In this episode of How to Share, hosts Wynne Leon and Vicki Atkinson engage with author Gloria Golec about her memoir, South Side Memories.

The conversation explores themes of family, immigrant experiences, and the power of storytelling. Gloria shares insights on how her Polish heritage and family dynamics shaped her identity and writing journey.

The discussion emphasizes the importance of preserving personal narratives, the emotional connections that come from sharing stories, and provides the inspiration for writing our own stories.

Takeaways

• The book is a reflection of the American dream and immigrant experiences.
• Storytelling helps maintain connections to roots and loved ones.
• Writing can be a therapeutic process for personal growth.
• Family dynamics, especially gender roles, play a significant role in shaping identity.
• Cherished memories can provide clarity and understanding of past relationships.
• Cultural heritage is often intertwined with food traditions and family gatherings.
• Teaching experiences can influence one's writing and storytelling approach.
• Writing a memoir can be an emotional journey that brings past relationships closer.
• Encouragement to start writing by focusing on one story at a time.
• Sharing stories can inspire others and create a sense of community.

Links for this episode:

How To Share Snapshots of the American Dream transcript

Gloria Golec's profile on Eckhartz Press

South Side Memories on Eckhartz Press

From the hosts:

Vicki’s book about resilience and love: Surviving Sue; Blog: https://victoriaponders.com/

My book about my beloved father: Finding My Father’s Faith

In this episode of 'How to Share', hosts Wynne Leon andVicki Atkinson engage with author Marc Ross about his latest geopolitical thriller, 'Attacking the Dragon'. The conversation delves into the book's plot, which revolves around China's Belt and Road Initiative, and how Ross's background as a lawyer influenced his writing. They explore the complexities ofChinese politics, character development, and the nuances of storytelling, as well as Ross's personal journey from law to fiction writing.

Takeaways:

• Marc Ross's book 'Attacking the Dragon' explores China's geopolitical landscape.
• The Belt and Road Initiative is a significant yet under-discussed topic.
• Ross aims to portray China as a victim rather than an aggressor in his narrative.
• His legal background provides a unique perspective on the thriller genre.
• Character names in Chinese culture are complex but manageable for storytelling.
• Ross's writing journey reflects a long-held dream to become an author.
• He emphasizes the importance of creating unique protagonists in thrillers.
• The art of storytelling involves engaging readers through vivid descriptions.
• Ross enjoys the process of writing and values reader feedback. His experiences as a lawyer enrich his fictional narratives.

Links for this Episode:

How to Share home

A. Marc Ross's website: https://www.amarcross.com/index.html

Attacking the Dragon on Barnes & Noble and Amazon

From the hosts:

Vicki’s book about resilience and love: Surviving Sue; Blog: https://victoriaponders.com/

My book about my beloved father: Finding My Father’s Faith

In this enlightening conversation, Gil Gillenwater is with host Wynne Leon and shares his experiences and insights from over 35 years of philanthropic work along the US-Mexico border. He discusses his book, 'Hope on the Border,' which highlights the transformative power of education and community service.

Gil emphasizes the importance of enlightened self-interest over traditional charity, advocating for a model that empowers individuals and fosters dignity.

He explores the duality of poverty, the need for sustainable opportunities, and the joy found in serving others, ultimately presenting a vision for a more connected and compassionate world.

Takeaways

• Education is the key to breaking the cycle of poverty.
• Enlightened self-interest can lead to personal and communal growth.
• Charity should not be viewed as a sacrifice but as a mutual benefit.
• Volunteering provides a sense of purpose and fulfillment.
• Welfare can disempower individuals and communities.
• Community service fosters connections and shared humanity.
• The disparity in wealth is a significant issue that needs addressing.
• Experiencing poverty firsthand can change perspectives.
• Creating opportunities in one's home country can reduce migration.
• The joy of service is a pathway to personal happiness.

Links for this episode:

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Hope on the Border at Amazon

Gil's organization: Rancho Feliz

Gil Gillenwater on Facebook

Wynne’s book about her beloved father: Finding My Father’s Faith; Blog: https://wynneleon.com/; Substack: https://wynneleon930758.substack.com/

In this episode, hosts Wynne Leon and Vicki Atkinson engage with novelist Doug E. Jones about his latest book, 'Take Me Back to Chicago.' The conversation delves into the rich tapestry of 1974 Chicago, exploring the characters, music, and personal connections that shape the narrative.

Doug shares insights into his transition from TV writing to novel writing, the thematic elements of his work, and the humor that permeates his storytelling. The episode highlights the importance of character dynamics and the personal experiences that inform Doug's writing, making it a delightful exploration of both the book and the author's journey.Takeaways

• Doug E. Jones's novel is set in 1974 Chicago, rich with cultural references.
• The protagonist, Rick, faces a significant debt left by his father.
• The book features strong female characters, including Rick's daughter Elena.
• Doug's writing process involves integrating real Chicago characters and events.
• The transition from TV writing to novel writing was liberating for Doug.
• Music plays a crucial role in setting the tone of the story.
• The character dynamics between Rick and his friend Javi add humor and depth.
• Historical context is woven into the narrative, enhancing the story's richness.
• Doug's personal experiences influence the characters and settings in his novels.
• The book is described as a 'beach read'—entertaining and engaging.

Links for this episode:

How to Share1970's Chicago

Take Me Back to Chicago by Doug E. Jones on Eckhartz Press

Q&A with Take Me Back to Chicago author Doug E. Jones

In this episode of 'How to Share', Wynne Leon speaks with professor and author Dr. Vicki Atkinson about the nuances of giving and receiving feedback, particularly in the context of writing. Vicki shares insights from her own experiences as a writer, emphasizing the importance of separating one's ego from their work, the value of a growth mindset, and the significance of asking the right questions when seeking feedback.

The conversation also touches on the dynamics of feedback, the timing of giving and receiving it, and the emotional challenges that come with the creative process. Vicki provides a sneak peek into her upcoming novel, which draws from her family history, and reflects on the role of feedback in her writing journey.

Takeaways

• Feedback is a tricky subject that requires discernment.
• Separating ego from work is essential for growth.
• Asking the right questions can lead to more useful feedback.
• Timing and context matter when giving feedback.
• Not all feedback is created equal; choose your sources wisely.
• It's important to let your work develop before seeking feedback.
• Receiving feedback can be both enthralling and challenging.
• You can choose which feedback to integrate into your work.
• Emotional distance can help in processing feedback.
• Be clear about what you are asking for when seeking feedback.

Links for this episode:

How to Share home

Vicki’s book about resilience and love: Surviving Sue;

Vicki's Blog: https://victoriaponders.com/

Wynne’s book about her beloved father: Finding My Father’s Faith;

Wynne's Blog: https://wynneleon.com/

In this episode, Wynne Leon talks with Mari Sarkisian Wyatt about her book, Saving the Fourth Generation. This conversation explores the emotional and physical journey of infertility and the lengths to which individuals go to achieve parenthood. It delves into the obsession that can accompany the desire for a child and the unintended consequences that can arise, particularly in family dynamics. Mari shares personal experiences and insights, emphasizing resilience and the importance of pursuing goals while being mindful of their impact on loved ones.

Takeaways

• Mari decided to have a third child and spent the next six years enduring a series of unfortunate events.
• This is basically the story of what women and their partners are willing to go through.
• Mari's quest quickly became an obsession and she notes obsessions can hurt the people you love.
• Mari says if you just keep working toward your goal one step at a time, you might just succeed. Hopefully your family will forgive you.
• This is also a book about goals and obsessions.
• The message is about resilience and personal growth.

Links for this post:

How to Share the Next Generation transcript

Saving the Fourth Generation from Delphinium Press and on Barnes & Noble and Amazon

Wynne Leon talks with author and writer Amy Weinland Daughters about her book, Dear Dana. Dear Dana chronicles Amy's heartfelt campaign to actually connect with her Facebook friends by taking the time to write them a letter. After writing 580 letters, Amy walked away with some profound realizations about herself, social media, and our ability to connect with each other.

In this conversation, Amy talks about the profound impact of writing on personal transformation and the accessibility of expression. She emphasizes that anyone can engage in writing without the need for formal skills, highlighting the emotional and human connection that can be fostered through simple acts of communication.

Takeaways

• The most changed participant in the writing process is often the writer themselves.
• Writing doesn't require formal skills or extensive practice.
• A simple act of writing can have a significant emotional impact.
• All you need is a postage stamp and a human heart to express yourself.
• The power of writing has always been within us, waiting to be discovered.
• Engaging in writing can lead to personal growth and transformation.
• You don't need to write hundreds of letters to make a difference.
• The act of writing can break down barriers to communication.
• Everyone has the potential to express themselves meaningfully.

Links for this post:

Dear Dana on Barnes & Noble and Amazon

Amy's website

From the host:

Wynne’s book about her beloved father: Finding My Father’s Faith; Blog: https://wynneleon.com/