Episodes

  • Repeating Our Parents Pattern's "We Swore we would never repeat"
    Apr 22 2026

    Katie and Aisling are back with another episode of It Is What It Is and this one goes deep.

    They open up about family dynamics and the unspoken roles so many people grow up with. From the golden child to the black sheep, the overlooked one to the one expected to hold everything together, nothing is off limits. They talk honestly about control, pressure, and the impact it can have long after childhood ends.

    This episode gets personal as both Katie and Aisling reflect on their own upbringings, the hurt they carried, and how it shaped them. They also face the harder side of things, opening up about the ways they feel they may have passed some of that pain on, and what they have done to break those patterns.

    It is reflective, and full of moments that will make you stop and think about your own story.

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    35 mins
  • Katie Gets Real: Enough Was Enough
    Apr 15 2026

    Katie is flying solo in this episode of It Is What It Is as Aisling takes a step back, and this one goes deep.

    Katie opens up about her relationship with alcohol, addiction, and the patterns that can quietly take hold before you even realise it. She speaks honestly about the darker moments, the turning points, and what it actually takes to make real change when you feel stuck.

    This episode is raw and personal, with Katie sharing parts of her story she hasn’t fully explored before. From recognising habits that no longer serve you, to pulling yourself out of difficult places, she talks through the mindset shifts and practical steps that helped her move forward.

    It is an open, real conversation about accountability, growth, and proving to yourself that change is possible, even when it feels out of reach.

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    33 mins
  • Miss Mac Fit on Dating, Life and Starting Over
    Apr 8 2026

    Katie and Aisling are back and this week, they are not holding back.

    They are joined by their first ever guest, Maria McCarthy, also known as Miss Mac Fit, and they get straight into it.

    Maria opens up about what it is really like to be single in 2026, sharing some of the most shocking dating stories you will hear. The kind that make you laugh, cringe, and question everything.

    The girls unpack it all, from red flags to situationships, in a conversation so many women will relate to.

    Maria also shares her experience of living in Australia, with honest and funny insights for anyone thinking of making the move.

    Plus, she opens up about how she became a personal trainer after gaining weight following pregnancy and losing it again, sharing what actually worked and how that journey shaped her.

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    33 mins
  • The Questions People are too Afraid to Ask Them self's
    Apr 1 2026

    In this episode of It Is What It Is, Katie walks in with nothing but ten questions. No plan, no structure, just ten hard, thought provoking questions that open the door to real, honest conversation.

    What starts as a simple idea quickly unfolds into something much bigger. From uncomfortable truths to the things we usually avoid saying out loud, nothing is off limits.

    Katie and Aisling bounce between laughter and real moments, asking each other the kind of questions most people would dodge. The result is genuinely reflective.

    This episode is less about answers and more about what comes up when you actually stop and think.

    It might make you question things. It might hit a nerve. It might even change how you see yourself.

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    34 mins
  • Friends or Just Acquaintances? Let’s Be Honest
    Mar 25 2026

    This week on It Is What It Is, Katie and Aisling dive into what a real glow up actually looks like and why it is not just about appearances.

    They get into how relationships shape us, the difference between real friends and acquaintances, and Aisling opens up about something many people struggle with, learning to actually enjoy your own company.

    Katie throws out some outrageous questions that lead to genuinely hilarious answers, and they even put Chat GPT to the test with a question that somehow gets a very logical reply.

    They wrap things up with a chaotic round of Would You Rather that says more about them than it probably should.

    Honest, funny, and very real.

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    34 mins
  • Mother’s Day, Co Parenting and The Things We Don’t Say
    Mar 18 2026

    This week on It Is What It Is, Katie and Aisling sit down for a Mother’s Day special. What starts as a conversation about what Mother’s Day means to them quickly turns into a deeper and very honest discussion about

    Co parenting and the emotional realities that come with it.

    They speak openly about the challenges many parents face after separation, the pressure that can come with trying to do your best for your children, and the strength it takes to keep going through the difficult moments.

    Katie becomes emotional during the conversation, and both women share personal stories from their own lives and how they have learned to cope with the ups and downs along the way.

    This episode is a reminder that so many women and men are navigating the same struggles, even if it often feels like you are doing it alone.

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    37 mins
  • A Listener's Message Had us in Tears
    Mar 11 2026

    This week on It Is What It Is with Katie and Aisling, we’re catching up on the week that was and there is plenty to unpack.

    We talk about our first week of personal training in the gym, the shock to the system, the sore muscles, and a few hilarious moments along the way. Katie also shares the excitement around her upcoming trip to Lithuania and the chaos that comes with trying to prepare for it.

    But the conversation takes a more serious turn when we receive a message we simply could not ignore. A young person who recently came out as gay is now facing horrible abuse at home, and we talk honestly about how heartbreaking and complicated situations like that can be. Aisling also shares the story of a 65 year old woman currently living in a deeply difficult situation.

    As always, this episode moves between laughter and real life conversations, because sometimes it just is what it is.

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    32 mins
  • Things We Thought Were Normal
    Mar 4 2026

    This week on It Is What It Is, Katie and Aisling start with their usual catch up before diving into two documentaries that sparked much bigger conversations than expected.

    Being Gordon Ramsay leads to an honest chat about ambition, guilt and the time we sometimes miss while chasing success.

    Then they unpack the America’s Next Top Model documentary and the shows they grew up watching as teenagers. From resurfaced Nickelodeon clips starring Ariana Grande to moments that now feel wildly inappropriate in 2026, they question what was normalised back then and why we never noticed.

    They also touch on the internet, the recent Epstein files and how awareness around power and exploitation has shifted.

    It is thoughtful, nostalgic and full of laughs along the way, including a few unexpected singing moments from Katie.

    Plus, they share a family safety app they believe every parent should know about.

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    38 mins