• We Ranked Every Men's Underwear Style (You'll Be Surprised)
    Jan 19 2026

    ⬇️We Rank our Latest Releases:
    https://youtu.be/m50GKidGQw8

    Chris and Tilghman tackle the ultimate question: which underwear style reigns supreme for everyday wear? From briefs to boxer briefs, and even the controversial commando debate, they're ranking every major style based on real-world experience. Prepare for some honest opinions that might surprise you.Key moments:

    0:00 - Introduction and the ultimate underwear question
    0:32 - Starting with classic briefs: the whitey tighty debate
    3:31 - Trunks (3-inch inseam): why they don't work for most guys
    6:21 - Boxer shorts: the chafing nightmare
    9:42 - Boxer briefs: the everyday champion
    13:17 - Jockstraps: support vs. everyday comfort
    16:42 - Thongs: the most controversial pick
    19:44 - Leggings: warmth vs. practicality
    22:01 - Going commando: cooked or locked in?
    24:30 - The importance of pouch underwear and proper supportJoin our community:

    Website: https://rmac.store
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/real_men_apparel_company
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/RealMenApparelCompany#UnderwearRanking #MensUnderwear #RealMenRealTalk #BoxerBriefs #MensFashion #UnderwearReview

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    26 mins
  • "Us Alcoholics Rationalize Everything" | Addiction to Restoration Part 1
    Dec 8 2025

    The Lies We Tell - Self Deception: https://spotifycreators-web.app.link/e/QFlL7lP1VYb


    Zach joins us to share his journey from college party culture to rock bottom - and how he's maintained 10 years of sobriety. This isn't just another addiction story; it's a masterclass in recognizing self-deception and finding the path to restoration.


    Key moments:

    0:00 - "Us alcoholics, we try and rationalize things" - The self-deception begins

    0:34 - Meet Zach: From watching our addiction episodes to sharing his story

    1:14 - "That is the story of my life" - Why Zach reached out

    1:30 - Middle-upper class upbringing: "Parents did everything to set me up for success"

    2:30 - George MacDonald quote: "A man is addicted when he's a slave to anything less than himself"

    3:38 - High school drinking vs. college reality at Ohio University (#1 party school)

    4:31 - "Drinking was actually fun for me" - Fraternity life and MMA fighting

    5:18 - Mom's hospital job offer: "Make sure you make mom proud" (spoiler: he didn't)

    6:07 - Moving back home: "I'm backtracking in life" - The depression spiral

    7:15 - 3 AM basement boxing matches while parents work at 5:30 AM

    8:25 - November 5, 2015: Celebrating 10 years of sobriety

    9:13 - The 3-day rule: "If I only drink Thursday, Friday, Saturday, I'm not an alcoholic"

    10:23 - Monday-Tuesday-Wednesday becomes every single night

    11:40 - The hospital operator position: When physicians' calls go nowhere

    12:29 - CLIFFHANGER: The morning that changed everything


    Zach drops truth bomb after truth bomb about addiction's progression. From convincing himself that three drinking days per week meant he wasn't an alcoholic, to eventually drinking every single night, his story reveals how quickly "college fun" becomes life-consuming addiction.


    The connection to our recent self-deception episode is undeniable - Tilghman shares his own Monaco and shot-counting rationalizations that mirror Zach's three-day rule perfectly.


    Most powerful moment: Even after 10 years sober, Zach still calls himself an alcoholic because "I am one drink away from being right back to that crazy person."


    Part 2 drops next week - find out what happened when the hospital calls went nowhere.


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    Website: https://rmac.store

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/real_men_apparel_company

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/RealMenApparelCompany


    #Addiction #Recovery #Sobriety #10YearsSober #AlcoholAddiction #SelfDeception #AddictionRecovery #RealMenRealTalk #SobrietyJourney #CollegeAlcoholism #AAStories #RecoveryIsPossible #AddictionAwareness #MentalHealth #Alcoholism

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    13 mins
  • Everything New at Real Men - Better Fits, New Colors, Coming Soon Preview
    Jan 12 2026

    ⬇️Our Founder's Story: Part 1:

    https://creators.spotify.com/pod/profile/chris-dearborn/episodes/Spent-my-Savings-on-Underwear--Founder-Jared-Mortensen-Part-1-e3cu5sl


    We've got new releases across the board - and some serious improvements to your favorite styles. From thongs that finally sit right to Modal jocks that feel like you're wearing nothing, we're breaking down every new product plus what's coming next.


    Key moments:

    0:30 - The waistband question: Where do you like yours to sit?

    1:26 - Thin fabric covered waistband thongs: Lower pouch fixes the chafing issue

    2:34 - Christmas color boxer briefs: V-Fly meets Italian flag vibes

    5:22 - Updated nylon jocks: Proudest moment dropping that pouch entrance

    6:28 - Modal jockstraps: "Like wearing clouds" - perfect for PJ wear

    8:35 - New crimson thongs: Most improved product award goes to...

    9:47 - VFly briefs preview: Brushed nylon prototype reveal

    11:59 - Coming soon: Valentine's colors, three-pack blacks, and multiple drops this year


    This episode walks through every new release we just dropped - the good, the improvements, and why certain changes matter. Tilghman breaks down the Christmas boxer briefs while Chris gets genuinely excited about jock improvements. Real talk about what works, what we fixed, and where we're headed.


    Whether you're a thong guy, boxer brief loyalist, or jock convert, there's something in this launch for you. Plus a behind-the-scenes look at Jared's 24-hour world flight to lock down upcoming colors.


    Join our community:

    Website: https://rmac.store

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/real_men_apparel_company

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/RealMenApparelCompany


    #Underwear #MensUnderwear #ProductLaunch #Thongs #Jockstraps #BoxerBriefs #RealMen #ComfortableUnderwear #NewRelease #ModalFabric #VFly #RealMenRealTalk

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    14 mins
  • Abusive Relationship with Underwear | Founder Jared Mortensen Part 2
    Jan 5 2026

    ⬇️Spent my Savings on Underwear | Founder Jared Mortensen Part 1:

    https://open.spotify.com/episode/2e982eGKgl55RzKqAAUmll?si=4bc8916e35754fce


    Part 2 with founder Jared Mortensen dives deep into what makes Real Men different from Tommy John, Saxx, and other premium brands. Chris shares his $40-per-pair disappointment with competitors before Jared explains the engineering difference between external and internal pouch designs.


    Key moments:

    0:14 - Welcome back to part 2 with founder Jared Mortensen

    0:45 - Why profit margins are kept low: "We're trying to give product to as many customers as possible"

    1:16 - The Amazon fee reality: 20-30% just for advertising

    2:00 - Chris's expensive experiment with Tommy John, Saxx, and Mack Weldon

    2:50 - "Great fabrics, just not great construction" - The competitor problem

    3:17 - External vs internal pouch: The fundamental design difference

    4:00 - Visual demonstration with prosthetic models

    4:44 - "But won't I show through my pants?" - The concern addressed

    5:17 - Natural positioning vs being smashed: "The way God designed you"

    6:45 - Temperature regulation: Move naturally or sweat excessively

    6:57 - "Guys are stuck in an abusive relationship with their underwear"

    7:45 - The White Elephant gift strategy that converts skeptics

    8:34 - Chris's mortifying pastor story at Christmas

    9:25 - The generous return/replacement policy explained

    10:00 - 36 sizes vs 4: The inventory complexity challenge

    11:26 - The inseam education: Why your boxer briefs ride up

    12:37 - Converting boxer brief guys to briefs with proper design

    13:33 - Where returns go: Donation program for homeless organizations

    14:35 - Product range: Briefs, jocks, leggings, and more


    This episode reveals why Real Men maintains 36 sizes (9x more than competitors), charges the same for S-5X despite cost differences, and offers multiple replacements to find perfect fit. Jared explains how external pouch design allows natural temperature regulation while Chris shares his journey from $40 disappointments to finding what actually works.


    Chris's verdict after trying premium competitors: "I don't know why they're that expensive. I could see our stuff being that expensive because it's totally worth it."


    Join our community:

    Website: https://rmac.store

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/real_men_apparel_company

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/RealMenApparelCompany


    #MensUnderwear #ExternalPouch #ProductDesign #FounderInterview #RealMenApparel #EngineeringComfort #SizeInclusive #ReturnPolicy #PouchDesign #UnderwearRevolution #ComfortTechnology #TemperatureRegulation #JaredMortensen #ChrisDearborn

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    16 mins
  • Leadership: Only 31% Trust Their Boss (Here's Why) - Real Men Part 5
    Oct 20 2025

    ⬇️Best Underwear Ever:

    https://shorturl.at/2E1zB


    Part 5 of "What Makes a Real Man" connects the dots between personal discipline and effective leadership. You can't lead others if you can't even get yourself to shower regularly (yes, we go there). This isn't about perfection - it's about small, consistent choices that compound into real change.


    Key moments:

    0:00 - Store transformation: "Day and night within six months"

    1:01 - The uncomfortable question: Why is it so hard to do what we know we should?

    1:31 - Statistics: 62% make resolutions, only 9% succeed

    2:09 - Small habits compound: The James Clear approach

    3:14 - Proverbs wisdom: "A man without self-control is like a city with broken walls"

    4:03 - Tilghman's story: Eight months of letting himself go after his son's birth

    5:04 - The 15-minute walk that changed everything

    6:14 - From personal discipline to workplace transformation

    7:31 - Leadership through showing confidence in your team first

    9:07 - Visible store changes: From complaints to compliments

    10:11 - "The days I worked out, I felt way better at my job"


    This episode shows how Tilghman went from showering irregularly to transforming an entire Dollar General store through small, disciplined choices. The connection is clear: personal discipline creates the foundation for authentic leadership that people actually want to follow.


    Practical Applications:

    - Start with ONE small habit (15-minute walk, making your bed, whatever)

    - Let small wins compound - three weeks of walks led to gym routine

    - Show confidence in your team before expecting them to trust you

    - Your morning discipline affects your entire workday

    - Focus on 1-2% improvements, not massive overhauls


    Coming next week: Sacrificial love - the category that changes everything (seriously, we're not overstating this one).


    Join our community:

    Website: https://rmac.store

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/real_men_apparel_company

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/RealMenApparelCompany


    #Discipline #Leadership #RealMen #SelfControl #AtomicHabits #Management #PersonalGrowth #DollarGeneral #WorkLifeBalance #SmallHabits #Masculinity #RealMenRealTalk #NewYearsResolution #DailyRoutine #TeamBuilding

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    12 mins
  • 6: Story Time - Tilgman's Real Men Apparel Journey
    Mar 14 2025

    In this week's Monday Motivation, Tilghman shares his unexpected journey with Real Men Apparel - from initially thinking "I don't want to sell men's underwear" to finding purpose in helping men feel comfortable in their own skin.

    ⬇️Best Underwear Ever:

    https://shorturl.at/2E1zB


    Join the Real Men Community:

    Website: https://rmac.store

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/real_men_apparel_company

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/RealMenApparelCompany


    #MondayMotivation #RealMenApparel #CareerChange #BodyPositivity #MensHealth #Entrepreneurship

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    22 mins
  • 🏠 Unexpected Neighbors: Finding Brotherhood Next Door
    May 19 2025

    ⬇️Best Underwear Ever:

    https://shorturl.at/2E1zB


    In this week's episode, Chris and Tilghman explore the serendipitous ways meaningful male friendships form, as Tilghman shares how he discovered a like-minded dad living just five doors down. Learn how proximity, shared experiences, and letting go of perfect agreement can lead to transformative peer relationships.


    Key moments:

    0:15 - Introduction to the power of finding peers in unexpected places

    1:16 - Tilghman discovers his neighbor is connected in multiple surprising ways

    2:35 - How their children reconnected from daycare

    3:38 - The importance of finding peers at the right time in life

    5:02 - Dan Hollander's wisdom: "Find like-hearted kings living in the same direction"

    6:49 - Navigating differences in beliefs while maintaining friendship

    8:53 - How peer relationships improve communication skills and maturity

    12:16 - The late-night conversations that build connection

    13:02 - Breaking out of the "holy huddle" to form real relationships

    14:29 - The rock tumbler analogy: how friction with others smooths our rough edges

    17:02 - Tilghman's powerful reflection on becoming "more present" through friendship


    Join our community:

    Website: https://rmac.store

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/real_men_apparel_company

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/RealMenApparelCompany


    #MaleFriendship #NeighborhoodConnections #FindingCommunity #DadLife #MensGrowth #PeerRelationships

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    19 mins
  • The Moment Everything Changed | Addiction to Restoration Part 3
    Dec 22 2025

    Watch Part 2:

    https://spotifycreators-web.app.link/e/mxVTnQA62Yb


    The conclusion of Zach's journey from homeless addiction to 10 years of sobriety. This episode reveals what finally broke through after losing everything - and the simple act of kindness that changed his life forever.


    Key moments:

    0:00 - Homeless in Cleveland: "All I had to do was be clean"

    0:42 - Walking parking lot lines for nickels and dimes

    1:09 - Dumpster diving for Little Caesars leftovers

    1:36 - Living in a handicapped port-a-potty to escape the snow

    2:17 - Chris: "That guy's homeless... not yet" comes true

    2:49 - From bougie rehabs to cockroach and rat infestations

    4:35 - "I was trying to convince myself it's going to be different"

    5:51 - Tilghman on autopilot and staying present

    7:10 - "There's a lot of pain... but once that higher desire clicks"

    8:07 - Calling hotels for lost gift cards

    9:02 - Found gift card leads to airport parking lot

    10:34 - Guardian angel pays for plane ticket: "Help someone else in need"

    14:39 - November 5, 2015: Clean and sober ever since

    15:11 - "I don't have enough time in a day to do all the things I love"

    15:57 - Learning to have fun in recovery

    16:14 - Addressing the underlying issues

    18:18 - Longboard skateboarding and finding new passions

    19:09 - The dog story: Feeling warmth and heartbeat for the first time

    20:47 - "There is a better way of living and you can do it"


    The most powerful moment: After years of passing out next to the family dog while drunk, Zach finally felt her heartbeat, her warmth, her breathing - experiencing life he'd been numb to for a decade.


    From walking parking lots for change to buy Four Lokos, to not having enough hours in the day for all the things he loves - this is what real restoration

    looks like.


    The guardian angel who paid for his plane ticket asked for nothing except: "When you get back on your feet, help someone else in need."

    10 years later, Zach's doing exactly that by sharing his story.


    Join our community:

    Website: https://rmac.store

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/real_men_apparel_company

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/RealMenApparelCompany


    #AddictionRecovery #10YearsSober #Sobriety #HomelessToHope #GuardianAngel #RecoveryIsPossible #RealMenRealTalk #Cleveland #AddictionRestoration #SoberLife #12Steps #SecondChances #HelpOthers #November5 #CleanAndSober

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    21 mins