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Selfless Esteem

Selfless Esteem

Written by: Gina Leggio
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Hi, I'm Gina Leggio. Having been a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist for over 20 years, I've observed how the mental health field has emphasized self-esteem. I've also noticed how this can be counterproductive because it involves self-evaluation, which causes insecurity, anxiety, and more. I define Selfless Esteem as freedom from self-consciousness by focusing on our Creator, who is "the Beginning and the End" (Revelation 1:8). The result is joy and peace.2026 Hygiene & Healthy Living Psychology Psychology & Mental Health Spirituality
Episodes
  • How To Deal with Aggressive Preschool Tantrums
    Jan 12 2026

    Dear Selfless Esteem,
    My sister's in jail and her kids are in my care now. Her 4yo is about to get kicked out of preschool because he throws chairs and hits the other kids. He also tantrums at home, screams, hits his sister, and throws things. What do I do?
    Signed,
    Tornado Watch

    Tune in for the answer.

    It's free to submit an anonymous question at GinaLeggio.com. The answer could be featured in a blog post, YouTube video, and/or podcast episode.

    If you're interested in online therapy in Texas, California and Louisiana: Selfless-Esteem.com

    About me:
    I'm Gina Leggio, and I've been a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist since 2002. I'm licensed in the following states: CA, TX, and LA. I've provided mental health services for all ages up to 96 years old at a convalescent hospital, a juvenile detention center, intensive field-based programs, a shelter, community mental health centers, a community college, and various elementary schools and high schools. In addition to providing services directly, I've clinically supervised approximately 1,000 cases.

    If you're in imminent danger, call 911. If you need immediate assistance, go to the nearest emergency room. If you're in crisis, Text HOME to 741741 to reach a crisis counselor. If you're having suicidal thoughts, call or text the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 988. Another option is to use the chat feature at Lifeline Chat. There are also suicide hotlines in each state listed on suicide.org. For other countries, see Wikipedia's list of suicide crisis lines.

    This podcast episode by Gina Leggio and Selfless Esteem, PLLC, is meant for informational and entertainment purposes only and is not intended to amount to professional or specific advice on which reliance should be placed. The information is not a substitute for advice, diagnosis, or treatment regarding medical or mental health conditions. Listening to the podcast does not establish any kind of professional-client relationship. Although Gina Leggio strives to provide accurate general information, the information presented here is not a substitute for services of a medical, legal or mental health professional, and you should not rely solely on this information. Always consult a professional in your area prior to making any professional, legal, financial or tax related decisions. Always consult your physician before making any decisions regarding your physical or mental health.

    Copyright Selfless Esteem, PLLC
    Music copyright: Gina Maria Leggio, Selfless Esteem
    Any and all Scripture quotations are from the World English Bible™; "World English Bible" is a Trademark of eBible.org.

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    7 mins
  • Coping with the Death of a Loved One
    Jan 5 2026

    Dear Selfless Esteem,
    My husband died a couple months ago and I'm devastated. I told our kids that he is in Heaven. Still, we are all hurting. My 12yo is irritable, my 9 yo is having stomach aches, and my 4yo is clingy and has nightmares. What else can I do?
    Signed,
    Overwhelmed with Grief

    Tune in for the answer.

    It's free to submit an anonymous question at GinaLeggio.com. The answer could be featured in a blog post, YouTube video, and/or podcast episode.

    If you're interested in online therapy in Texas, California and Louisiana: Selfless-Esteem.com

    About me:
    I'm Gina Leggio, and I've been a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist since 2002. I'm licensed in the following states: CA, TX, and LA. I've provided mental health services for all ages up to 96 years old at a convalescent hospital, a juvenile detention center, intensive field-based programs, a shelter, community mental health centers, a community college, and various elementary schools and high schools. In addition to providing services directly, I've clinically supervised approximately 1,000 cases.

    If you're in imminent danger, call 911. If you need immediate assistance, go to the nearest emergency room. If you're in crisis, Text HOME to 741741 to reach a crisis counselor. If you're having suicidal thoughts, call or text the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 988. Another option is to use the chat feature at Lifeline Chat. There are also suicide hotlines in each state listed on suicide.org. For other countries, see Wikipedia's list of suicide crisis lines.

    This podcast episode by Gina Leggio and Selfless Esteem, PLLC, is meant for informational and entertainment purposes only and is not intended to amount to professional or specific advice on which reliance should be placed. The information is not a substitute for advice, diagnosis, or treatment regarding medical or mental health conditions. Listening to the podcast does not establish any kind of professional-client relationship. Although Gina Leggio strives to provide accurate general information, the information presented here is not a substitute for services of a medical, legal or mental health professional, and you should not rely solely on this information. Always consult a professional in your area prior to making any professional, legal, financial or tax related decisions. Always consult your physician before making any decisions regarding your physical or mental health.

    Copyright Selfless Esteem, PLLC
    Music copyright: Gina Maria Leggio, Selfless Esteem
    Any and all Scripture quotations are from the World English Bible™, the updated version, with the exact wording in ebible.org. "World English Bible" is a Trademark of eBible.org.

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    8 mins
  • 3 Uncommon New Year's Resolutions
    Dec 29 2025

    It's almost New Year's Eve. Do you have a New Year's resolution yet? Tune in for 3 uncommon resolutions.

    It's free to submit an anonymous question at GinaLeggio.com. The answer could be featured in a blog post, YouTube video, and/or podcast episode.

    If you're interested in online therapy in Texas, California and Louisiana: Selfless-Esteem.com

    About me:
    I'm Gina Leggio, and I've been a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist since 2002. I'm licensed in the following states: CA, TX, and LA. I've provided mental health services for all ages up to 96 years old at a convalescent hospital, a juvenile detention center, intensive field-based programs, a shelter, community mental health centers, a community college, and various elementary schools and high schools. In addition to providing services directly, I've clinically supervised approximately 1,000 cases.

    If you're in imminent danger, call 911. If you need immediate assistance, go to the nearest emergency room. If you're in crisis, Text HOME to 741741 to reach a crisis counselor. If you're having suicidal thoughts, call or text the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 988. Another option is to use the chat feature at Lifeline Chat. There are also suicide hotlines in each state listed on suicide.org. For other countries, see Wikipedia's list of suicide crisis lines.

    This podcast episode by Gina Leggio and Selfless Esteem, PLLC, is meant for informational and entertainment purposes only and is not intended to amount to professional or specific advice on which reliance should be placed. The information is not a substitute for advice, diagnosis, or treatment regarding medical or mental health conditions. Listening to the podcast does not establish any kind of professional-client relationship. Although Gina Leggio strives to provide accurate general information, the information presented here is not a substitute for services of a medical, legal or mental health professional, and you should not rely solely on this information. Always consult a professional in your area prior to making any professional, legal, financial or tax related decisions. Always consult your physician before making any decisions regarding your physical or mental health.

    Copyright Selfless Esteem, PLLC
    Music copyright: Gina Maria Leggio, Selfless Esteem
    Any and all Scripture quotations are from the World English Bible™, the updated version, with the exact wording in ebible.org. "World English Bible" is a Trademark of eBible.org.

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    5 mins
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