In this episode, Johnny Lawrence explores the emotional challenges that come with making behaviour changes, especially during the New Year when many people set resolutions. He discusses the common difficulty of staying motivated after the initial excitement wears off.

Johnny emphasises that the main obstacle to change often isn’t a lack of knowledge about what to do, but rather the emotional responses that arise when trying to alter habits. Drawing on his experience as a personal trainer, he highlights the importance of being emotionally aware and tolerant. He argues that many individuals revert to old behaviours not out of weakness, but as a way to cope with uncomfortable feelings.

Takeaways

👉 Change isn't hard because you don't know what to do.

👉 We avoid emotions, not habits.

👉 Emotional capacity is key to sustainable change.

👉 Change creates emotions that disrupt our nervous system.

👉 Self-sabotage is often a form of self-protection.

Website

www.johnnylawrence.co.uk

Johnny’s Instagram

https://www.instagram.com/theselfdevelopmentcoach/?hl=en-gb

The Slavey of Addiction Documentary

https://youtu.be/8j3Nq_lcFlY?si=6I0kXppX9prFFoin

The Self M.A.D.E. Course

https://www.johnnylawrence.co.uk/course

The Self M.A.D.E. Life Audit

https://www.johnnylawrence.co.uk/self-made-lifeau

In this deeply personal episode, Johnny Lawrence reflects on his experience with grief following the death of his father. He explores the complexities of emotions that arise from losing an abusive parent, including sadness, relief, anger, and emotional numbness.

Johnny emphasises the importance of being honest about one's feelings and acknowledges that grief can manifest in various ways, often conflicting. He shares insights on healing, forgiveness, and the necessity of creating one's own closure, while also recognising the unique challenges that come with grieving a complicated relationship.

Takeaways

👉 It's important to acknowledge coexisting emotions during grief.

👉 Healing doesn't always require forgiveness.

👉 Closure is something you create for yourself.

👉 You can grieve what never was, not just the person.

👉 Emotional honesty is crucial in processing grief.

👉 Conflicting emotions can coexist without negating each other.

👉 Rituals can help in finding closure and marking loss.

👉 Your grief doesn't have to look like anyone else's.

Website

www.johnnylawrence.co.uk

Johnny’s Instagram

https://www.instagram.com/theselfdevelopmentcoach/?hl=en-gb

The Slavey of Addiction Documentary

https://youtu.be/8j3Nq_lcFlY?si=6I0kXppX9prFFoin

The Self M.A.D.E. Course

https://www.johnnylawrence.co.uk/course

The Self M.A.D.E. Life Audit

https://www.johnnylawrence.co.uk/self-made-lifeaudit

In this episode of the Johnny Lawrence Podcast, Johnny Lawrence discusses the everyday struggle with New Year's resolutions and the myth of willpower as a strategy for change. He emphasises that willpower is a finite resource and often fails when we need it most.

Instead, he advocates for a focus on environmental design, identity alignment, and small, repeatable systems to foster sustainable change. The conversation also touches on the emotional aspects of change and the importance of understanding one's identity in the process of personal growth.

Johnny concludes with practical strategies for listeners to implement in their own lives, encouraging them to design their environments to support their desired behaviours.

Takeaways

👉 New Year's resolutions often set us up for failure.

👉 Willpower is not a sustainable strategy for change.

👉 Our environment significantly influences our behaviour.

👉 Identity plays a crucial role in behaviour change.

👉 Small, repeatable actions lead to lasting change.

👉 Emotional sensitivity affects our ability to change.

👉 Designing our environment can make positive behaviours easier.

👉 Success often comes from consistency, not intensity.

👉 Understanding our emotions is key to personal growth.

👉 The self-made course can guide you in aligning with your true self.

Website

www.johnnylawrence.co.uk

Johnny’s Instagram

https://www.instagram.com/theselfdevelopmentcoach/?hl=en-gb

The Slavey of Addiction Documentary

https://youtu.be/8j3Nq_lcFlY?si=6I0kXppX9prFFoin

The Self M.A.D.E. Course

https://www.johnnylawrence.co.uk/course

The Self M.A.D.E. Life Audit

https://www.johnnylawrence.co.uk/self-made-lifeaudit

In this engaging conversation, Johnny Lawrence speaks with Jon Prince, a former professional poker player turned mindset coach, about personal development, the role of children as teachers, and the importance of authenticity. They explore the challenges of perfectionism, the significance of vulnerability, and the journey of self-discovery.

Jon shares his transformation from poker to coaching, emphasising the power of choice and responsibility. The discussion also delves into the nuances of intuition versus fear, the acceptance of life's uncertainties, and the value of support in personal growth. The episode concludes with practical advice for listeners on embracing their journey and trusting themselves.

Takeaways

👉 Children reveal where we are not free.

👉 Personal development tools can help overcome internal barriers.

👉 Authenticity is about being the author of your life.

👉 Emotions are messages, not demands.

👉 You can learn from every experience, good or bad.

👉 Taking small steps can lead to significant growth.

👉 Support from others can provide valuable insights.

👉 Intuition is spontaneous, while fear is a pattern.

👉 Life's challenges can lead to unexpected opportunities.

Jon’s Instagram

https://www.instagram.com/theperceptioncoach/?hl=en-gb

Jon’s Website

https://www.theperceptioncoach.com/

Jon’s Book

https://www.amazon.co.uk/Start-Before-Youre-Ready-Procrastinating/dp/1837823375/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2H6TUUW28LOEM&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.ci5fajPXXzpIoyK6zLXmYCV_7BYPJ1ZT_wjLdXHHHYGFBVycs80x7hVBuEIIN7Yu6ip1aWVSI1OjRQcHAq8d5ZYZmOCz1rv_Bx6qE8zYewcQMTeEDj61nGwcvWAddySDcBMv6pE6WklP_rkJSQAWAKpO7EVQW1Q2qmR9ieUPdOcrxJdF-rCTu6Ugcn7ZBlz8yz8tYyd9wNh1in7dxQL6BOgqdVIEpN8tI7s_a_daOng.qKk8WzwpcNTb8LP2lsiuhs4yxd6X0OTwNIKxgnDoOGk&dib_tag=se&keywords=jon+prince&qid=1767128859&sprefix=jon+prince%2Caps%2C163&sr=8-1

Website

www.johnnylawrence.co.uk

Johnny’s Instagram

https://www.instagram.com/theselfdevelopmentcoach/?hl=en-gb

The Slavey of Addiction Documentary

https://youtu.be/8j3Nq_lcFlY?si=6I0kXppX9prFFoin

The Self M.A.D.E. Course

https://www.johnnylawrence.co.uk/course

The Self M.A.D.E. Life Audit

https://www.johnnylawrence.co.uk/self-made-lifeaudit

In this podcast episode, Johnny Lawrence discusses the emotional challenges many face during the Christmas season. He provides a survival toolkit to help listeners navigate family dynamics, manage triggering questions, and maintain their mental health.

The conversation emphasises the importance of self-care, mindfulness, and finding joy amidst the chaos of holiday gatherings. Johnny encourages listeners to set boundaries, let go of resentments, and reach out for support, ultimately reminding them that taking care of oneself is paramount during this time.

Takeaways

👉 Christmas can be magical for some and hell for others.

👉 Family dynamics can reopen old wounds during the holidays.

👉 Prepare answers to triggering questions in advance.

👉 Letting go of resentment is a form of emotional maturity.

👉 Mindfulness helps keep you grounded during overwhelming moments.

👉 Having something to look forward to can provide motivation.

👉 Connection with understanding friends can ease stress.

👉 Joy is essential and should be prioritised during the holidays.

👉 You don't have to engage in every family argument.

👉 Taking care of yourself is the most important thing you can do.

Website

www.johnnylawrence.co.uk

Johnny’s Instagram

https://www.instagram.com/theselfdevelopmentcoach/?hl=en-gb

The Slavey of Addiction Documentary

https://youtu.be/8j3Nq_lcFlY?si=6I0kXppX9prFFoin

The Self M.A.D.E. Course

https://www.johnnylawrence.co.uk/course

The Self M.A.D.E. Life Audit

https://www.johnnylawrence.co.uk/self-made-lifeaudit

In this powerful episode of The Johnny Lawrence Podcast, Johnny opens up about his transformative experience at a “Healing the Father Wound” workshop facilitated by renowned teacher Donna Lancaster. He explores how unresolved childhood trauma, the parent wound, and unmet emotional needs shape our adult behaviour, relationships, and sense of self-worth.

Johnny dives deep into the impact of the father wound on personal development, the importance of grieving lost childhood experiences, and how suppressing early pain can influence our identity and life choices. Through honest reflection, he highlights why compassion for our inner child is essential for emotional healing, self-leadership, and breaking generational patterns.

This episode is a powerful guide for anyone navigating childhood trauma, seeking inner healing, or looking to reclaim their future with courage, truth, and self-awareness. Whether you're on a journey of emotional growth or supporting others through theirs, this conversation offers insights that can help you reconnect, release, and rebuild.

Takeaways

👉 I never grieved the loss of a childhood.

👉 The parent wound is created when a child doesn't receive something they needed.

👉 Healing the parent wound isn't about fixing the past, it's about freeing the future.

👉 Healing can change your relationships and self-talk.

👉 I became addicted to escape from my emotions.

👉 The child inside us doesn't grow up, we just become adults.

👉 Healing the parent wound is the most courageous work a person can do.

👉 Compassion towards oneself is essential for healing.

👉 We must take care of the child inside us.

Website

www.johnnylawrence.co.uk

Johnny’s Instagram

https://www.instagram.com/theselfdevelopmentcoach/?hl=en-gb

The Slavey of Addiction Documentary

https://youtu.be/8j3Nq_lcFlY?si=6I0kXppX9prFFoin

The Self M.A.D.E. Course

https://www.johnnylawrence.co.uk/course

The Self M.A.D.E. Life Audit

https://www.johnnylawrence.co.uk/self-made-lifeaudit

In this episode, Johnny Lawrence sits down with integrative therapist and mental health advocate Francesca Rawlinson from Frankie’s therapy for a deep and honest exploration of attachment styles, emotional patterns, and the hidden forces shaping our relationships.

Whether you struggle with toxic relationships, emotional triggers, or simply want to understand yourself better, this conversation offers powerful insights rooted in real experience, compassionate guidance, and psychological understanding.

Takeaways

👉 Early experiences shape your attachment style, and it influences your relationships today.👉 Awareness of emotional patterns helps you make healthier choices.

👉 Understanding others’ perspectives leads to better communication and connection.

👉 Parts work gives you a framework to recognise and regulate emotional responses.

👉 Authentic storytelling (like Frankie’s) creates relatable and powerful mental health content.

Frankie’s Instagram

https://www.instagram.com/frankiestherapy/?hl=en

The Self Love Hub

https://stan.store/frankiestherapy/p/come-join-my-community-i72ztxrk

Website

www.johnnylawrence.co.uk

Johnny’s Instagram

https://www.instagram.com/theselfdevelopmentcoach/?hl=en-gb

The Slavey of Addiction Documentary

https://youtu.be/8j3Nq_lcFlY?si=6I0kXppX9prFFoin

The Self M.A.D.E. Course

https://www.johnnylawrence.co.uk/course

The Self M.A.D.E. Life Audit

https://www.johnnylawrence.co.uk/self-made-lifeaudit

In this episode of the Johnny Lawrence podcast, Johnny reflects on his recent experiences with grief and the importance of taking time to do nothing. He discusses the challenges of stillness in a productivity-driven culture and offers practical advice on embracing moments of intentional rest. The episode emphasises that doing nothing is not laziness but a form of self-leadership that allows for emotional clarity and creativity.

Takeaways

👉 Grief can impact us physically and mentally, often in unpredictable ways.

👉 Doing nothing is a challenge in a productivity-driven culture.

👉 Stillness is essential for clarity and emotional well-being.

👉 We often confuse motion with progress, leading to burnout.

👉 Intentional rest is a form of self-leadership.

👉 Scheduling time for nothing can help prioritise rest.

👉 Our best ideas often come when we are calm and still.

👉 Observing thoughts without judgment can lead to greater self-awareness.

👉 Creating pockets of peace is crucial for mental health.

👉 10 minutes of doing nothing can significantly impact self-leadership.

Website

www.johnnylawrence.co.uk

Johnny’s Instagram

https://www.instagram.com/theselfdevelopmentcoach/?hl=en-gb

The Slavey of Addiction Documentary

https://youtu.be/8j3Nq_lcFlY?si=6I0kXppX9prFFoin

The Self M.A.D.E. Course

https://www.johnnylawrence.co.uk/course