Life Juicy Podcast - Episode 13

Serie Children Sexual Abuse 

Dating, the healing process continues 

This episode contains content regarding child sexual abuse that some may find triggering. Listener discretion is advised. 

As my spiritual master says: fear will always be there until the mind is completely enlightened. When you have experienced sexual abuse in childhood, it has impregnated all aspects of the mind. That is my experience. And, it comes back anytime you choose to get out of your comfort zone and expand your wings in life; the paradigm of fear will show up. And this is when it is important to dare to communicate my needs. So, after years of celibacy, I decided to get out of my comfort zone and be on a dating app…. After some cancelled dates, I met this person and fear showed up. 

I am grateful for your listening! 

And don’t forget to Rate, Share and Subscribe!

MarieB

Email: marieb@lifejuicy.love

Resources: 

If you or anyone you know needs help, please contact the confidential and free lines for Canada and US.

Canada

• Sexual assault centers: https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/ There is a list of contact for each Province.
• Kids Help Phone: 1-800-668-6868 (http://www.kidshelpphone.ca/)

US

• RAINN - Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network - https://www.rainn.org/
• 1in6.org support specialized for boys & men: https://1in6.org/get-information/the-1-in-6-statistic/

#childsafetypledge #childhoodtrauma #childsexualabuse #childsexualabuseawareness #childsexualabusesurvivor #childsexualabuseprevention #childsexualabuseadvocate

#healtrauma

#suicide

#emotions #parenting #parentingafterchildhoodabuse 

#thelovedrive

#dating

#thematthewhussey

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Life Juicy Podcast - Episode 12

Serie Children Sexual Abuse 

Parenting after childhood sexual abuse

This episode contains content regarding child sexual abuse that some may find triggering. Listener discretion is advised. 

On this long healing journey of a childhood sexual abuse survivor, it comes a day when you become a parent. Maybe your healing journey is stalled, maybe it has not started yet… If you think about having children and you have experienced any kind of childhood abuse, please read Geanne Bowman’s book. She is a role model for me. So before diving into the parenthood adventure get ready by listening to this heartful conversation with Geanne.  

In This Episode, You Will Hear about:

• Parenting is hard and survivor parents can be the best parents (3:09)
• To become a parent, heal yourself first (5:29)
• Have a partner who can help you and become kind to yourself (12:00)
• Set boundaries, and create an open space where everything can be said (15:00)
• Create a safe space with them and teach honesty (20:00)
• Teach them not to say no and not to be a people pleaser (30:00)
• How to talk about this subject to them? (35:00)
• Create a new legacy with your children (43:00)
• Create a circle of trusted adults around your children (48:13)

As Geanne says: ‘’Parents just do your best! See yourself as your child sees you and keep healing and learning. Enjoy, play with your children and show them your humanness!''

I am grateful for your listening! 

And don’t forget to Rate, Share and Subscribe!

MarieB

Email: marieb@lifejuicy.love

About Geanne Bowman:

• Link to her book Parenting Well After Childhood Abuse: Be a Great Parent Even if Yours Were Crap: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1733251316
• Website: Geannemeta.com
• Deep dive into Child Safety Plan and the 10 questions before having children: https://www.geannemeta.com/download-page

Resources: 

If you or anyone you know needs help, please contact the confidential and free lines for Canada and US.

Canada

• Sexual assault centers: https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/ There is a list of contact for each Province.
• Kids Help Phone: 1-800-668-6868 (http://www.kidshelpphone.ca/)

US

• RAINN - Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network - https://www.rainn.org/
• 1in6.org support specialized for boys & men: https://1in6.org/get-information/the-1-in-6-statistic/

#childsafetypledge #childhoodtrauma #childsexualabuse #childsexualabuseawareness #childsexualabusesurvivor #childsexualabuseprevention #childsexualabuseadvocate

#healtrauma

#suicide

#emotions #parenting #parentingafterchildhoodabuse 

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Life Juicy  Podcast - Episode 11 

Serie Children Sexual Abuse 

It is still happening!

This episode contains content regarding child sexual abuse that some may find triggering. Listener discretion is advised. 

I come to you with a heavy heart today! I had bad news from a friend, and it is choking, sad and a reminder that children are still sexually abused under our watch. 

This news trigged the eight-year-old I was, who, like this child, wanted not to live.

I am still on my healing journey, and I will share what this event triggers in me.

In This Episode, You Will Hear about:

• How I relate to the child who does not want to live (3:53)
• Why is the healing process such a long journey?  (6:49)
• Emotions are like a tunnel; to heal, we need to cross it until the end (13:18)
• Healing by feeling the feeling but not identifying with them (15:00)

If you are aware of any situation around you, please act quickly and support a family, a child who needs you. Be a light bearer. 

I am grateful for your listening! 

And don’t forget to Rate, Share and Subscribe!

MarieB

Email: marieb@lifejuicy.love

Resources: 

If you or anyone you know needs help, please contact the confidential and free lines for Canada and US.

Canada

• Sexual assault centers: https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/   There is a list of contact for each Province.
• Kids Help Phone: 1-800-668-6868 (http://www.kidshelpphone.ca/)

US

• 24/7 National Sexual Assault Hotline at 800.656.HOPE (800.656.4673)
• RAINN - Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network -  https://www.rainn.org/
• 1in6.org support specialized for boys & men: https://1in6.org/get-information/the-1-in-6-statistic/

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