I’m doubling down on the live grenade I tossed into the room when I said work-life balance is bullshit, and in this mini-episode I unpack why building our work around our lives still doesn’t mean balance is the answer. I share why the pursuit of work-life balance only leads to guilt, why in our hyper-connected, post-pandemic hellscape it’s not just futile but meaningless, and how chasing equal time between work and life can leave us miserable. I also dig into the shift that changed everything for me after reading Four Thousand Weeks, why I’m no longer interested in balance but fulfillment, and how embracing a conscious, strategic imbalance might be the only way to create meaningful work, be at peace with how I spend my time, and avoid wasting these four thousand weeks.

All that in more in my latest Substack → Feel like you're always behind and never enough? Blame work-life "balance."

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What happens when the simple question “What do you want to achieve this year? And why?” leads to an existential crisis?

In this mini-episode, we pull back the curtain on why setting goals feels harder than ever, why most people aren’t at peace with how they’re spending their time, and how the endless chase for more money, more time, and more balance quietly keeps us stuck. We tease a simpler, more honest way to ask the goals question, unpack why “work-life balance” might be the wrong thing to pursue altogether, and set the stage for the mindset shift that can finally help you stop spinning in circles and feel at peace with your time.

All that in more in my latest Substack → When setting goals triggers an existential crisis

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When uncertainty feels constant and exhausting, this episode explores how to ignore almost everything outside your control, accept that uncertainty is the only thing you can predict, and spend your limited time and energy on what actually matters. Using the GO FAR framework, we break down how clear and meaningful goals create focus when all hope seems lost, illustrated through a real Hot Seat coaching session where breaking big goals into tiny next steps transforms anxiety, restores clarity, and reveals exactly what to focus on next.

All that in more in my latest Substack → The crippling fear of never knowing what's "next"

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What should I be doing next?

That’s exactly the question I tackle with my student, Marcella Garcia, in today’s Hot Seat Friday. And here’s the TLDR of the conversation: If you’re stuck asking, "What should I be doing next?," it usually means you’re not clear on two other questions:

1. What do you want to achieve and why?
2. What’s actually stopping you?

These are core components of the GO FAR framework, which is the foundation of all my work in the Arnold Academy, and in less than 25 minutes, I help Marcella go from complete lack of clarity to knowing exactly what she needs to do next.

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This mini-episode from my lastest Substack article is a quiet gut punch and a wake-up call. A single Christmas photo opens the door to the moments you never realize are the last ones, the traditions that end without warning, and the time we unknowingly trade away to screens, noise, and busyness. It’s not about doing more, achieving more, or optimizing your life, but about noticing what actually matters before it’s gone and asking a simple, uncomfortable question: what moments are you choosing to create while you still have the chance?

All that in more in my latest Substack → You are not lost. You are just asking the wrong question.

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If you're feeling a little bit overwhelmed, and if it feels like all the effort you've been putting in this year is not leading to the results you want, then I invite you to learn a little bit more about this thing called the plateau of latent potential, a concept from James Clear's Atomic Habits that I talk a whole lot more in today's Hot Seat with one of the students in the Arnold Academy, Rob Tovey.

After that, Rob and I shift gears to discuss how he can prioritize and clarify what his goals are for 2026, defining specifically what is that scary goal in work, and in life. We also explore how to prioritize attention from everything he could be doing to the things he should actually focus on.

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What if the reason you feel stuck, burned out, or off course isn’t a lack of effort but the fact that you’ve been blindly walking in circles, absolutely convinced you were moving straight ahead?

Using the science of walking blindfolded as a metaphor for modern life, this episode "You are not lost. You are just asking the wrong question." unpacks how linear career paths, industrial-era education, and the question “WHAT do you want to be when you grow up?” train us to chase the wrong goalposts, confuse motion with progress, and sacrifice our creative soul. We explore why life is cyclical rather than linear, how Mark Manson’s Four Stages of Life better reflect the messy reality of growth, why transitions between stages suck ass, and how reframing the question from WHAT you do to WHO you want to become can help you stop walking in circles and start moving toward work and life that actually matter.

I’m curious...WHO do you want to be when you grow up?

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In today’s Hot Seat conversation, Julie and I dive deep into what it really feels like when your creativity and cognitive clarity start slipping through your fingers. I talk through the hidden impact of dopamine-driven distraction, and we explore how removing social media can expose just how out of shape our brains have become. Together we dig into boredom as a skill, cognitive fitness as training, and the fears that surface when you step into collaboration and authenticity. If you’ve ever felt foggy, scattered, or disconnected from your creativity… this is the episode you need.

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