This episode is not what you think. In other words, the title might be a bit...ironic. Join me as I work through the speech that is making waves.

Do you ever notice that your "best laid plans" are often the ones that don't work out as expected? Maybe the universe is moving you toward something even better.

When you're on a plane and the air masks come down, who comes first? When you're just trying to get through your every day, who comes first?If it's not you...why not?

Have you ever found yourself in the midst of a conversation and someone says, "Well, you knew what you were getting yourself into?" Before you have the chance to answer that question, your brain is already saying, "No, I didn't."

Trigger warning: rejection; abandonment; mental and emotional abuse; assault

Are you someone who's experienced rejection or abandonment in a relationship? Are you dating someone who has? Listen to a recovering survivor break down what a relationship post-rejection can look like. Find out how loving yourself can lead to strength in that relationship.

Have you ever been told, "I love you, but.." or "I'm proud of you, but..." This podcast dives into the meaning of the 'but' statement.

Are we making things more difficult because of how we handle the roadblocks in our life?

What environment are you in? Does it allow you to grow, or does it hinder you?