• We are Moving! Why I'm Consolidating My Podcasts
    Jun 18 2025

    A significant change is happening with my "So You Think You're Gay" podcast that I need to share with all my loyal listeners. After careful consideration and feedback from my team, I'm consolidating all my content under one roof The Sho Whitener Podcast. This isn't an ending but a relocation that will actually enhance your listening experience.

    The subject of homosexuality and faith remains incredibly close to my heart. Having walked this path personally, I created this platform to provide a judgment free, loving space where people can share their journeys and perspectives on sexuality and spirituality. That mission isn't changing at all. I'm still passionate about hearing your stories whether you're currently identifying as gay, have previously identified as gay, or hold different perspectives on the topic. The only difference is where you'll find these conversations.

    I've noticed people continuing to download and listen despite my extended absence, which warms my heart and confirms the importance of maintaining this space. All existing episodes will be transferred to the Sho Whitener Podcast in the coming weeks, and I'll be developing fresh content on these topics very soon. By subscribing to my main podcast channel, you'll not only keep access to the content you value but discover other resources that might benefit you as well. Find the Sho Whitener Podcast on Apple Podcasts and all major platforms, and connect with me on social media @showwhitener. This move allows me to better serve you with organized, consistent content while maintaining the safe, authentic space we've built together.

    Thanks for listening. See you on the other side🤗

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    4 mins
  • Personal Struggles and Triumphs in LGBTQ Narratives
    Jun 2 2024

    When faith and identity intersect, the journey can be both enlightening and fraught with complexity. Join us as Sho Whitener welcomes Ty Rashad to share his poignant story of navigating life as an androgynous individual, shaped by harrowing experiences of trauma, molestation, and abandonment. Together, we create a space for respectful dialogue, examining how faith influences identity and the balance of masculine and feminine traits. Ty’s narrative offers a unique insight into the personal struggles and triumphs within the LGBTQ community.

    Our conversation broadens to explore the diverse spectrum of LGBTQ identities. We delve into the distinctions between lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer, and the societal implications of these labels. By reflecting on the tension between acceptance and ostracism, we discuss how the community evolves and the importance of preserving its integrity amidst external influences. This episode navigates the fine line between personal identity and societal perception, offering a thoughtful critique of the LGBTQ acronym's ever-expanding nature.

    Gender identity and expression form the crux of our final discussions. From the inclusion of groups like asexual and ally to the immutable aspects of biological gender, we delve into the nuanced landscape of identity. We address the challenges of using pronouns such as "they/them" and the impact of fashion on personal expression. Through insightful anecdotes, we highlight the struggles and victories of those who don’t fit traditional gender categories, emphasizing the importance of acceptance and understanding. Tune in for a heartfelt and thought-provoking episode of "So You Think You’re Gay.

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    51 mins
  • How it all started!
    Feb 1 2024

    Embark on a heartfelt journey with me, Sho Whitener, as I unfold my narrative, one that journeys from the depths of bullying and self-doubt to the discovery of inner strength and faith. My story, intertwined with the complexities of identity and belief, is not merely my own—it mirrors the struggles and triumphs of many in the LGBTQ community. Through candid conversations, we peel back the layers that often shroud our understanding of ourselves and the roles we play in the grand tapestry of human experience.

    This episode is an open invitation to a sanctuary where judgment is suspended and empathy takes the lead. Hear the vivid recount of my transformation, the reason why this platform was started.

    Join us as we challenge preconceived notions and explore the controversial, such as the immutability of sexual orientation and the burgeoning debate on children and gender identity. The path to reconciling lifestyle with faith is fraught with introspection and divine encounters—mine led me to San Antonio and a pivotal change in direction.

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    32 mins
  • Navigating Faith and Sexuality within the LGBTQ Community
    Jan 13 2024

    Have you ever stood at the crossroads of faith and sexuality, feeling like every step is a journey through uncharted territory? That's where we find ourselves in today's heart-to-heart, as we unravel the intricate tapestry of LGBTQ identity merged with Christian beliefs. Here on "So You Think You're Gay?" we're not just scratching the surface—we're digging deep into the lived experiences that shape us, the societal pressures we navigate, and the spiritual questions we grapple with.

    Join me, Sho Whitener, every week where no topic is taboo and every story is sacred. We're confronting head-on the realities of acceptance, the scars of trauma, and the weight of judgment bear at this intersection. By sharing our narratives, perspectives and stories we will excavate our stores, uncover lies and discover the truth behind what we believe and why we believe it. This is your invitation to be part of a conversation that's as enlightening as it is necessary. So, if you're ready to challenge your beliefs, affirm your identity, or simply listen with an open heart, you won't want to miss what comes next.

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    2 mins