• Episode 9: Dear Bully (With Special Guest Sean Leslie)
    Jun 23 2025

    Warning. This week we talk about bullying and we understand this can be triggering and upsetting to hear. Some strong language included.

    Good Morning! How’s it going? In this week’s episode Loz, Breanne, and Special Guest, Sean share their personal experiences with bullying during their childhoods. Loz reads a heartfelt letter addressing a former bully, reflecting on the emotional scars and the journey towards healing.

    Sean follows with his own letter, detailing the torment he faced and the impact it had on his self-esteem. The discussion delves into the complexities of bullying, the lackof support from peers, and the long-lasting effects on mental health. We chat about the desire to understand the motivations behind bullying and the importance of standing up for yourself and others. Our conversation delves intothe complex dynamics of bullying, exploring its impact from childhood through adulthood, the challenges of finding supportive friendships, and the troubling behaviors of adult bullies.

    Bullying can be disruptive and devastating to anyone. If youare struggling with a bully, here are some links that can help you get the support and help you need.

    https://www.stopbullying.gov/resources/get-help-now

    https://www.thetrevorproject.org/

    https://www.nspcc.org.uk/what-is-child-abuse/types-of-abuse/bullying-and-cyberbullying/

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    37 mins
  • Episode 8: Dear Dad on Father's Day (with Guest Letter from Bri)
    Jun 16 2025

    In this episode, Loz and B discuss personal updates, family dynamics, and the emotional weight of a heartfelt letter written to a Distant father. They explore themes of guilt, grief, and the complexities of familial relationships, particularly in the context of childhood, addiction to Alcohol, and politicaldivides. The conversation emphasizes the importance of critical thinking and the healing power of sharing personal stories through letters. B reads a letter to The people in her Online Grief and mental wellness sessions.

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    29 mins
  • Episode 7: Dear Comfort Zone (with special guest Maria Hopwood)
    Jun 2 2025

    Good Morning. How's it going? We're so glad you're here.

    On this week's episode Loz and B are joined by special guest Maria Hopwood. We discuss the importance of stepping out of your comfort zone. Maria shares her personal letter to her comfort zone, detailing her journey of overcoming fears andembracing new challenges, including starting her own business and networking. Loz reads a letter to the people who helped him during his company Layoffs. We talk about the significance of community support during difficult times.


    Thank you for joining us. Please share anywhere you see our social posts. We'd really appreciate your support. See you next week.

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    27 mins
  • Episode 6: Dear Young Women's Camp (with special guest, Irena Jerome)
    May 26 2025

    WELCOME BACK. We missed you. In this week’s episode of To Whom It May Concern, we welcome special guest, IrenaJerome and explore themes of nostalgia, creativity, and personal experiences through letters. We discuss the beautyof notebooks, the struggles of using them, and share humorous and poignant memories from youth camps.

    We also discus, as always, the importance of community and connection through shared stories, and invite you the listener to engage by sharing your own letters. Really we want to hear from you. Email us at lorancook@alterrantales.com

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    32 mins
  • Episode 5: Dear Disney (with special guest Andrea Harris
    May 19 2025

    In this week’s episode Loz, B, and special guest AndreaHarris, share personal updates and experiences, before they delve into thesignificance of Disney parks in their lives, exploring how these experiencesintertwine with grief and healing. The discussion also highlights differingperspectives on the Disney experience, showcasing the emotional connections andcritiques surrounding the parks. We explore the complexities of the Disneyexperience, discussing the whimsical allure of the parks juxtaposed withpersonal feelings of overstimulation and anxiety. Loz shares his Pro DisneyLetter while Andrea shares a traumatic letter to Disney that highlights thebalance between nostalgia and the reality of personal discomfort in a highlycurated environment.

    We hope you enjoy.

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    35 mins
  • Episode 4: Dear Sore Losers
    May 12 2025

    Good Morning, How are you doing this week? We hope its a great week for you. On this episode We discuss the ups and downs of life, the importance ofcommunity and connection, and the art of gracefully accepting defeat in games. B shares a letter to sore losers and we share personal anecdotes about relationships, family, and the joy found ineveryday moments. Loz reads a heartfelt letter celebrating love and motherhood in a letter to Amy.


    Do you have a little Missive for us. A shorter letter? We'd love to hear your letter whatever length-category it falls into. Message us on social media or email us at lorancook@alterrantales.com.

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    21 mins
  • Episode 3: Dear Mon Mothma
    May 5 2025

    Hey there, How's your week been? In this weeks episode, we talk about personal experiences related to life changes, self-expression through dance, and the empowerment found in sharing letters.

    Loran reads a letter to the Star Wars Character Mon Mothma, and the song Brasso. B reads a letter to Budgens to express her annoyance. We talk about dance, processing emotions and the liberating nature of self-expression. We hope you enjoy.

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    23 mins
  • Episode 2: Dear Suffolk Refuse Collector
    Apr 28 2025

    Hello Listeners. How was your week last week. We hope it was everything you needed it to be. This week on To Whom It May Concern, Loz and B, discuss Dark Skies, and the importance of preserving darkness. Loz reads a letter to Crosshatching and Loz reflects on his creative process and the meditative quality of drawing. B reads a humorous letter of apology to a refuse collector, highlighting the challenges faced by those in the waste management profession.

    We hope you enjoy but we also hope you take part also. Come be a guest.


    We are launching To Whom It May Concern's baby sister, Little Missives. Each week, not only will you get two letters in a main episode but you'll also get one or two smaller weekly letters. The same random subjects and addressees but, littler. You may also submit your own. Send us an email to lorancook@alterrantales.com with "Little Missives" in the title, and we'll record your bite-sized letters and you could very well see it featured on the Substack in video form. See you next week.

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    23 mins