Episodes

  • Is it Possible to Remain Apolitical?

    Is it Possible to Remain Apolitical?
    Sep 23 2026
    I’m sure you’re aware of the controversy surrounding Ed Sheeran’s 2026 Loop Tour. The situation escalated after billionaire tycoon and sports mogul Robert Kraft blocked Ed Sheeran’s support artist, Macklemore, from performing at Gillette Stadium in Massachusetts, following Macklemore’s declaration of solidarity with Palestinians in the face of the genocide being perpetrated by Israel. Under pressure from other stadium owners, Sheeran dropped Macklemore from the entire tour. After the other support artists and his backing band dropped out in solidarity with Macklemore, he continued on his own. He played the first show in Philadelphia last weekend, which he began by reading a prepared statement. This was uncomfortable for him because Sheeran has repeatedly described his commitment to being apolitical and inclusive. He has never wanted to be an “activist musician”. His goal is to create safe spaces where people can sing his songs together without bringing politics into the arena. In this episode of The Gentle Rebel Podcast, I explore how this situation has revealed that it’s not about the politics we carry into that arena (or leave at its door). It’s that politics IS the arena, which is what I want to explore a bit today. https://youtu.be/97b3zG6GW-s The Apolitical Arena Despite a strong interest that I’ve had for decades, I don’t explicitly talk about politics very often. I graduated in 2008 with a degree in Politics and International Relations from the University of Southampton. I would certainly say my interest in the subject underpins a lot of what I do and how I do it. It definitely informs my philosophical framework, especially to things like my critique of the self-help industry. I’ve always been more drawn to the underlying structure than the everyday spectacle of politics: how power, resources, and violence organise themselves, and how ideological narratives normalise those arrangements and maintain stability within society. This is Water Robert Kraft opened a rift and exposed a dimension that is usually well hidden. That rupture has revealed the political structure behind Ed Sheeran’s apolitical stance, which isn’t a particular political expression or belief. The author David Foster Wallace opened his famous commencement speech with the story, This Is Water. You’ve likely heard it. He described two young fish swimming along who meet an older fish swimming the other way. The older fish nods and says, “Morning, boys. How’s the water?” The two young fish swim on for a bit, until one looks at the other and goes, “What the hell is water?” Wallace’s point was that the most obvious and important realities are often the hardest to see. The Italian thinker Antonio Gramsci talked about this in terms of ideological hegemony. Political power doesn’t operate only through laws, coercion, or direct force. It also operates through the things that come to feel normal, natural and obvious. The assumptions and boundaries we don’t think to question because we don’t notice them. Gramsci was interested in how systems of power could persist without constantly forcing people into submission, and how a particular social arrangement becomes Common Sense. Mark Fisher explored a similar idea through Capitalist Realism: the way capitalism has become so pervasive that it can feel less like an man-made idea than the water we move in, breathe in, think in, dream in, and relate to one another in. Ideology, in this sense, isn’t only a belief system someone actively subscribes to. It’s also the structural power relations beneath our words, actions, and beliefs. We can find ourselves acting within systems that tell a different story from the one we consciously believe. Political moments and political art can expose these structures. The Underlying Structure of a Political Belief Ed Sheeran describes his massive stadium tour as a neutral, apolitical space where people are free to sing together and love one another. I don’t doubt that he believes that’s what he is creating. Nothing implies he is being deliberately deceptive. He is describing the experience he wants people to have. But the concert doesn’t float outside of a power structure. And therefore, it doesn’t exist outside of a political context. It is anchored in labour relations, the flow of capital, and the decisions ultimately made by those who own the platforms the rest of us create and consume inside. Most of the time, this happens without us noticing. But in this situation, that rift opened, and we’ve had a little peek beneath the surface. We’ve been reminded that this is water. When we look around so much of life right now, it feels abundantly clear that we are in so many rooms we don’t have a meaningful power stake in. Most of the time we don’t notice. But every so often something happens to remind us. The rent goes up. We get closed down, lose access, or we can’t afford to stay. That is water.
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    15 mins
  • Stop Letting Their Judgement Become Your Story

    Stop Letting Their Judgement Become Your Story
    Sep 29 2026
    Have you ever felt judged by standards that simply don’t fit who you are? In this episode of The Gentle Rebel, we explore Aesop’s fable of the “useless tree” and unpack why introverted and highly sensitive people internalise criticism from those who don’t understand what they bring to the table. The fable describes two travellers who find a plane tree in the midday sun. They take refuge beneath its branches but complain that it’s useless because it produces no edible fruit or nuts. In another version, the tree is an oak. When the rain arrives, they stay dry beneath its leaves. It gets cold, and they make a fire from its broken branches. They get tired and use the leaves to make a bed. The moral is usually told from the travellers’ perspective: don’t overlook the unexpected gifts you might take for granted. But it was interesting to look at the story from the tree’s perspective. And how it feels to overhear the judgement from the people it has sheltered. What story does it tell itself about itself as a result? It is providing exactly what the travellers need. Yet they judge it according to something it doesn’t, and can’t, provide. And what happens when the tree overhears itself described as useless? https://youtu.be/_Mil-167tTc When We Overhear the Judgement Have you ever tried to change something about yourself because of a judgement you heard from someone else? Maybe it was directed at you. Maybe it was directed at someone else, but it punched you in the gut when you overheard it because it felt familiar. Many of us get measured against standards that don’t make sense for us. We might know that intellectually, but it doesn’t take much for the message to seep in and get under our skin, especially if it’s repeated enough times. Maybe it’s the story that you need to be more outgoing, toughen up, or stop caring what other people think. We might start looking for ways to turn ourselves into the proverbial apple tree. Or we might shrink back into the shadows and try to avoid drawing attention to ourselves. The judgement doesn’t have to be true to have an impact. It just has to be believed. The Story I Absorbed Like many introverted and highly sensitive people, I grew up absorbing a story about my behaviour going against the grain of what I should be doing. I wasn’t disruptive and loud. Quite the opposite. I often saw “speak up more” and “put yourself forward” on school reports. This even became a target: “Put your hand up once in every lesson to volunteer an answer.” Was that what I needed? Did it help me connect with the subject and learn better? No. It had the opposite effect. Interestingly, a few teachers never made me feel bad for being quiet. In those classes, I felt much more confident speaking up…if and when I had something to say. The safety to stay quiet made it comfortable to speak up. What Story Does the Judgement Plant? There’s a big difference between changing yourself and changing yourself. We are presented with moulds to fit ourselves into, with the assumption that to belong we have to change who we are. But there’s a difference between changing because you’ve decided something matters to you, and changing because you’ve overheard someone saying there’s something wrong with the way you are. An oak tree grows. It loses branches, extends its roots, and takes shape in response to the weather. But it changes as it is. It doesn’t become an apple tree (it can’t). There’s something liberating about knowing that. Because the judgements we overhear can sting, but they can also become stories about who we think we’re supposed to be. What could change when you stop trying to be somewhere other than where you are?
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    13 mins
  • Big Feelings and Big Joy as a Highly Sensitive Person (with April Snow)

    Big Feelings and Big Joy as a Highly Sensitive Person (with April Snow)
    Oct 5 2026
    What does it mean to live well as a highly sensitive person without turning sensitivity into another thing to optimise? In this episode of The Gentle Rebel Podcast, I’m joined by licensed psychotherapist and author April Snow to talk about her new book, Big Feelings, Big Joy: The Essential Practices to Reclaim Your Strengths as a Highly Sensitive Person. April discovered the language of high sensitivity while training to become a therapist, after years of wondering why she experienced the world so intensely. Since then, she has spent more than a decade working with HSPs and exploring what helps us find balance, make sense of our experiences, and create lives that work with our sensitivity rather than against it. We talked about the positive aspects of sensitivity, the problems with some of the advice circulating through wellness and personal development culture, and the importance of giving ourselves enough space to notice what actually works for us. Big Feelings, Big Joy In the episode, April describes her ORCHID framework, which offers a more human, positive way to describe the characteristics associated with high sensitivity. We discuss the difference between understanding sensitivity as a way of making sense of our experiences and turning it into a tightly defining identity. The joy of creative sensitivity Sensitivity isn’t only about being affected by difficult or overwhelming experiences. It can also mean experiencing music, art, awe, excitement and other positive experiences very deeply. This positive capacity is central to the title and approach of April’s book. The pressure to optimise ourselves We talk about the endless routines and protocols found in wellness and productivity culture, and why HSPs might want to be particularly cautious about turning self-care into another long list of things to get right. Less can be more April suggests that small changes can make a surprisingly large difference for HSPs. Rather than adding more practices to an already crowded morning, it might be more useful to sleep longer, daydream, walk, listen to a favourite song, or find another everyday activity that naturally helps you regulate. Finding the counterbalance We explore the idea that a healthy nervous system isn’t one that stays permanently calm. We need activation, stimulation and meaningful experiences too. The important thing is having enough flexibility to come back and re-regulate afterwards. Transitions and the spaces between things We talk about the value of giving ourselves time to move from one state or activity to another, rather than constantly switching gears. Sometimes the transition itself is where we need to slow down. Making “no” a default answer, but not necessarily the final answer April and I explore how an immediate “no” can sometimes be a default response to an invitation or new experience, especially when we’re tired or overwhelmed. Giving ourselves time before responding can create space to discover whether something is actually a no, a yes, or a “maybe, let me think about it.” The importance of flexibility Our energy and capacity aren’t fixed. We talk about leaving room in our plans so we can respond to how we’re actually feeling, rather than following a rigid schedule no matter what life brings. Small pockets of joy as anchors Because highly sensitive people may be more affected by both positive and negative experiences, small moments of joy, comfort and connection can have a powerful effect. April shares memories from childhood that helped her stay grounded during more difficult periods, and we explore how this might work in adult life too. Creating a little sanctuary Even when our wider environment is noisy, chaotic or simply not suited to us, we may be able to find small spaces or rituals that give us somewhere to breathe. Sometimes that might be a whole room; sometimes it’s a car, a park, a library, or five minutes of something that feels like ours. Taking our time We also talk about April’s experience of writing the book itself. If she were doing it again, she says she would spend longer at the beginning researching, reflecting and allowing the ideas to simmer before diving into the work. It’s a lovely example of applying the very principles she’s writing about to a creative process. You can listen to the full conversation in this episode of The Gentle Rebel Podcast. I will also be exploring some of these themes in more depth in a series of videos. About April April Snow, LMFT, is a licensed psychotherapist, author, and consultant. She specialises in working with highly sensitive people to help calm the storm of overload, guilt, and self-doubt to allow their innate sensitive strengths to shine through. Deeply committed to changing the narrative of what it means to be highly sensitive, April supports HSPs around the world through her Sensitive Circles community, Sensitive Sessions workshops, and Sensitive Stories podcast. In addition to...
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    54 mins
  • Change, Overplanning, and Getting Stuck

    Change, Overplanning, and Getting Stuck
    Sep 10 2026
    Have you ever experienced the joy of unblocking a drain? I know, I know. But if you know, you know…it’s satisfying! Not least because a blocked drain is the opposite of satisfying. We’re not going to focus on blocked drains in this episode of The Gentle Rebel Podcast, don’t worry. It’s just a metaphor for what happens sometimes in life, when things that feel like they’re supposed to be free-flowing get stuck, festering in a stagnant pool of unwanted water. Sometimes something gets stuck because stuff around it jams it. Sometimes we might even put that stuff there ourselves, not realising it doesn’t really fit…or help. I’ve often added so much around the edges of a meaningful endeavour or important project that it eventually comes to a grinding halt because it becomes so overly complicated. I love planning. Sometimes a bit too much. I love planning. I love making systems and creating templates. When I was at school, I liked making revision timetables so much that I ran out of time to actually revise because I was too busy planning. I love dreaming up everything that could happen. Those dreams can get derailed under the weight of their plans. This year I’ve been experimenting with paring back parts of life that have become over-complex, and making space for my tendency to add complexity when I notice that temptation arises. I’ve also been trying to create breathing room to simplify after complexity has occurred, before committing it to anything concrete or permanent. Because I’ve also noticed that sometimes complexity is actually a necessary part of the process. Shutting it down as soon as it starts might mean pulling the plug on something that could be important later. So I don’t want to do that. The key is recognising that complexity might simply be part of what is going on under the soil for a while, rather than something that means I ought to rewrite every page on my website, add new channels and announce my commitment to a bunch of things that are both impossible and undesirable to maintain once I eventually strip back to the simple heart of things at the right moment. I stopped overcomplicating change I’ve been to Finland twice this year. The first trip involved gout threat, a painful shoulder injury caused by reaching for a seatbelt, and a realisation when I got home that something needed to change. I’d been trying to improve my health and fitness for years. But this time I decided to keep things small and simple rather than following an elaborate plan. Things Change But Not Necessarily On Our Timetable You may be familiar with the idea behind Gates’s law: We overestimate what can happen in the short term and underestimate what can happen in the long term. Over the past five months, I’ve seen a lot of progress with my weight and fitness. In large part because I’ve kept it small and simple, resisting the urge to overcomplicate things, make elaborate plans and build complicated systems and processes. Something just sort of clicked in April. Along with a meaningful motivation, it’s the fact that I haven’t got in my own way by demanding too much, too fast. The Pressure We Put on Quick Fixes When I’m motivated to change and thinking about it a lot, I want it now. The more urgently I want change to happen, the more likely I am to overengineer the process. And that’s what drives me to make elaborate plans to get as much done in as little time as possible. Not only does this risk burning the desire out, but it can also divert important resources from other parts of life, leading to a compounding negative effect. Simplicity can be a strategy for change So how do we stop ourselves from adding complexity to systems that just need time to blossom? The big secret? I guess it’s about being patient. Oh wow. How boring. Yeah, I know. Sorry. It’s also about avoiding overplanning and making everything elaborately complex. Oh, but I really like making detailed plans and timetables. I know! Sorry. We’re going to need to find other ways to scratch that itch, because I’ll concede it is a fun one to go at. Environmental Sensitivity and The Impact of Small Things For highly sensitive people, this might matter even more. Research into differential susceptibility shows that people with sensory processing sensitivity can be more strongly affected by their surroundings, both positively and negatively. When we add layers of complexity around our goals, we can create cognitive chaos: a foggy mess of stimulation that eventually leads us to check out and pull the plug on the goal altogether. On the other hand, a few simple habits and environmental cues can have a surprisingly positive effect. This doesn’t mean that highly sensitive people need empty lives. Complexity is sometimes unavoidable, and sometimes valuable. It means that unnecessary complexity can have a disproportionately large effect when we’re already processing a lot. If you’re struggling to let ...
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    15 mins
  • Why do you bother?

    Why do you bother?
    Sep 9 2026
    Why do we bother doing what we do? What tone do you hear in that question? To bother: taking the trouble or effort to do something.To be bothered: to be affected by something and/or to care about it. I hadn’t really thought much about this phrase until it came up in a conversation related to stuckness a few days ago. And now I can’t stop thinking about it. https://youtu.be/SSCHoKd3tCc Someone shared that, despite having written a huge number of words, they felt self-doubt, uncertainty, and boredom were why they hadn’t yet managed to complete a draft of the novel they’d been working on for the past couple of years. Exploring the map, watching the videos, and using the reflection guide helped them realise there might be more to it than an internal issue. In reality, the publishing industry is going through a period of deep uncertainty, and it’s harder than ever to get into. That adds a very real obstacle to the stuckness. Stuckness Doesn’t Occur in a Vacuum Feeling stuck is often a dance between internal and external factors. And it always happens within a broader context. Unstable material conditions, unhelpful environments, and systemic inequalities make stuckness more than a mindset or attitude issue. I’ve known people struggling to stay afloat amid overwhelming busyness, grief, and health challenges, who believe they have the wrong attitude because they wish they could feel better and move forward. As if you haven’t got enough to deal with, there’s the added pressure of personal responsibility to respond positively to things beyond your control. A Mindset Fallacy The focus on mindset and positive thinking as a solution to stuckness can implicitly misdiagnose its source as lying squarely within the individual. It places us in charge of our own reality, a common position we’ve noticed throughout the history of the self-help movement. At its most extreme, this becomes the belief that we can literally manifest material wealth, health, and prosperity through the power of positive thinking. At one level, this way of thinking seems harmless enough. But when we peel back the layers, it reveals some more insidious assumptions. Not least, it assumes that if everything boils down to individual responsibility for the quality of our own life through positive thinking, then we are personally to blame for our suffering. This can be a really lonely place to be. We feel stuck because of the projected images we see from others who tell stories of self-made success. These tell us what we SHOULD want and aspire to. Then, when we struggle to get there, we beat ourselves up for not having what those successful people seem to have. A lot of smoke and mirrors surround those stories. When you believe that you’re the only one finding it hard, but that the result is necessary for your value as a human, you are more likely to act from desperation rather than curiosity. And the cycle continues. Why Bother? Good question. Glad you asked. These pressures subtly influence our response to the question. So do the ways we’re encouraged to measure value. I remember reading a blog post many years ago about the difference in quality between the amateur and the professional. It referenced Steven Pressfield’s archetypes of The Professional and The Amateur in The War of Art, his book about what he coined as The Resistance, the enemy force that derails a creative pursuit. I haven’t read it for about 15 years, but I remember it containing some helpful ideas and some that made less sense to me. In it he writes: “The word amateur comes from the Latin root meaning “to love.” The conventional interpretation is that the amateur pursues his calling out of love, while the pro does it for money. Not the way I see it. In my view, the amateur does not love the game enough. If he did, he would not pursue it as a sideline, distinct from his “real” vocation. The professional loves it so much he dedicates his life to it. He commits full-time.” I’ll save my greater exceptions for another day, perhaps. But at a basic level, and in response to “why bother?”, we can see the pressure potentially undermining Pressfield’s message. Although he presents the distinction as archetypes of attitude, it’s hard to escape the implication that the creative pursuit must provide a person’s main income (or full-time occupation) if the person truly loves it. Why DO I bother? When the thing becomes a means to an end, the end can begin to determine whether the thing itself feels worth doing. This can leave us feeling stuck. Confused about why we bother. I know people who have become derailed after being encouraged to take something they had great passion, love, and drive for and turn it into a source of income. They used to bother because they cared. It was a catalyst for creativity and imagination, providing a way to express themselves freely. They were curious, explored, and grew, pouring resources into their passion ...
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    16 mins
  • Don’t Mistake Their Story for Yours

    Don’t Mistake Their Story for Yours
    Aug 18 2026
    The movie Hook begins with the premise that Peter Pan has been away from Neverland for so long that he has forgotten who he is. He is all grown up, with two children and a high-flying legal job that leaves him little time or patience for them. When Captain Hook (Peter’s arch-nemesis, whom he now has no memory of) kidnaps his kids, he quickly learns that his attempts to use the logic of his reality to buy them back or to threaten legal action aren’t going to fly here (pun intended). Instead, he needs to do the opposite of ‘grow up’ and rediscover his imagination and ability to play if he is going to survive and accomplish his objective. This kind of Adult Fog can creep in, obscuring our view of something that’s still there. I describe this as Adult Fog in The Return To Serenity Island. I’m not imagining something huge descending on us that suddenly stops us from being ourselves. Fog can arrive with a subtle creep. We might not notice the visibility getting worse until we look up and try to see the path ahead. The path hasn’t disappeared, but our ability to see it has become clouded by other people’s expectations, judgements, and assumptions. https://youtu.be/kTKrcvfJ15c Being Told To Grow Up Last week, I was on the clifftop, saying my goodbyes to one of my favourite spots overlooking the Baltic Sea in Espoo, after a month in Finland. As I did so, I happened upon something that inspired me to play… A nest full of abandoned eggs. Well, technically they were small pine and/or spruce cones. But that’s not what my imagination and I decided to believe. And so I made a silly video. After an uber-quick editing job, I posted it online and got in the sauna. Comments began to arrive. The first one said “they are acorns, not an egg”, which was a slightly strange yet potentially endearing attempt at correcting the details of a joke that hadn’t landed. But the next two comments really caught my attention. One said, “Grow Up FFS”, and the other said “grown man 😂😂”. I replied to the comment “grown man” with “I was told it was a Spanish slug”, innocently (playfully) assuming he was referring to the slug. It turns out these “killer” slugs are an invasive species that can harm the native ecosystem. He dismissed this as ragebait, refusing to believe a slug could have made it all the way from Spain to Finland. I’m pretty sure he was serious, too. His comment was a helpful reminder that growing up doesn’t necessarily equate to knowing better. Then another comment arrived. “They are not eggs,” it began. Oh, here we go again, I thought. “Anyone can see, they are turds from a walrus. Look up in the trees, and you should see it unless it has flown away.” I breathed a sigh of relief and smiled. Especially because this looked like a mature, fully grown adult man. And he had come to play. He got it. People Can Make or Break Our Spirit It amazes me how much of an impact we can have on other people, including strangers online. It made me think about the power of words and the stories we can create from them without realising. Words can give us wings to fly and explore, and they can give us great weight that brings us down to earth with a great thud. My natural childlike spirit tends to express itself through silliness and absurdity. When that element of me can emerge, I know I feel safe, which is an important part of this equation. When I got back to the apartment, I knew I could share what I’d made with Tuula (with whom I was staying), and she’d get it, even if she was confused about what I was banging on about. Childlike Spirit Our childlike spirit looks different for each of us. Maybe it’s collecting things, getting absorbed in researching obscure subjects, role-playing, historical re-enactment, making things, nurturing something and watching it change, or getting excited about stuff you are into and looking forward to. It’s not about being silly or even about “play” in the conventional sense. It’s about having the freedom to engage with the world in a way that feels naturally ours. And I think the people around us can make a huge difference to whether that part of us gets to emerge. When we feel safe from judgement, ridicule or criticism, we have more freedom to explore it. But when those things are present, the Adult Fog can descend before we’ve even given ourselves a chance. “That’s stupid.”“That’s not realistic.”“We don’t do things like that here.”“That’s childish.”“That’s selfish.”“You’re showing off.”“That’s unwise.”“You should know better by now.” And there’s an interesting link to research showing that when humans lose their bearings, we tend to walk in circles rather than in a straight line. When we can’t see landmarks, natural reference points, or otherwise establish where we are, we can end up returning to where we started. Perhaps something similar happens when the Adult Fog descends, and...
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    12 mins
  • Don’t Try to Remember

    Don’t Try to Remember
    Aug 14 2026

    A post on Threads caught my attention this week. It spoke to me about a common form of stuckness that we may overlook.

    It felt like a good example of the insidious reach of toxic productivity. In this episode of The Gentle Rebel Podcast, I attempt to explain why…

    https://youtu.be/nBvFoHil9qM Don’t Try To Remember

    In his language-learning audio courses, Michel Thomas usually spoke with two participants. Every so often, he would respond to them by saying, “stop trying to remember”. His methodology rested on the assumption that if you’re stressed and putting effort into conscious memorising, you sabotage your ability to learn. When he heard them racking their brains for the answer, he told them to stop.

    The same happens in creativity.

    We get inspired when we’re not trying to remember. When we’re not forcing dots to connect. Like in the shower, swimming pool, or sauna. Yes, for me it often accompanies being wet and somewhat nude. Don’t ask me why.

    Inspiration often strikes when we’re busy looking elsewhere.

    But I don’t believe it’s a bolt from the blue. One of the reasons it appears to arrive in meditation or in the shower, is because we engage with a stillness that allows us to hear.

    And as such, it’s not a scarce resource. There is always something speaking. Waiting to be noticed.

    But sometimes, we need to stop trying to remember. Stop trying to control. Stop trying to turn it into something useful, productive, or profitable.
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    19 mins
  • Music Helped Me Make Sense of You, Me, and Everything That Happened

    Music Helped Me Make Sense of You, Me, and Everything That Happened
    Aug 11 2026

    This episode of The Gentle Rebel Podcast is a bit different from normal. It contains the audio from It Just Sort of Happens, the short film I produced for the HSP Gathering in Oulu, Finland, at the start of August. You can watch it here.

    https://youtu.be/NWaK8O4VLuo

    The film is an audiovisual collage of stories from throughout my life. It has a particular focus on the role of songwriting and music-making in helping me make sense of myself, my experiences, and the way the world is.

    I believe creativity is especially in nurturing our relationship with our innate sensitivity. But when we absorb messages from the cultures we swim in, they can disconnect us from these natural aspects of ourselves.

    I hope ‘It Just Sort of Happens’ gives you reassurance and confidence that you’re not alone.

    Language Beyond Words

    Music has always been my natural language.
    It speaks when words aren’t enough.
    Music helps things make sense.

    What about you?

    These aren’t stories about what sensitivity or creativity should look like for everyone. I don’t believe that’s how it works. Rather, they are just a handful of my stories, which I hope may encourage you to notice, connect with, and continue developing your own.

    Questions To Consider

    At the HSP Heimojuhlat gathering in Oulu, I scattered mini-zines around the room. They contained questions to help people consider their relationship with the film’s themes.

    They may be especially useful if you’re feeling stuck in some way right now, or if you’re ready to let your creativity give voice to your sensitivity and your sensitivity give shape to your creativity…

    • What is something you remember creating as a child? What made it memorable?
    • What does society value that you don’t?
    • What is something you care about that others often overlook?
    • When do you wish time would stand still so you could dwell there for longer?
    • What made you laugh this week?
    • What helps you process and observe what’s going on within you?
    • What are you waiting for the courage to do, try, or start?

    Let the film’s sound wash over you and see what catches your attention. It’s worth finding somewhere quiet to listen, and with headphones if possible.

    Share Your Reflections

    And if anything connects for you, or you have a question about something I’ve shared, I’d love to hear from you. Head to this page for links to the original source materials and to get in touch.

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    32 mins