Most men think money is about numbers—but money is really time. In this episode, Bob Wischer (The Relationship Engineer) breaks down why the traditional “work hard, save, retire someday” path often creates dependency and stress, and how financial freedom is better measured by cash flow and experienced through time control. You’ll learn simple retirement math using the “25x expenses” guideline, the difference between investing and speculation, and a practical decision checklist to increase upside while reducing risk and taxes. Finally, Bob gives straightforward next steps—like keeping a consistent percentage of income and assigning every dollar a job—so you can build momentum, reduce financial anxiety, and lead your marriage and family with more peace and clarity.email: menbecomingbettermen@gmail.com

In this episode, I talk about male loneliness in midlife, why most men have acquaintances instead of brothers, and how to build an inner circle after betrayal. You’ll get a practical Brotherhood Scorecard (reliability, consistent contact, growth check-ins, mutual investment, protective respect), plus the Brotherhood Boundaries Audit—four questions that clarify what real friendship requires.
One-week challenge included: pick one man, send one real message, schedule one touchpoint, rate yourself 1–10, and choose one action item.

In theMen Becoming Better Men Season 8 finale, host Bob Wischer sits down with the legendary Dr. Robert Glover, author ofNo More Mr. Nice Guy and founder ofIntegration Nation, for a powerhouse conversation on breaking free from the "nice guy" trap, reclaiming masculinity, and building true connection.

This episode is packed with game-changing insights, including:
✅ WhyNo More Mr. Nice Guy has changed the lives of countless men
✅ The secret sauce behind strong relationships and authentic masculinity
✅ "Gloverisms" that will transform your mindset and daily interactions
✅ How community is the missing piece for modern men
✅ The importance of getting out of the house, expanding your route, and walking through open doors!!! (My personal favorite)

We also dive intoIntegration Nation, Dr. Glover’s thriving international men’s community, and why every man needs a tribe. If you’ve ever felt disconnected, frustrated, or like you're coasting through life—this episode is your wake-up call.

💥Join the Movement:
🔗Men Becoming Better Men Private Community – www.menbecomingbettermen.com
🔗Integration Nation – Dr. Glover’s Community –www.integrationnation.net
🔗Dr. Glover’s Books & Programs –www.drglover.com

🎧 Hit play, get ready for some tough love, and start becoming the man you were meant to be. 🚀

In this episode of the MBBM Podcast, I sit down with Jason Lang, an embodiment coach, men’s group facilitator, and certified No More Mr. Nice Guy coach. We tackle one of the biggest lies men tell themselves—that success, relationships, and purpose are best achieved alone. Jason shares his personal journey from social anxiety to leadership, why men’s groups are essential for growth, and the hidden costs of trying to be “tough” at the expense of connection.

We also dive into the harsh realities of entrepreneurship, balancing purpose with financial stability, and how prioritizing brotherhood can transform every aspect of a man's life. If you've ever struggled with feeling disconnected, stuck, or unsure about your next move, this conversation is for you.

• Connect with Jason Lang & His Work: www.evolutionary.men and on Instagram @evolutionarymen
• Join the Men Becoming Better Men Community: Click Here
• Learn More About MVP Coaching & Book a Call: MenBecomingBetterMen.com

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Welcome back to the Men Becoming Better Men Podcast, where we tackle the real struggles men face—losing connection with your spouse, feeling like a stranger in your own life, and wrestling with self-discipline when no one's watching.

This week, I sit down with Mark Collins, founder of Freedom for Life and author of Life Mastery: Living Life by Design, Not Default. Mark has helped countless men overcome self-doubt, fear of failure, and imposter syndrome to unlock their full potential.

✅ Why many men feel like they’re living by default instead of by design
✅ The biggest lie men believe about success, relationships, and purpose
✅ How to stop medicating against a life you don’t like and take back control
✅ The role of childhood identity wounds in shaping your self-worth
✅ How to bet on yourself one more time and refuse to settle

If you’ve ever felt stuck, unfulfilled, or like you're faking it, this conversation is for you. Mark shares powerful insights on identity, leadership, and purpose that will challenge the way you think about success.

🔗 Resources & Links Mentioned:
📖 Grab Mark’s book, Life Mastery: Living Life by Design, Not Default – Download here
📩 Connect with Mark: mark@freedom-for-life.net
🌎 Visit Mark’s website: freedom-for-life.net
🌟 Join the Men Becoming Better Men Community: menbecomingbettermen.com and https://www.facebook.com/groups/menbecomingbettermen/

👊 Remember, until next time: We’re shoulder to shoulder, and we’re in your corner.

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In this powerful episode of Men Becoming Better Men, host Bob Wischer sits down with Rick Cheatham, a retired firefighter, speaker, and transformational life coach, to uncover his extraordinary journey from addiction, betrayal, and tragedy to personal redemption and purpose.

Rick shares:
🔥 How a porn addiction nearly destroyed his marriage—and what saved it.
🔥 The wake-up call that forced him to seek mentorship and transformation.
🔥 How he and his wife rebuilt trust after betrayal and exposure.
🔥 The murder of his son and the battle with forgiveness that followed.
🔥 The moment he broke his neck and was left paralyzed—but found a deeper purpose.
🔥 His AIM framework for overcoming adversity and reclaiming your power.

Rick’s story is one of resilience, faith, and the power of transformation. If you’ve ever felt stuck, lost, or trapped by your past, this episode will challenge you to aim for a different target in life and take full ownership of your journey.

🔗 Connect with Rick Cheatham:
🌎 Website: RickCheatham.com
📘 Facebook: Rick Cheatham
📸 Instagram: @Rickycafd

🔗 Connect with Bob Wischer & MBBM:
🌎 Website: MenBecomingBetterMen.com
👥 Join the Men Becoming Better Men Private Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/menbecomingbettermen/

💪 Remember, we are shoulder to shoulder and in your corner!

🎧 Listen now and take your first step toward real transformation!

In this episode of Men Becoming Better Men, we tackle the gut-wrenching reality of feeling alone and trapped in a life you worked so hard to build. Drawing from my personal experience of 15 years stuck in a marriage where resentment and guilt consumed me, I share the hard truths about how abandoning yourself to make others happy only leads to isolation and frustration.

We explore why your family doesn’t need a “nice guy” but a leader—a man who stands firm in his values, sets boundaries, and keeps his word. I break down two powerful tools you can use today to reclaim your integrity, rebuild trust, and start leading both your family and your own life with purpose.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re losing yourself in the grind of daily life, this episode will challenge you to step up and take control. Tune in and learn how to stop drifting and start leading.

For a deeper dive, email me at menbecomingbettermen@gmail.com to schedule a complimentary Personal Alignment Session. This is your first step toward breaking free and building the life you’ve always wanted.

Or join our private community for men: https://www.facebook.com/groups/menbecomingbettermen

In this episode of Men Becoming Better Men, Bob Wischer, The Relationship Engineer, sits down with Dan Storey, a renowned author, motivational speaker, and master practitioner of neuro-linguistic programming (NLP). Dan shares his transformative journey from a competitive athlete to one of the top natural physique bodybuilders in the world. Together, they explore how understanding behavioral psychology can help men break free from limiting beliefs, regain their integrity, and rediscover their purpose. Tune in to learn actionable insights on cultivating persistence, overcoming self-doubt, and making meaningful life changes. Whether you're navigating relationship challenges, career burnout, or personal growth hurdles, this episode is packed with tools to help you thrive.

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