Valentine’s Day can come with a lot of expectations about love, relationships, and how the day is supposed to feel. Most of the pressure doesn’t come from the day itself, but from the thoughts and standards we attach to it.

In this episode, we look at those expectations and explore a more logical way to sit alongside the thoughts that show up. Unlike other episodes, I don’t walk through the full logic-based cycle. This one is simpler.

The goal is just to help you feel a little less uncomfortable. To offer a different perspective that might make the day feel easier to move through.

As always, go on the website to connect about anything that comes to mind ⁠www.stillpointlogic.com⁠

Enjoy,

Hila

Children notice everything. They watch, they listen, and they build rules about the world and themselves. Most adults only see the behaviour, but the real story begins in the thoughts that come first.

In this episode, my kiddo joins me as a guest while we hang out together and put these ideas into practice. We explore how children interpret experiences, how those rules shape emotions, and why listening really matters more than correcting. We practice noticing thinking, pausing, and considering a fairer, gentler perspective together.

Whether you’re spending time with a child or reflecting on the rules you carry yourself, this episode is about understanding how thoughts become feelings and how a little attention can make a big difference.

As always, go on the website to connect about anything that comes to mind www.stillpointlogic.com

Enjoy,

Hila

Have you ever known something fully and still felt pulled in another direction? You understand what’s safe, what matters, or what’s best for you and yet your body reacts as if it doesn’t.

In this episode, we sit with that experience. We talk about the tension between what you know and how you feel, the exhaustion of noticing yourself in real time, and how to respond without turning against yourself. It’s about giving yourself a moment in the middle, letting your feelings and understanding meet slowly, and remembering that this is part of being human.

As always, go on the website to connect about anything that comes to mind ⁠www.stillpointlogic.com⁠

Enjoy,

Hila

We all have that little voice inside that points out what we’re doing wrong or worries we’re not enough. In this episode, we talk about why that voice shows up and how it can feel so convincing, especially when we overthink, like we discussed in Episode 4.

I share ways to notice when the Inner Critic is speaking, question what it’s really saying, and respond in a way that doesn’t make you feel worse. These are simple, practical ideas to help you step back from harsh self-talk and give yourself a bit of understanding.

By the end, you’ll have a few reflections and everyday strategies to handle self-criticism and treat yourself with thoughtfulness, without ignoring reality.

As always, go on the website to connect about anything that comes in mind www.stillpointlogic.com⁠

Enjoy,

Hila

Grief can feel like it swallows you whole, but it’s possible to move through it without losing yourself. In this episode, we talk about how to face loss, honour your emotions, and maintain your sense of self.

We explore ways to notice your feelings, care for yourself thoughtfully, and navigate life’s transitions without pushing grief aside or letting it take over.

By the end, you’ll have reflections and practical ideas for staying balanced and responding to your emotions in a logical, intentional way.

Whether you’re processing your own grief or supporting someone else, this episode focuses on observing your emotions, understanding their impact, and managing them in a practical, thoughtful way.

Visit my website to connect, about anything that comes in mind: ⁠www.stillpointlogic.com⁠

Hila

In Episode 5, we turn toward relationships and the often unexamined beliefs we carry about love, responsibility, and connection. These assumptions can create pressure, resentment, or self-silencing, especially when love becomes confused with obligation or fear of loss.

This episode explores common irrational beliefs about relationships, how they influence emotional reactions and behavior, and how to recognize when connection is being driven by expectation rather than choice. Through a logic-based lens, you’ll learn how to question these beliefs and relate to others with more honesty, freedom, and self-respect.

If you find yourself feeling tense, overextended, or conflicted in your relationships, this episode offers a way to step back and examine what’s really guiding your responses.

Enjoy,

Hila

In Episode 4, we examine overthinking as a form of self-doubt rather than a thinking problem to be solved. Racing thoughts, replayed conversations, and imagined outcomes often follow a familiar pattern. One driven by hidden assumptions about control, certainty, and responsibility.

This episode explores why the mind gets stuck in these loops, how to recognize when thinking has stopped being useful, and how to step back and question the beliefs that keep the cycle going. Using logic-based tools, you’ll learn how to interrupt overthinking without forcing calm or trying to silence your thoughts.

If your mind tends to run in circles, this episode offers a way to slow the process down and relate to your thoughts with more perspective and intention.

Download the reflection companion at www.stillpointlogic.com under the Podcast section to practice applying these ideas in your own life.

Enjoy,

Hila

In Episode 3, we turn our attention to emotions that feel automatic, overwhelming, or hard to escape. Building on the earlier episodes, this conversation explores how emotional reactions are often driven by unexamined beliefs rather than the situations themselves.

We’ll look at common emotional traps, how mental scripts quietly fuel them, and how to pause long enough to notice what’s really happening beneath the surface. You’ll be introduced to logic-based ways of questioning these beliefs, creating space between feeling and reaction, and responding with greater self-awareness.

If your emotions sometimes feel like they take over before you’ve had a chance to think, this episode offers tools to slow the process down and regain a sense of agency.

Download the reflection companion at www.stillpointlogic.com under the Podcast section to explore these ideas more deeply and apply them in your own life.