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Featuring "Paul" the most annoying dog we love to hate.

Disclaimer: This episode is completely unhinged. Much like our parenting styles.

No one tells you how much becoming a parent will change you.
In Episode 10, we talk about the versions of ourselves that showed up after kids—the ones we didn’t plan for, didn’t expect, and definitely weren’t warned about. From the parents we swore we’d never be, to the emotional shifts, softened edges, harder boundaries, and surprising strengths that came with this season, we unpack how parenthood reshaped us in real time.
This is an honest conversation about growth, grief for who we used to be, pride in who we’re becoming, and learning to give ourselves grace along the way. If you’ve ever looked in the mirror and thought, wow, I’m not who I thought I’d be—you’re not alone.

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Stepmoms get a reputation… and let’s just say, it’s not always accurate. In this episode, we’re unpacking the gap between the stereotype and the reality. From being labeled “too much” or “not enough,” to carrying the invisible mental load no one talks about—we’re diving into what it actually feels like to live this role day in and day out.

Expect real talk, a little sarcasm, and the kind of honesty that makes you feel seen. We’re sharing the unspoken rules, the emotional balancing act, the wins that go unnoticed, and the moments that make you question everything (and then laugh about it later).

If you’ve ever felt misunderstood, stretched thin, or like you’re writing your own rulebook as you go—this one’s for you.

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Episode 8: When Coparenting Styles Clash — Finding Middle Ground Without Losing Yourself
Coparenting isn’t one size fits and when parenting styles clash, it can feel exhausting, frustrating, and deeply personal. In this episode, we talk about what happens when expectations don’t align, communication breaks down, and you’re left wondering how to compromise without abandoning your own values.

We unpack real life scenarios, explore why these conflicts hit so hard, and share practical ways to find middle ground while still staying true to yourself. From setting boundaries and letting go of control to choosing your battles and protecting your peace, this conversation is for anyone navigating the messy middle of coparenting. Because collaboration doesn’t mean erasure and healthy coparenting starts with knowing who you are.

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If you grew up drinking Capri Sun and disappearing until dinner, this one’s for you. We’re comparing 90s parenting to parenting in 2026, exploring how a generation raised on independence (and questionable supervision) is now navigating gentle parenting, boundaries, and constant information overload. Was it neglect or did it make us resilient? We talk through the cultural shift, the pressure on modern parents, and what we’re keeping, changing, and laughing about along the way.

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Co‑parenting isn’t one‑size‑fits‑all, especially when you’re juggling different ages, personalities, and blended family dynamics. In this episode, we break down how co‑parenting challenges can look wildly different with older kids versus younger ones, from communication and boundaries to loyalty conflicts and independence. We also get real about stepparenting: the expectations, the emotional labor, and the things no one warns you about. Whether you’re new to blending families or deep in the thick of it, this conversation is honest, relatable, and full of perspective for navigating it all with empathy and intention.

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This episode covers the complex realities of co-parenting after infidelity, pregnancy, and relationship challenges. Jenna and Chelsea share personal stories, insights on trust rebuilding, parallel parenting, and navigating new family dynamics, offering practical advice for difficult situations.

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In this episode, Chelsea and Jenna discuss the challenges of navigating outside opinions and judgments in blended families. They explore the stigma surrounding blended families, the importance of handling judgment gracefully, and the difference between viewing children as 'baggage' versus recognizing their life experiences. The conversation emphasizes the need for acceptance and understanding in family dynamics, encouraging listeners to prioritize their family's happiness over societal expectations.

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In this episode, Chelsea and Jenna discuss the complexities of co-parenting during a child's illness, particularly focusing on the experience of navigating communication, grief, and support systems. They share personal stories about their relationships, the importance of therapy, and the role of community support in times of crisis. The conversation highlights the challenges and triumphs of blended families, emphasizing the need for open communication and emotional resilience.

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