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The Nest

The Nest

Written by: Alexandria Gohla MSW LCSW Ed.S
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Local West Suburban Chicago therapists help you to create the life, love, and relationships you want. If you are looking for more information from your favorite guest podcasters on their topics, read their blogs here: https://www.bluebirdcounselingservices.com/blogAlexandria Gohla, MSW, LCSW, Ed.S Hygiene & Healthy Living Psychology Psychology & Mental Health
Episodes
  • What Happens When Your Brain Can Never Slow down?
    Sep 16 2026

    Do you ever feel like your brain never stops? From replaying conversations to mentally planning tomorrow before today is even over, constant thinking can leave us feeling exhausted—even when we've barely sat still. In this episode of The Nest, we explore why some minds struggle to slow down, how chronic mental overload impacts our nervous system, and practical ways to create more space for rest, presence, and peace.

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    9 mins
  • Why Am I So Tired All the Time?
    Sep 11 2026

    Why do so many of us end the day feeling exhausted—even when it doesn't seem like we accomplished that much? In this episode of The Nest, Alex explores the invisible mental load: the constant planning, remembering, anticipating, and emotional labor that quietly drains our energy. Together, we'll unpack why high-functioning people often overlook their own burnout and explore practical ways to lighten the load with more compassion and intention.

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    8 mins
  • How Emotional Masking Develops
    Jul 10 2026

    Have you ever felt emotionally exhausted after a conversation that seemed to go perfectly? In this episode of The Nest, we explore how emotional masking develops and why so many people learn to hide their needs, emotions, and authentic selves in order to feel accepted. Together, we'll unpack the connection between people-pleasing, emotional safety, attachment, and the nervous system—and discuss what it looks like to reconnect with the person underneath the performance. If you've ever wondered why it's so hard to know what you need or why being "the strong one" feels so exhausting, this episode is for you.

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    11 mins
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