Stop looking at yesterday's failures and quit obsessing over a future that isn't promised. Darrell opens up about his own recent journey—walking away from a high-paying ministry position due to conviction, facing threats and betrayal, and learning to rely on "God-Math" when the numbers simply didn't add up. This isn't just a motivational talk; it’s a blueprint for spiritual and mental transformation through extreme discipline and a relentless focus on the Kingdom. Whether you are struggling financially, relationally, or spiritually, it’s time to stop punishing yourself for the past. It’s time to pick up your cross and start straining toward what is ahead.

Have you ever felt like something was "off" in your church service, but you couldn't put your finger on it?

You aren't alone. Today, millions of Christians are being swept into a movement they don’t even know the name of: The New Apostolic Reformation (NAR).

In this podcast, we pull back the curtain on the "Modern Day Prophets" and "Apostles" to ask the tough question: Is your NAR church actually a religious cult?

Using the sociological model and historical biblical theology, we break down the 5 major red flags of high-control religious groups.

We aren't just looking at the theology; we’re looking at the fruit. We discuss the emotional and spiritual trauma often left in the wake of these ministries and how to find true peace and identity in the finished work of Jesus Christ.

If you have felt drained, confused, or manipulated by "prophetic" decrees, this podcast is for you.

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Is your spiritual growth being stunted by "new revelations" that aren't even in the Bible? In this episode of Not in Church, we’re diving deep into the dangerous rise of modern-day "prophets" and "apostles" who prioritize their own visions over the Word of God. From "wealth transfer" promises to constant "fear-gated" warnings, we uncover how these teachings can distract you from a true relationship with Jesus Christ.

In this video, we discuss:

• The Foundation of Faith: Why we must start with Jesus and the Bible, not "new words" from modern figures.
• Red Flags of False Teaching: How to spot "prophetic words" that always seem to lead back to your wallet.
• The Unchangeability of God’s Word: Exploring Matthew 5 and Revelation 22 on the dangers of adding to or taking away from scripture.
• True vs. False Prophets: Why a true prophet of God has a 10/10 record, and what it means when "prophecies" fail to come true.

Stop being distracted by the "Matrix" of spiritual content. It’s time to get back to the basics and verify everything with the Word of God.

Key Scriptures Mentioned:

• Matthew 5:17-20: Jesus on the permanence of God's Law.
• Revelation 22:17-20: The final warning against adding to or removing from the Word.

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Have you ever felt like something is just off? Lately, I’ve been seeing a trend growing among us as Christians that has really been weighing on my heart. It’s something I’ve wrestled with personally, and I felt it was time we sat down and had a real, honest conversation about where we’re headed as a community.

In this podcast, I’m sharing why this specific shift in our culture is troubling me so much. It’s not about pointing fingers; it’s about looking at our faith through a lens of truth and asking ourselves if we’re drifting away from what truly matters. I want to walk through the "why" behind this trend and, more importantly, how we can navigate it together with grace.

Have you ever felt caught between two worlds?

In this episode of the Not in Church Podcast, host Darrell Puckett dives deep into the common struggle of "relying on flesh" versus "relying on God". Whether it's in your career, your marriage, or your friendships, the pressure to people please can often drown out the convictions of your faith.

Darrell shares his personal journey of navigating big life decisions—from being a creative director at a prominent Christian university to leading a family of his own—and how choosing God's path, even when it’s scary, has led to incredible blessings.

In this powerful episode of Not in Church, host Darrell Puckett tackles the heavy and often overlooked topic of spiritual abuse. Sharing from a place of vulnerability and personal experience, Darrell challenges the way some religious leaders use scripture to manipulate, judge, and alienate believers rather than leading with the love of Christ.

Using Mark 12, Matthew 5, and Matthew 7 as a foundation, we explore what it truly means to "love your neighbor as yourself" and why many long-standing church traditions have driven people away from the body of Christ. Darrell also reveals a recent personal encounter with spiritual immaturity from a former leader, illustrating the difference between constructive challenge and toxic judgment—specifically through social media DMs.

Whether you've felt the weight of religious guilt or you're questioning your place in a traditional congregation, this episode is a call to return to the Red Letters—the actual teachings of Jesus—and to find confidence in your salvation.

Timestamps

• 0:00 - Intro: A different perspective on "Loving your neighbor."
• 1:21 - Defining Spiritual Abuse: When leaders exemplify religion over Jesus.
• 3:13 - The Power of Relationships in Ministry vs. Legalism.
• 4:15 - Why decades of leadership don't always equal spiritual maturity.
• 6:10 - The "DM" Incident: When spiritual correction becomes an attack.
• 8:45 - Mark 12: The Greatest Commandment and the Heart of Jesus.
• 10:48 - Challenging the "Hit Rate" of modern spiritual confrontation.
• 11:58 - Matthew 5: The Beatitudes and facing religious persecution.
• 14:10 - Matthew 7: The Log in your eye and the danger of hypocrisy.
• 16:15 - Identifying False Prophets by their fruit (actions).
• 18:30 - "Lord, Lord": Why religious works don't replace knowing Jesus.
• 20:45 - Personal Reflection: Coffee with Elders vs. Spiritual Dictatorship.
• 23:30 - Shining Light on the Shadows: How abuse thrives in secrecy.
• 26:00 - Confidence in Salvation: Why you shouldn't let leaders shake your faith.
• 28:15 - The DM Breakdown: Dissecting a message from a former leader.
• 30:30 - Final Thoughts: Choosing the positive "Feel-Goodism" of Christ.

Why is the modern church struggling to make a real impact? In this episode of the Not In Church podcast, Dalton Darnell (3:10 Ranch Life) joins the show to discuss the disconnect between religious "performance" and true identity in Christ.

Dalton shares his personal journey from a "lukewarm" faith to a radical transformation while in the military. We dive deep into the "Problem with Church"—discussing how many modern institutions have become scalability propositions focused on production rather than the Great Commission.

In this video, we discuss:

• The difference between having knowledge of the Word and actually living it.
• The biblical metaphor of the Sheep and the Goats and how it applies to modern congregations.
• The "cowboy world" vs. the "church world" and the need for authentic, sacrificial love.
• Why many pastors struggle to lead because they haven't solidified their own identity.

If you've ever felt like there was more to faith than just a 30-minute Sunday sermon, this conversation is for you.

• 00:00 – Introduction: Welcome to the Not In Church podcast.
• 01:05 – Dalton Darnell’s Background: Best friends for 15 years.
• 01:50 – The Moment of Transformation: Finding Jesus in the military.
• 03:10 – The Danger of "Lukewarm" Faith: Knowledge vs. Application.
• 04:15 – What is the "Problem with Church" today?.
• 05:00 – The Mega-Church Experience: From Church of Christ to the Highlands.
• 06:20 – The Scalability Proposition: Are churches focused on the wrong metrics?.
• 07:45 – Modern Worship as a "Ted Talk" with strobe lights.
• 08:50 – The Identity Crisis: Why the goats are outnumbering the sheep.
• 09:30 – The "Goats" of Matthew 25: Proclaiming faith without knowing the Word.
• 11:00 – The "Walmart" Test: Where are all the believers in the real world?.
• 12:15 – What is True Church? Sacrificial love over brick and mortar.
• 13:50 – The Example of a Godly Leader: Dalton’s grandfather.
• 15:00 – Cowboys vs. Christians: The struggle to love those who are different.
• 16:30 – Correcting in Love: Respect and Relationship.
• 18:15 – Avoiding the Pharisee Trap: Arguing the rules vs. living the Gospel.
• 20:00 – Dealing with Internal Hate: A personal story of repentance.
• 22:15 – Final Thoughts: Simplifying the Gospel and the power of conviction.

Are you feeling overwhelmed by constant challenges and setbacks? It might not just be a bad day—it could be a spiritual attack. In this final episode of 2025, we dive deep into the reality of spiritual warfare and how to navigate the "fiery ordeals" mentioned in scripture.

We explore why the enemy attacks most when you are having a kingdom impact and why "good times" can sometimes be a danger zone for your spiritual growth. Learn how to submit to God, resist the devil, and use divine weapons to demolish strongholds in your life.

As we transition from 2025 into 2026, we challenge you to take a "time-allotment inventory" and commit to making the difficult choices that lead to character, perseverance, and hope.

Key Topics Covered:

• Understanding the source of spiritual attacks
• Why the enemy wants you to focus on yourself rather than God
• Practical steps to respond to spiritual warfare using Scripture
• The purpose behind your trials: Building perseverance and character
• A 30-day challenge to transform your life by choosing the harder path

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Timestamps

• 00:00 – Introduction: When things are going too "good"
• 01:00 – Common struggles: Anxiety, depression, and spirituality
• 02:25 – Recap of 2025 topics: Marriage, wealth, and spiritual attacks
• 04:00 – Taking a "Time-Allotment Inventory" for the New Year
• 05:30 – Personal Story: A day where everything went wrong
• 07:45 – The Lie: Why the enemy attacks when you exemplify Jesus
• 09:40 – The Danger Point: Being prideful when things are easy
• 11:00 – Facing Opposition: What the Bible says about persecution
• 12:50 – Knowing Your Opponent: The spiritual source of our struggles
• 14:30 – How to Respond: Submitting to God and resisting the enemy
• 16:00 – The Purpose of Trials: Building character and hope
• 18:20 – The Focus Trap: Why the enemy wants you to focus on yourself
• 20:15 – The 2026 Challenge: Choosing the harder decision every day
• 22:30 – Closing Thoughts: Using your gifts for Kingdom Impact