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Wise Yourself Up

Wise Yourself Up

Written by: Carla McGreevy
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Everyone wants to find themselves but so many of us are drowning in the rat race. Suffering from burnout, battling self sabotage, desperate for change. My aim is to inspire you to take the scary steps towards the life you deeply desire.I'm Carla and I'm done censoring my voice. I have “taboo” topics to discuss that aren’t welcome elsewhere. I believe that sharing is the first step to healing. This is the unfiltered truth.Expect a raw insight into my experiences, and those of my guests, on topics such as trauma, shame, relationships, mindset, abuse, addiction, confidence, self love and more© 2025 Wise Yourself Up Self-Help Success
Episodes
  • Ep. 61- Healing Your Relationship with Anger
    Sep 5 2025

    JOIN THE 21-DAY BREATHWORK CHALLENGE STARTING ON MONDAY!


    Whether you never express the emotion of anger or you are angry all the time, this is a powerful emotion that is sending you a signal as to what your needs are.


    This is the final episode of this season. Carla is chatting about the very misunderstood power of anger and explains how breathwork helps us process it instead of suppressing it.


    She uses real examples from clients to look at the different ways people respond to anger and why those responses matter for our health and our relationships.


    You will learn how childhood experiences and gender norms shape the way we express or repress anger, and why acknowledging anger is essential for setting boundaries, identifying needs, and preventing long-term emotional and physical consequences.


    This is the final episode of this season, so please reach out and share your thoughts with Carla on whether you would like another season and the topics to discuss.


    Timestamps:

    00:00 Episode recording take 2

    00:39 Why recent weeks have felt heavy for so many

    02:48 Grief, anniversaries, and emotional healing

    07:19 The emotions that show up most: anger, anxiety, shame

    08:33 How suppressed anger impacts health and illness

    09:42 Anger in relationships: healthy vs unhealthy responses

    14:27 The complexity of navigating difficult emotions

    20:40 Childhood conditioning and suppressed anger

    21:20 Belief systems formed in early childhood

    24:05 Therapy and bringing awareness to your reactions

    25:29 How unexpressed anger affects intimacy and boundaries

    29:14 The challenges of vulnerability and hyper-independence

    36:57 How breathwork supports emotional processing and healing

    39:18 Join the Breathwork Challenge


    A huge thank you to the more than 1,000 of you who have subscribed to the podcast. Please reach out to Carla if you enjoy the podcast, as your feedback really helps.


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    Instagram: ⁠⁠@CarlaMcGreevy1⁠⁠

    Work with Carla: ⁠⁠Carla McGreevy⁠⁠

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    40 mins
  • Ep. 60-Why We Struggle to Feel Our Emotions and How Breathwork Can Help
    Aug 28 2025

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    Carla is back with part 2, speaking about all things emotions.


    If you’ve ever wondered why sitting with emotions like sadness, anger, or grief feels so uncomfortable, Carla is going to explain it all in today’s episode and share how slowing down and breathwork can transform the way we heal.


    Carla shares what she’s learning through her Compassionate Inquiry training with Gabor Maté, alongside her own work in somatics and therapy.


    She explains why so many of us skip past feelings, rush to soothe, or get stuck in our heads rather than staying with what’s present.


    She also talks about implicit memory and highlights the role of the “super ego” in holding us back from healing.


    If this episode resonates with you and you’re ready to stop being so in your head and start connecting inwards, Carla’s new community is launching on the 8th of September with a 21-Day Breathwork Challenge! This is a chance to reconnect with your body, release emotional energy, and find more clarity and calm in daily life.


    Sign up here for founders’ pricing before it increases!


    Thank you so much for tuning into this week’s episode. Please make sure to rate the show and subscribe if you haven’t already, so we can keep growing the podcast!


    Connect with Carla:

    Instagram: ⁠⁠@CarlaMcGreevy1⁠⁠

    Work with Carla: ⁠⁠Carla McGreevy⁠⁠

    Join Carla’s mailing list: ⁠⁠Stay Connected⁠

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    35 mins
  • Ep. 59- Stop Thinking and Doing & Start Feeling and Being
    Aug 13 2025

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    This week, Carla’s talking emotions- why they’re at the root of everything, how most of us either avoid them or get overwhelmed by them, and what can actually help.

    She shares what she’s learned from her Compassionate Inquiry training with Gabor Maté, plus years of breathwork and body-based work.

    There’s chat about how childhood shapes us, why we keep falling into the same patterns, and how slowing down to breathe (literally three minutes a day) can change your life.

    So whether you’re a numb potato or highly anxious, this episode will help you to stop thinking and doing so much and start to tap into living and being.

    Timestamps

    00:00 Life updates

    04:39 What Compassionate Inquiry is and how childhood shapes us

    09:17 Why emotions are at the heart of everything

    10:26 How breathwork can help you heal and feel more connected

    12:36 Understanding trauma and how to start mending old wounds

    19:28 False memories, body memory, and intergenerational trauma

    21:01 Childhood experiences and the beliefs they leave behind

    21:56 Emotional eating and what it’s really trying to tell you

    22:30 Avoidant relationships and intimacy fears

    23:49 How parents influence our ability to regulate emotions

    26:39 Slowing down and creating space

    28:24 Breathwork, movement, and practices to shift your energy

    34:48 21-Day Breathwork Challenge

    Poem mentioned by Portia Nelson

    Share this episode with someone who needs to slow down, subscribe to the show, and leave a quick review if you enjoyed!!

    Connect with Carla:

    Instagram: ⁠⁠@CarlaMcGreevy1⁠⁠

    Work with Carla: ⁠⁠Carla McGreevy⁠⁠

    Join Carla’s mailing list: ⁠⁠Stay Connected⁠

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    38 mins
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