly enlivens us to ENTER OUR HUMAN EXPERIENCE

    And YOU are worth that.

    | Connect with Wolf |

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    33 mins
  • #43 - Matthew Finlin: How to Harmonize Hussle and Self-Care
    May 29 2023

    If you are ready to HEAL past pain, REMEMBER how DOPE you are, and FEEL FULLY ALIVE, Sign up for my FREE newsletter: zfrmz.com/zB1rNRpQ7u9JgnoOU1yp

    Are you living up to your full potential, or are you settling for mediocrity?

    These are some of the questions that we sought an answer to with this week's podcast guest, Matthew Finlin

    Matthew is an international speaker and coach with a proven track record of leading teams, facilitating large-scale business mergers and acquisitions, and expanding his teams throughout North America, Asia, Europe, and Africa.

    He is also the founder and CEO of two personal development businesses: Human Potential Academy and 100 Days of Discipline.

    Matthew shares his personal journey and the knowledge, tools, and training he’s learned over the past 10 years of empowering people with the tools to reach their full potential.

    In this podcast you will learn:

    3 keys to reducing stress, having more time, and being more productive

    How to overcome self-sabotaging behavior

    How to harmonize the hustle & recovery

    If you strive to live up to your fullest potential, this conversation is going to be fuel to your flame!

    | Connect with Matthew Finlin |

    Website | Www.Humanpotentialacademy.Org

    Website | https://www.100daysofdiscipline.com

    Facebook | www.Facebook.com/matt.finlin.1

    Instagram | Https://instagram.com/matthewfinlin

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    1 hr and 38 mins
  • #42 - Wolf Castillo: Morning Mastery: Build a Dope Morning Routine That Works NOW
    May 22 2023

    If you are ready to HEAL past pain, REMEMBER how DOPE you are, and FEEL FULLY ALIVE, Sign up for my FREE newsletter: zfrmz.com/zB1rNRpQ7u9JgnoOU1yp

    Transform your mornings and set the tone for a productive, intentional, and fulfilling day with this practical guide to optimizing your morning routine.

    In this podcast, I share what I have learned on how to create morning routines/rituals that are optimized and feel like a FUCK YES.

    In this podcast you will learn:

    • How to create morning rituals that are FLEXIBLE and feel like a FUCK YES
    • Why you “SHOULD” AND “SHOULDN’T” avoid your phone for the 1 hour of the day
    • My top practices to start the day with PEACE, ENERGY, and CLARITY
    • Why I recently THREW OUT my morning routine

    For the past 5+ years, I have been refining my own morning practice to be one that LIGHTS ME UP and this conversation is all about how you can create a morning practice that LIGHTS YOU UP too!

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    37 mins
  • #41 - Brian Carew: Do This to UNBLOCK and UNLEASH Your Sexual Pleasure
    May 15 2023

    If you are ready to HEAL past pain, REMEMBER how DOPE you are, and FEEL FULLY ALIVE, Sign up for my FREE newsletter: zfrmz.com/zB1rNRpQ7u9JgnoOU1yp

    Brian Carew is a Holistic Embodiment & Erotic Coach. Brian has a special gift for helping people to feel both more empowered and pleasurable in their own bodies through the ancient technologies of breathwork, movement, and energy awareness

    Sex. Love. Intimacy. Pornography. Butt Stuff. Foot Fetishism. Sexual Shame & Guilt. Unlocking Your FULL FUCK.

    Just a few topics of conversation from this podcast. It was uncomfortable at moments…AND…It was REAL.

    We are shedding light and LOVE on topics of conversation that often get shrouded in disgust, shame, and ridicule

    In this episode we covered,

    • Why FOCUSING On Orgasm Is Limiting Our Pleasure
    • Why LUST Is A NECESSARY Element Of Sexuality
    • How To SHED SHAME & GUILT Around Your Sexuality
    • How Pornography Is DIS-Connecting Us From Our Pleasure

    | Connect with Brian |

    STAY CONNECTED | Website | www.carewmovement.com

    Website | https://www.humanpotentialacademy.org/

    Facebook | Facebook.com/brian.carew.9

    Instagram | instagram.com/carew_movement

    | Connect with Wolf |

    Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/followth3wolf/

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    Patreon | https://bit.ly/FTWpatreon

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    1 hr and 59 mins