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In Come Alive, Sammi and I take you through the healing process we've used to coach 12,000+ Christians. Over 12 weeks, in a small group of no more than 12, you'll explore the pain beneath your triggers, meet God's love there, and practice new ways of showing up in your marriage, family, and friendships.

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For those of you who don't know who I am, I'm Spencer Robbins, co-founder of Alive & Free Consulting.

I grew up Christian, but I always questioned God's love in my life.

2001: I became addicted to p*rn.

2002-2004: I had no friends and cried myself to sleep often. I thought there was something uniquely wrong with me. I believed, "If I could become someone else, I'd be loved."

2004: I learned to become a chameleon and fit in wherever I could. Became the entertainer, class clown, the servant-hearted son, the good boy (when people were watching).

2005: I was dumped by my gf and blamed it on me being fat and unlovable. I lost 96 lbs.

2007: I became bulimic, but hid it from everyone I knew. I shared about my addiction to p*rn with church leaders. I was given a set of disciplines, action steps, and accountability management tools that didn't help me for the following five years.

2008: In college, I had a powerful encounter with Jesus Christ and gave my whole life over to Him.

2010: I led a kid to the Lord who was having Ouija board parties at his house every weekend. We became best friends and started seeing healing and deliverance everywhere we went.

2011: I began three years of ministry school.

2012: I shared my struggles with bulimia with a pastor for the first time ever, and love got in.

2013-2014: I interned for an international traveler and pastor, went on 13 ministry trips, interned 30 hours per week, worked 32 hours a week to make ends meet, and co-led a trip for 32 students to Costa Rica. At the end of that year, I got burned out, and my heart turned off.

2015: I was offended at God, looking at p*rn all over again, getting drunk most weeknights. I met with a life coach for the first time and realized how much shame, self-hatred, and performance-based love were driving me. I also realized how much I had projected the face of my father and other authority figures onto the face of God. I worked with that coach for three years, and my life was changed and transformed in a way I never expected.

2016: I started working for Alex Hormozi and learned a lot about sales, marketing, and business (you can look him up).

2018: I married my wife, and we became obsessed with personal growth, emotional health, and mental health. We started going to coaching workshops and taking courses, and we accidentally got our first paying life coaching clients.

September 2018: We started our life coaching company as a one-on-one practice. Relationships were getting restored, and people were getting free from codependency, shame, self-hatred, and body shame.

2019: We gradually scaled that business and started serving single Christian women to help them get free from relationship patterns and unwanted cycles so they could step into healthy relationships. That year, we served around 300 clients.

2020: We systematized and started growing our business, built coaching curriculum and courses, and created ways for people to access freedom, healing, and transformation without requiring a one-on-one with us. That year, we served over 1,000 clients.

2021-2023: We served over 200 new clients every single month and started offering new programs.

January 2023: After people we had worked with started requesting to learn how to do this same type of coaching, we started our school and signed up our first 50 people.

When we looked in our customer portal, we found that over 12,000 clients had worked with us to find change, healing, and restoration in their lives and relationships.

Along the way, we invested over $100,000 in our own coaching and counseling, invested over $200,000 in business coaching, and personally took more than 14,000 sales calls.

Today: We've trained more than 500 coaches and done $18M in coaching without losing our souls, staying connected to God the whole way. Our living comes from helping people heal and training coaches, not from YouTube videos.

To everyone who has come through the fire: you've spent years becoming whole. Now it's time to help others walk that same path, with depth, integrity, and a real business model underneath it.

Your first credential is a history with God. Start there.

Spencer

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Inner child work is one of the most misunderstood tools in Christian healing, and most people are either avoiding it or using it wrong.

When you're in the middle of a conflict with your spouse and you shut down completely, no amount of information helps. You can't access logical thought when your amygdala is hijacked. What you can do is get curious about what's surfacing, because that triggered state is actually carrying information about a wound that never got met with love.

This is the framework Sammi and I have leaned on more than anything else in our own marriage and in the work we do with clients and coaches. We've been through EMDR, ministry school, deliverance, inner healing encounters, therapy of almost every kind. What we kept returning to was this: it's not the original pain that creates the deepest wound. It's the absence of comfort in it.

We talk through what it actually looks like to use this in real life: how to identify what's happening beneath anger, how to follow a current trigger back to something older without digging things up for the sake of it, why inner child work without God will only take you so far, and what goes wrong when awareness stays awareness and never becomes transformation.

We also get honest about our own early marriage, the moments we blamed each other for pain that was already there, and what it took to stop doing that.

If you're a coach or you're training to become one, there's a lot here for how to walk clients into this work without re-traumatizing them. We cover when to go there, what questions open it, and why we do so many session reviews in Coach Launch.

If you're just someone trying to get healthier, start small. Notice what's hard right now. Get present with the tender emotion underneath the loud one. Ask yourself how old you feel in it. That's the doorway.

To find freedom, healing, and emotional wholeness, check out the Alive & Free Collective:
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To become a life coach and learn how to help people get free emotionally while building a meaningful business, watch our Coach Training:
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