Are you craving spirtiual or mental breakthrough in your life? Have you ever felt stuck in the loop of anxiety, overwhelm, or heaviness—wondering if you'll ever be free?

In this episode of the She's So Well podcast, Allie Marie Smith sits down with Ashleigh Di Lello, speaker, professional dancer, Dancing with the Stars contestant, neuroscience coach, and a pioneer in bio-emotional healing, for a hope-filled conversation about what healing can actually look like—mind, body, and spirit. Ashleigh shares her powerful journey of overcoming life-threatening health challenges through the power of Christ, visualization, and neuroscience, and how learning to work with the brain-body connection changed everything.

Ashleigh and Allie talk about thoughts and beliefs shape your inner world, the role of faith in the healing process, and why you're not powerless amid what you're facing. If you've been battling despair, fatigue, anxiety, or feeling disconnected from yourself, this episode is a gentle reminder: you're not alone—and healing is possible.

About Ashleigh
Asheligh Di Lello is the founder and creator of Bio Emotional Healing®, a revolutionary neuroscience-based method that helps clients around the world break free from emotional trauma, limiting beliefs, anxiety, and the effects of chronic pain and illness. Despite being told by doctors she wouldn't live past her teenage years, she refused to give up and discovered the key to rewiring the brain-body connection. Through a 20-year journey and deep study of neuroscience, she overcame the emotional, physical, and mental battles in her own life and went on to become an elite athlete, TV and Broadway star, Brain Coach, and keynote speaker.

Show Notes

Connect with Us
Free guide: "5 Keys to Walking In Your Worth."
wonderfullymade.org

Allie's Books
Social Media Reset: A 30-Day Guided Journey to Unplug, Reconnect with God, and Reclaim Your Joy
Wonderfully Made: Discover the Identity, Love, and Worth You Were Created For

Social Media
@wonderfullymade_org
@alliemariesmith

Resources
Life Coaching for Teen Girls
Social Media Reset Course
Wonderfully Made Young Women's Course

Have you ever felt like you're doing all the things… and it still doesn't feel like enough?

In this warm, honest episode, Allie interviews author, speaker, and neuroscience coach Robyn Graham, who gets real about perfectionism—where it comes from, why it shows up so strongly for so many girls and women, and how it quietly messes with our mental health, relationships, and even our faith. If you've ever struggled with the pressure to "keep it together," look a certain way, or perform your way into being worthy… you're not alone.

Together, they unpack the roots of perfectionism (hello, culture and social media), what's actually happening in your brain and nervous system when you're stuck in overdrive, and why calming your body is a huge part of healing your mind. You'll also walk away with practical tools—like small mindset shifts and simple language changes—that can help you step out of the exhausting cycle of striving.

This conversation is full of grace, truth, and deep exhale energy—a reminder that you don't have to earn rest, love, or wholeness. You're allowed to be human… and still be held.

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Show Notes

Connect with Us
Free guide: "5 Keys to Walking In Your Worth."
wonderfullymade.org

Allie's Books
Social Media Reset: A 30-Day Guided Journey to Unplug, Reconnect with God, and Reclaim Your Joy
Wonderfully Made: Discover the Identity, Love, and Worth You Were Created For

Social Media
@wonderfullymade_org
@alliemariesmith
TikTok

Resources
Life Coaching for Teen Girls
Social Media Reset Course
Wonderfully Made Young Women's Course

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Perfectionism
02:11 Understanding Perfectionism and Its Impact
02:44 NEWCHAPTER
03:27 Robin's Personal Journey with Perfectionism
06:06 Cultural Influences on Perfectionism
10:50 The Control-Perfectionism-Anxiety Connection
13:05 Pursuing Excellence vs. Striving for Perfection
18:12 Practical Mindset and Language Shifts
24:29 Neuroscience of Perfectionism
28:44 Regulating the Nervous System
33:18 Final Encouragement and Hope

It's January 2026 — a brand-new year — and for many girls and women, getting their ideal body is top of mind. Are you constantly trying to fix your body? Are you dieting chronically, or imprisoned by an eating disorder, or clothed in body shame? There is hope, and you can experience freedom. Alisa Keaton, author and Founder of Revelation Wellness, joins Allie to share her story of going from body obsession to body freedom, from competitive bodybuilder to a grace-filled, faith-based fitness leader. Alisa shares her personal story of finding joy in movement and the transformative power of faith in achieving holistic wellness. Explore the societal pressures surrounding body image, the journey of overcoming body shame, and the significance of viewing our bodies as gifts rather than projects to be fixed. She talks about how our bodies are not projects to be fixed. Learn one thing you can start doing today that will lead you to a place of freedom and joy.

Takeaways
Getting our ideal body can often be top of mind.
Many women struggle with body image and eating disorders.
There is hope for freedom from body obsession.
Physical wellness and spiritual maturity are deeply connected.
Our bodies are not projects to fix, but gifts to cherish.
Obsession and neglect are two common patterns in body image.
We need to focus on the person, not just the body.
Joy and love are experienced in the body, not just the mind.
Practical steps to wellness include getting out of your head and into your body.
God loves us uniquely and wants us to embrace our bodies.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to the Podcast and New Year's Resolutions
02:38 The Gift of Our Bodies and Food
05:27 Alisa's Journey to Fitness and Body Acceptance
14:05 Body as a Temple vs. Trophy
17:06 Obsession vs. Neglect in Body Image
22:03 Practical Steps to Wellness
29:21 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

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Links
Revelation Wellness
Book: Social Media Reset
Book: Wonderfully Made
alliemariesmith.com
wonderfullymade.org