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What Then Say You

What Then Say You

Written by: Keith & Tunisha Barnes
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Welcome to the show! In this podcast we have candid conversations about various topics that will encourage and at times challenge you! The greatest conversations ever had are typically amongst friends in an intimate setting. This is the venue in which the Holy Spirit often works to separate the chaff from the wheat in our lives if we are being honest with ourselves. We hope as you peer behind the veil and join us that you take what you hear and consider it with Gods word in your own life.

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  • When Feelings Take The Wheel
    Oct 19 2026

    What Then Say You?

    Your emotions are real, strong, and God-given, but they can still talk you into choices you never meant to make. We pull back the curtain on faith, marriage, and everyday life to ask a hard question: how do we tell the difference between righteous emotion and plain old self-interest? From Genesis and the imago Dei to Jesus flipping tables in the temple, we trace how Scripture treats emotion with both honesty and precision, and why that matters when our culture tells us to follow our heart no matter what.

    We also get practical about the moments that don’t feel “spiritual” enough to bring to God. Small purchases, quick reactions, parenting choices, and tense conversations can become the exact place where the flesh takes over, especially when defensiveness kicks in and we start keeping score. One image keeps coming back: treating God like a co-signer. When we decide first and pray later, we are asking Him to bless what He never authored, and we should not be surprised when consequences show up.

    Along the way, we talk about conviction versus condemnation, repentance as real life change, and why prayer in the heat of the moment is the simplest reset we keep resisting. If you want stronger Christian discernment, healthier marriage communication, and a faith that covers the middle ground of life not just the highs and lows, this conversation is for you. Subscribe, share with a friend who needs it, and leave a review with your biggest takeaway: where do emotions most often try to lead you?

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    18 mins
  • Anger, Patience, And The Real Source Of Peace
    Sep 28 2026

    What Then Say You?

    Anger can look like a “normal” reaction, but we keep noticing the same root underneath it: unmet expectations. When we’re frustrated with our spouse, embarrassed by our kids in public, or tired of waiting on God, the heat of anger reveals what we really wanted from the moment. We talk through the difference between correction and anger, why patience isn’t just personality, and how love stays grounded even when the day feels like a battleground.

    We also go after a bigger drift we’ve watched in ourselves and in church culture: starting with genuine zeal for Christ, then slowly sliding into hustle, self-protection, and performance. “Make the vision plain” (Habakkuk 2:2) gets quoted like a personal goal strategy, but the context is God responding to a prophet’s grief and saying, in effect, I’ve got this. That vision is not our next achievement. It’s God’s sovereignty, God’s timing, and God’s glory. We connect that to success, motives, and the subtle American dream temptation to put Jesus on our plans instead of surrendering our plans to Jesus.

    Finally, we tie “be angry and do not sin” to something deeper than behavior management. Anger turns into sin when we lose faith, shrink back, and stop enduring in trust. When our “eye” gets filled with the world, darkness follows, but when the vision is clear and centered on Christ, light follows. If you’ve been wrestling with frustration, ambition, or disappointment, this one is an invitation to check your motives at the door and return to simple faith. Subscribe, share this with someone who needs it, leave a review, and run it against the Word for yourself: where are you tempted to trade trust for control?

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    33 mins
  • Why Israel Still Matters For Christians
    Sep 14 2026

    What Then Say You?

    Treating Israel like a symbol might feel harmless until you realize what it does to your theology: it quietly moves you to the center of a story that never started with you. We dig into a topic that can be triggering but desperately needed, how replacement theology and an Americanized gospel can twist the way we read the Bible, pray, and even understand salvation.

    We open Romans 11 and sit with Paul’s olive tree picture: natural branches, a wild olive branch grafted in, and a warning that should sober every believer. The root supports us, not the other way around, and trust is never a license for arrogance. From there, we talk spiritual adoption in plain terms, what it means to be brought into covenant by grace, and why holiness cannot be treated like a bonus feature of Christianity. This is a conversation about reverence, humility, and the fear of God that keeps faith from turning into self confidence.

    Then we move to Galatians 4 and the real life struggle of wanting to go back. Old habits can feel familiar, even when they were destructive, and comfort can make believers lazy when they should be running the race. We also challenge an entitled mindset that treats God like He owes us, especially when we rip promises from context and paste our name over them. If you want a deeper, more biblical approach to discipleship, sanctification, and standing with God’s purposes, this one will press you in the best way.

    If it hits home, subscribe, share it with someone who needs a heart check, and leave a review so more listeners can find the show.

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    35 mins
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