🎧 Episode 036 – Healing | The Stronghold Podcast

Welcome back to The Stronghold Podcast, where we explore capability and truth. I'm your host, Dave Barton, and in this powerful solo episode, we dive into the heart of what it means to pursue healing—not just for the mind, body, and soul, but for the heart.

What started as a conversation with a friend turned into a deep exploration of identity, past wounds, and the ramifications of not doing the work. From childhood trauma and false identities like "not enough" and "not a priority," to triumphs like running a marathon, completing a 7-day dry fast, and walking in the God-given identity of King, this episode is raw, reflective, and real.

We explore:

• The three-legged stool of personal growth: Mind, Body, and Soul
• Why HEART is the missing leg in many healing journeys
• The trap of conditional self-love
• How success can still mask deep inner wounds
• What it really means to walk in God’s identity for your life
• How Forge Ferocity, Wild at Heart, and key mentors shaped this journey

This episode is a heartfelt reflection on why healing matters, how to stop living from external validation, and the journey to self-love, truth, and God’s purpose.

If you’ve ever asked yourself "Why do the deep work?", this episode is your answer.

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🎧 Episode 035: Dragons | The Stronghold Podcast

In this eye-opening and imaginative episode of The Stronghold Podcast, host Dave Barton asks a wild but compelling question: What if dragons were real? And more provocatively—what if someone doesn’t want you to know that?

Triggered by a recent viral pop culture moment involving Joe Rogan and an offhand comment about “believing in dragons,” this episode turns curiosity into a compelling thought experiment.

We explore:

• Fossils like the Thanatosdrakon amaru, the so-called "dragon of death"
• Global folklore and ancient tales from China to Europe
• The legendary story of Saint George and the Dragon
• Modern conspiracy theories involving government fossil suppression and secret societies
• Remote sightings of dragon-like creatures like Mokele-Mbembe
• The Nazca Lines and possible ancient depictions of dragons

But at its core, this episode is less about dragons and more about the power of asking questions. Dave reminds us that imagination and inquiry are essential to human growth—and that thinking differently isn’t just okay, it’s essential.

Whether dragons ever roamed the earth or not, you’ll leave this episode with your mind opened, your curiosity awakened, and your conviction strengthened to question the narratives we’re told.

🎙️ “The world doesn’t need more people who know all the answers. It needs more people brave enough to ask better questions.”

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🎙️ Episode Title: Forged Leadership with Jay Downing | The Stronghold Podcast

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In this heart-centered and hilariously honest episode of The Stronghold Podcast, host Dave Barton sits down with Jay Downing—a husband, father, jiu-jitsu practitioner, aspiring t-shirt mogul, and humble leader forged through fire. From sharing mats at Guns and Gis to weekly accountability inside the Forge Ferocity brotherhood, Dave and Jay have walked a path of growth together. But today, we go deeper.

Jay opens up about pursuing leadership at a young age, his sobriety journey, and how a passion for fitness reignited his purpose. We laugh through his “banana addiction” and cringe-worthy dance moves, but what stands out most is the quiet strength and deep love he carries for his wife and kids.

This is an episode about leading because it is the right thing to do, staying consistent when life gets loud, and building a legacy through love, service, and presence. It’s a testament to real masculinity: resilient, kind, and forged in the everyday.

🛠️ Topics Include:

• Fitness, faith, and family
• Jay’s rare medical condition and how he manages it 😊
• Sobriety and the truths about alcohol
• What it means to lead by example
• Being a husband and father with intent

📢 “Everyone who knows him is better for it.” — Megan Downing

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· Threaded.Ink Website: https://threaded.ink/

· Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_threadedink_/


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🎙️ Episode Title: Meaning in Life with Dan Kent | The Stronghold Podcast

🔥 Episode Summary

In this episode of The Stronghold Podcast, host Dave Barton sits down with friend, author, theologian, and communicator Dan Kent to explore one of life’s most profound questions: What gives our lives meaning?

Dan, known for his work with Greg Boyd and ReKnew.org, brings deep insight into the tension between purpose, suffering, and joy. Together, we unpack why chasing happiness often leaves us empty, how meaning differs from purpose, and what it truly looks like to live a life anchored in God.

We discuss the role of faith, the challenges of identity in a distracted world, and why truth and capability matter more than ever. Whether you're feeling stuck or searching for direction, this conversation will challenge and inspire you to wrestle with the deeper questions and come out stronger.

Topics:

· Genesis of a Friendship

· Rising above non-traditional family settings

· A way out of apathy, MEANING

· Evil presents a challenge to view of God

· God’s use of proximity in life

· Programs of life, Principalities of power

· Humility and Capability

· Next Chapters

📲 Connect with Dan Kent:

• Podcasts: https://open.spotify.com/show/6fO7KhBJusYwEaZax25CJE?si=0febc0cbb2a24e8b

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• Instagram: https://bit.ly/3PikL8b
• YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7FUTsPFKEB39vSqPBLlymQ
• Books: https://bit.ly/3KSJAnp
• Sermons: https://bit.ly/38h2h73

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🎙️ Episode Title: It’s Not Me, It’s You | The Stronghold Podcast

Episode Summary:

Have you ever carried the weight of someone else’s anger, criticism, or judgment—only to realize later it wasn’t about you at all? In this episode of The Stronghold Podcast, host Dave Barton dives deep into the emotional and spiritual dynamics of projection, healing, and energetic boundaries.

We explore how others’ unresolved pain can wound us, and more importantly, how we can heal from it—emotionally, spiritually, and energetically. Drawing on scripture (Matthew 7, Psalm 147, Philippians 4), psychological insights (projection, cognitive dissonance, Brene Brown), ancient wisdom (Norse mythology, Odin, Vörðr), and heart-based practices (fire ceremonies, plant medicine, guided release), this episode offers a powerful guide to reclaiming your peace.

If you're feeling emotionally drained by your relationships, spiritual walk, or internal battles, this episode will help you:

• Recognize when others' pain is being projected onto you
• Stop apologizing for someone else’s baggage
• Begin the deep work of healing your heart and reclaiming your identity in Christ
• Explore the transformative role of energy, forgiveness, ceremony, and self-awareness

🧠 💛 Whether you're rooted in Christianity, exploring spiritual practices, or simply seeking emotional freedom, It’s Not Me, It’s You is a vulnerable and uplifting reminder that you were never meant to carry what isn’t yours.

🔗 Resources Mentioned:

• Episode 018: Forgiveness
• Identity Exchange – Jamie & Donna Winship
• Wild at Heart Christian Retreat
• Brene Brown on Shame and Boundaries

🙏 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share this episode if it speaks to your journey. Your heart is sacred. Your healing is holy. You are not alone.

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In episode 031 of The Stronghold Podcast I get to sit down and have a conversation with Travis Johnson. From professional baseball player, to law enforcement officer, to coaching on the sidelines, Travis has worn many hats in life. What defines him is a bold nature, warrior spirit, and consistent ability to recreate himself. Please enjoy episode 031 Wearing Many Hats with Travis Johnson.

• Love for sports, hunting, fishing, and the outdoors
• Glory Days of High School Sports
• Drafted to Play MLB Baseball
• Turns a Landscaping Business into a Wife
• Law Enforcement and Jiu-Jitsu
• Dealing with PTSD
• Faith and Healing
• God as Father

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In this episode of The Stronghold Podcast, Dave Barton explores the themes of awakening, self-discovery, and the importance of setting intentions for personal freedom. He emphasizes the need to confront past wounds to move forward and shares his journey of learning and growth through the 'University of You.' David discusses the significance of authenticity, followship, and surrounding oneself with positive influences, while also expressing gratitude for the support received from listeners and loved ones.

Takeaways
- You're not sick; you're remembering.
- I realized that I had work to do, and it was urgent.
- Followship is finding men and women who I can trust.
- I need to be in bigger rooms where I can be unapologetically me.
- My intention is freedom, freedom in every sense of the word.
- I will start loving myself the way my soul always wanted me to be loved.
- Look within and you will find all you need.

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Welcome to The Stronghold Podcast, where we explore capability & truth. I’m your host Dave Barton and today in Episode 29: At What Cost? We’re going to dive deep into some “meaning of life” level stuff, that I’ve been working through, and still am.

• How I show up, the life I want to live, the man I want to be
• The Exchange of Life for Money
• Orlog, Childhood, and the Soul's Path
• Redefining Success
• Freedom
• At what cost?

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