Why Your Teen Pushes Your Buttons- The Parent-Child Mismatch in the Teenage Years S2E19 Episode 54

Conflict with teenagers is common—but sometimes it’s not about behavior at all.

In this episode of 10 Kids, 2 Docs, pediatrician moms Dr. Sylvia Bank and Dr. Vivian Carlin explore the parent-child mismatch during adolescence. Through personal stories and professional insight, they discuss how personality differences, communication styles, and unmet expectations can create tension between parents and teens.

They share how recognizing a mismatch, stepping back when needed, and working as a parenting team can help preserve connection and protect long-term relationships—especially during the emotionally intense teenage years.

A reassuring and practical conversation for any parent navigating conflict with their teen.

Resources: Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking

by Susan Cain

EPISODE CREDITS: Hosts - Sylvia Bank, MD and Vivian Carlin, MD

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From Zero to Chaos: Dads Talk Parenting Under Pressure

In this bonus episode of Ten Kids Two Docs, the husbands take the mic. Joseph Bank and Eric Carlin join pediatrician moms Dr. Sylvia Bank and Dr. Vivian Carlin for part two of the Husband Takeover, sharing their most stressful and formative moments in parenting.

From the shock of going from zero to one child, to the chaos of suddenly jumping from four kids to six through foster-to-adopt, these dads reflect honestly on pressure, exhaustion, teamwork, and problem-solving at home. The conversation explores how couples can navigate high-stress seasons of parenting without turning against each other—using intentional communication, shared problem-solving, and sometimes just letting a partner vent.

This episode is a candid, relatable look at parenting under pressure, teamwork in marriage, and why no one really knows what they’re doing until they’re in it together.

EPISODE CREDITS: Hosts - Sylvia Bank, MD and Vivian Carlin, MD

Special Guest - Joseph Bank and Erik Carlin

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The husbands are taking over the mic 🎙️

In this BONUS Husband Takeover episode, the dads step in to share their honest perspective on parenting, co-parenting, and what it’s really like being married to pediatrician moms.

From navigating medical advice at home to balancing work, family life, and modern fatherhood, this episode is full of real talk, laughs, and relatable moments. It’s a behind-the-scenes look at parenting as a team — from the dad’s point of view.

Whether you’re a mom, dad, or caregiver, this conversation is a reminder that raising kids works best when everyone has a voice.

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