Christian boundaries are biblical, sis. If you’ve been people-pleasing, feeling guilty, and trying to protect your peace without sounding “mean” — Jesus already gave us a playbook!

In this message, Patricia Calixte (aka Patty Pat) breaks down 7 warnings Jesus gave about people and what to do when someone’s influence, words, or access is quietly pulling you off God’s path.

And Jesus?The most loving Person who ever lived?He was not confused about boundaries. He gave warnings—clear ones.

In this Part 5 of People-Pleasing Detox: For Exhausted Women, we’re talking about:

* Why “small” influence can slowly corrupt your standards

* How to spot people who look wise… but produce messy results

* When Jesus says leave them

* How to stop forcing access when truth is rejected

* Why “cut it off” applies to more than habits

* How to stop over-explaining

* Why not everybody deserves access to what God is doing in you If you’ve been asking:

* “How do I set boundaries as a Christian?”

* “What does the Bible say about toxic people?”

* “How do I protect my peace without feeling guilty?”

* “How do I stop people-pleasing and still be loving?”

This message is for you!By God’s grace, this Word will help you stop calling dysfunction ‘love’ — and start moving how Jesus moved!

Chapters

00:00 Intro

04:36 Warning 1

11:22 Warning 2

17:44 Warning 3

22:23 Warning 4

25:20 Warning 5

28:25 Warning 6

30:15 Warning 7

33:50 Declaration Time

35:10 Prayer for you

40:17 Closing Words

If God brought someone to mind while you were watching, send it to her. Remind her: she is allowed to be free — and walk how Jesus walked!

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Psalm 1 isn’t just poetry, sis. It’s God’s blueprint for a blessed life—and a warning about who you might need to distance yourself from.

In this message, Patricia Calixte (aka Patty Pat) breaks down Psalm 1 (NIV) line by line and brings it into modern life—friendships, family, group chats, work circles, relationships… the environments that shape your thinking.

Because sometimes you’re not “stuck” because you lack effort.You’re stuck because you keep sitting in the wrong seat.

We’re talking about:

* Bad company that drains you, guilt-trips you, manipulates you, and keeps you stuck

* Why staying connected to the wrong people can cost you more than you realize

* How to stop people-pleasing your way into compromise

* How to set godly boundaries without being hateful or acting superior

* How to become planted, peaceful, fruitful, and unshakable—even in dry seasons!

If you’ve been asking:

* “What does Psalm 1 mean?”

* “What does the Bible say about bad company?”

* “How do I deal with mockers and toxic influence?”

* “How do I stop people-pleasing and protect my peace?”

This message is for you, my sister!

This Psalm will either plant you… or expose what’s been draining you.

Timestamps

00:00 Intro — Why some people keep rising and some stay stuck? Kayla’s story

08:05 — Who are “these folks” you need to avoid?

13:42 Psalm 1 (NIV)

14:10 Verse 1 — walk / stand / sit (the progression)

19:53 Verse 2 — delight + meditate (day and night)

25:28 Verse 3 — the tree by streams (the oasis picture)

29:50 Verse 4 — chaff (noise, no nourishment)

33:39 Verse 5–6 — two roads, choice, God watches

40:55 Save your peace, save your calling!

46:18 Declaration — “I’m not cracking the door anymore!”

47:56 Prayer for you!

51:19 Last wordsIf this helped you, share it with a sister who needs to be reminded it’s time to move!

Free Bible app I use: YouVersion (search “YouVersion Bible” in your App Store / Play Store) or go to Bible.com if you don’t have your own Bible.

Website: PattyPatsJourney.com

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Adam and Eve didn’t lose everything in one bite—
they lost it the moment the enemy turned God’s clear Word into a debate.

Fed up of starting over? This Bible-based encouragement for exhausted women exposes the real reason your “fresh start” keeps slipping through your fingers—and how to finally walk into lasting change with God.

Patricia Calixte (aka Patty Pat) takes you back to Genesis to show how one quiet question can plant self-doubt, trigger second-guessing, and send you on a detour you never planned.

This is Part 3 of People-Pleasing Detox: For Exhausted Women

Timestamps

0:00 – Intro: “happy new YOU!”

5:04 – Why you keep restarting (the real battle)

11:10 – Genesis: the moment doubt got planted

22:57 – The consequences… and hope for you!

39:15 – Declaration time: no more second-guessing

40:34 – Prayer: grace for a new season

43:24 – Closing: guard the blessing, guard the heart

👋 Welcome to To Run or Not To Run with Jesus Christ—created for women who want Scripture, real talk, and Holy Spirit conviction without shame!

New episode every Thursday at 11 AM ET!

If this helped you, share it with a sister who needs a reset with God.

• Free Bible app I use: YouVersion (search “YouVersion Bible” in your App Store / Play Store) or go to Bible.com if you don’t have your own Bible.

Website: PattyPatsJourney.com

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What do you do when you’re finally growing… and the people closest to you start acting weird?

You start healing, setting boundaries, saying “no” with peace… and suddenly you’re “different.”

You stop overfunctioning and now you’re “difficult.”And the wild part? Sometimes the pushback starts before you even change—the moment you think about changing.

In this message for women of faith, Patricia Calixte (aka Patty Pat) breaks down why people resist your growth—and how to stop people-pleasing “to keep the peace” when that peace is really just you shrinking.

We’re naming what’s happening (homeostatic resistance), and we’re going straight into Scripture with one of the clearest examples of transformation backlash.

Sis, don’t let anybody dim your light—just because your growth makes them uncomfortable.

👋 Welcome to To Run or Not To Run with Jesus Christ.

This is Part 2 of the series: People-Pleasing Detox: For Exhausted Women

⏱ Chapters

00:00 Intro — Don’t let them dim your light

05:39 What is homeostatic resistance is (why people push back)

10:07 Before the encounter

13:54 After the encounter

21:34 How to respond when they want the old you back

24:56 Protect your spark (guard your heart)

26:52 Different Point of View (POV)

34:25 Declaration

35:55 Prayer

38:41 Closing encouragement

New episode every Thursday at 11 AM ET!

If this message hit home, share it with a sister who’s healing, evolving, and tired of being guilted back into her old role.

• Free Bible app I use: YouVersion (search “YouVersion Bible” in your App Store / Play Store) or go to Bible.com if you don’t have your own Bible.

Website: PattyPatsJourney.com

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What do you do when your “yes” keeps costing you peace? And why does saying “no” feel like you’re committing a crime? In this message for exhausted women, Patricia Calixte (aka Patty Pat) exposes the people-pleasing trap—that polished, “nice girl” habit that looks like love on the outside… but quietly pulls you away from Jesus on the inside.

We’re talking about the Yes Machine: the group chats, the holiday chaos, the “it won’t be the same without you,” and the sneaky fear that if you set a boundary… you’ll disappoint people—or lose them. But here’s the truth: Jesus didn’t call you to live booked, burnt out, and spiritually distant!

👋 Welcome to To Run or Not To Run with Jesus Christ—created for women who want Scripture, real talk, and Holy Spirit conviction without shame.

This is Part 1 of the series: People-Pleasing Detox: For Exhausted Women

⏱ Chapters00:00 Intro — The “Yes Machine”02:54 What people-pleasing is (and what it isn’t)06:26 Jesus literally commands rest 11:19 Why we keep doing this 14:27 What people-pleasing costs you 18:16 A better way21:39 The “Jesus way out” 24:18 Declaration26:20 Prayer30:50 Closing words

New episode every Thursday at 11 AM ET!

If this helped you, share it with a sister who’s always “strong,” always available… and secretly running on 3% battery.

• Free Bible app I use: YouVersion (search “YouVersion Bible” in your App Store / Play Store) or go to Bible.com if you don’t have your own Bible.

Playlist available on Spotify

Website: PattyPatsJourney.com

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What do you do when God doesn’t meet your expectations? Would you say yes to a good man who proposes with a tiny tiny ring? 👀 In this Bible study for women, Patricia Calixte (aka Patty Pat) walks you through the story of Naaman in 2 Kings 5—a powerful, high-ranking man who almost missed his miracle because God’s instructions felt too basic and “beneath” him.

We talk about expectation pride: that quiet attitude that says, “God, I trust You… but I also need You to do it my way, on my timeline, with the packaging I approved.”

From relationships and jobs to addictions and health issues, we’ll look at how God often hides big miracles in simple instructions—and how to stop pushing them away just because they don’t look as shiny as you imagined.

👋 Welcome to To Run or Not To Run with Jesus Christ—created for women who want Scripture, real talk, and Holy Spirit conviction without shame!

This is Part 5 of the series: “When You Don’t Even Know Pride Is Blocking Your Blessing.”

⏱ Chapters

00:00 Tiny Ring, Big Pride

06:19 When Your Expectations Try to Be God

09:20 An Important Person With a Hidden Problem

12:32 When God Uses Someone Unexpected to Help You

15:34 Ready to Pay a Lot of Dollars to Get Fixed

19:38 Offended by God’s Instructions

27:33 From Pride to Worship

29:13 Expectation Pride in Real Life

38:49 What This Means for You: Simple Instructions, Big Salvation

42:50 Declaration

44:08 Prayer

48:24 Recap and Closing Words

New episode every Thursday at 11 AM ET!

If this helped you, share it with a sister who might be standing right next to her miracle and doesn’t even know it because of the packaging.

• Free Bible app I use: YouVersion (search “YouVersion Bible” in your App Store / Play Store) or go to Bible.com if you don’t have your own Bible.

Website: PattyPatsJourney.com

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Feeling tempted to go back to the relationship, habit, or life God already*rescued you from? In this Bible study for women, Patricia Calixte (aka Patty Pat) walks you through the story of Israel in the wilderness—freed, protected, miraculously provided for… and still complaining their way out of the promise.

We talk about what really happens when spiritual amnesia, entitlement, and pride start running the show—how “the good old days” suddenly look better than they were, and how to stay grateful and grounded so you don’t miss the blessing that’s right in front of you.

👋 Welcome to *To Run or Not To Run with Jesus Christ*—created for women who want Scripture, real talk, and Holy Spirit conviction without shame!

This is Part 4 of the series: “When You Don’t Even Know Pride Is Blocking Your Blessing.”

⏱ Chapters

00:00 Intro – Spiritual Amnesia

05:05 Blessed but Complaining

28:36 How God Sees Entitlement

31:06 Message for you

34:02 Declaration – I Won’t Go Back

35:18 Prayer for You

37:41 Closing Words

New episode every Thursday at 11 AM ET!

If this helped you, share it with a sister who keeps looking back at what God freed her from.

• Free Bible app I use: YouVersion (search “YouVersion Bible” in your App Store / Play Store) or go to Bible.com if you don’t have your own Bible.

Website: PattyPatsJourney.com

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Tired of waiting on God for a promise—a relationship, a baby, a better job, a door to open—and politely building your own Plan B? In this Bible study, Patricia Calixte (aka Patty Pat) walks you through one of the most honest stories in Scripture: Sarah, Hagar and Abraham.

We talk about what really happens when impatience, wounded pride, and “helping God” start running the show —and how to trust His timing again!

👋 Welcome to To Run or Not To Run with Jesus Christ—created for women who want Scripture, real talk, and Holy Spirit conviction without shame!

This teaching is Part 3 of the series: “When You Don’t Even Know Pride Is Blocking Your Blessing.”

⏱ Chapters

00:00 Intro – When God Feels Too Slow

03:07 Let's Get Started

05:14 Who Is Sarai/Sarah

11:20 When Pride Tries to “Help” God

20:39 God Repeats the Promise Anyway

24:20 Promise Delivered! But Pride Still Around

27:44 What This Means for You Today

31:58 Declaration

32:50 Prayer for You

37:03 Closing Words

New episode every Thursday at 11 AM ET!

If this helped you, share it with a sister who is fed up with waiting.

Free Bible app I use: YouVersion (search “YouVersion Bible” in your App Store / Play Store) or go to Bible.com if you don’t have your own Bible.

Website: PattyPatsJourney.com

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