Episodes

  • S13 E1: You’re Not Behind, You’re Becoming
    Jan 22 2026

    In this episode, we talk about the feeling of being behind and how it can show up when you’re actually growing. We unpack the pressure of timelines, comparison, and age, and what it looks like to realize that a lot of your progress is happening internally. It’s a reminder that becoming doesn’t always look productive, but it still counts.


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    @herworkmatters_

    @dbestevaaa

    @z.shanise


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    27 mins
  • 8: Honoring the Journey
    Jan 8 2026

    In this episode, we slow down and talk about giving ourselves credit without downplaying it. We reflect on how much has changed, what it looks like to sit with gratitude, and the importance of actually taking in the moment. It’s an honest end of year check-in about growth, grace, and letting yourself be proud of how far you’ve come.

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    @herworkmatters_

    @dbestevaaa

    @z.shanise

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    41 mins
  • 7: When motivation runs out
    Dec 11 2025

    In this episode we talk about why isolation can feel way more comfortable than trying to find motivation. We get into what makes people pull back whether it's on purpose or not and explore the ups and downs of being alone


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    @herworkmatters_

    @dbestevaaa

    @z.shanise

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    29 mins
  • 6: Unlearning urgency
    Dec 4 2025

    In this episode, we talk about what it really looks like to unlearn urgency. How slowing down is not a sign of falling behind but a shift toward intention. It is noticing when everything feels rushed and giving yourself permission to move in a way that actually feels realistic for your life.


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    @herworkmatters_

    @dbestevaaa

    @z.shanise


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    25 mins
  • 5: Serving me or Just familiar?
    Nov 20 2025

    In this episode, we talk about the difference between what genuinely serves you and what just feels familiar. This conversation is all about recognizing when you've outgrown a season, a habit, or a connection, and giving yourself permission to choose alignment over attachment.


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    @herworkmatters_

    @dbestevaaa

    @z.shanise


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    24 mins
  • 4: Defining your Personal Style Pt. 2 (Ft. IamFabellis)
    Oct 30 2025

    In this episode, we continue our conversation with @iamfabellis (Ashley Carter) on all things style, confidence, and self-expression. We talk about how personal style evolves as you do — learning to embrace change, shop with intention, and wear what makes you feel like you.Connect with us:@herworkmatters_ @dbestevaaa@z.shanise Beat Provided By https://freebeats.io Produced By White Hot

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    31 mins
  • 3: Defining your Personal Style Pt. 1 (Ft. @IamFabellis)
    Oct 23 2025

    In this episode, we're joined by @iamfabellis (ashley carter). she is known for her fabulous style, creative thrift finds, and authentic approach to fashion. we talk about what it really means to define your personal style beyond trends and comparison. it's about confidence, creativity, and showing up as yourself in every season.


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    @herworkmatters_

    @dbestevaaa

    @z.shanise


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    24 mins
  • 2: Inconvenience is Inevitable
    Oct 9 2025

    In this episode, we talk about what it really means to lean into life’s inconveniences instead of resisting them. Sometimes growth comes through the unexpected, the frustrating, or the messy. It’s in shifting perspective, finding patience, and turning setbacks into opportunities.

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    @herworkmatters_

    @dbestevaaa

    @z.shanise


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    21 mins