We have created an entire vocabulary for women.

But somewhere along the way, I started wondering whether we have also created a new set of rules for how women are supposed to behave.

In this episode of Vexed in the City, I explore the labels we use to describe women, the pressure to perform the “right” kind of womanhood, and the uncomfortable possibility that some of these labels might be doing the opposite of what feminism was supposed to do.

Because are we really supporting women…or are we just supporting women who behave in ways that make us comfortable?

This is a conversation about feminism, judgement, confidence, female friendship, growing up, getting things wrong, and the complicated business of being a woman.

Elon Musk is talking about rockets, Mars, artificial intelligence, and the future of humanity.

Meanwhile, millions of people around the world are struggling with the present.

Which makes me ask the question - what happens when the people with the most money and influence are also the ones helping decide what the future looks like?

In this episode, we’re talking about Elon Musk, capitalism, innovation, extreme wealth, political influence, and the uncomfortable reality that the people imagining the future may also be helping decide what that future looks like.

This episode is not about pretending Elon Musk has achieved nothing.

It is also not about ignoring the harm and controversy surrounding him.

It is a conversation about ambition, power, wealth, and responsibility.

Because when some of the richest people on Earth are looking towards other planets…

what responsibility do they have to the one we already live on?

Millions of fans around the world are celebrating the FIFA World Cup; the goals, the drama, the unforgettable moments.

But this World Cup left me with a question I couldn’t... shake.

What happens when the players we celebrate are also facing serious allegations?

In this first episode of Vexed in the City, I explore the relationship between football, fame, power, accountability, and the difficult conversations that happen when sport and real life collide.

This episode is not about deciding guilt.

It is a (hopefully) thoughtful, uncomfortable conversation about the beautiful game, and the questions we don’t always want to ask.

Unfiltered, curious, and occasionally a little chaotic.

This podcast is for anyone trying to navigate modern life in all its confusion - from relationships and identity to ambition, culture, and everything quietly shaping how we function as humans.

No clue what I’m doing, tbh - just one vexed person trying to make sense of it all.

And honestly… that might be the point.