• What About Your Friends?: A Conversation w/ Eva Vernae
    Dec 24 2025

    In this episode of the Dear Black Girl podcast, La'Daja and author Eva Vernae delve into the complexities of friendship, particularly within the context of Black girlhood.

    They explore various themes such as the dynamics of friendships, the importance of accountability, and the impact of mental health on relationships. Eva shares insights from her book, The Many Faces of Friendship: Sis, Which One Are You? discussing different types of friends and the unspoken rules that often govern these relationships.

    The conversation emphasizes the significance of open communication, personal growth, and the healing power of supportive friendships.


    Chapters


    00:00 Introduction to Friendship and Identity

    02:29 The Meaning of Friendship in Adulthood

    05:19 Childhood Friendships and Their Impact

    11:03 Unspoken Rules of Friendship

    16:59 Healthy vs. Unhealthy Friendship Dynamics

    22:29 Healing Friendships: The Power of Growth

    25:47 Navigating Change: Friendships in Transformation

    31:16 Accountability in Friendships: Leading by Example

    32:58 The Many Faces of Friendship: Insights from the Book

    38:57 Exploring Friendship Dynamics

    45:34 The Challenges of Writing About Personal Experiences

    50:45 Mental Health and Friendships

    54:47 Using the Book as a Tool for Self-Reflection

    01:02:38 Advice for Black Girls on Friendship

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    1 hr and 11 mins
  • Dear Black Girl, Figure It Out!
    May 16 2024

    In this episode, special guest, Kaela Branch, and host, La'Daja Miller talk about why 'having it all together' by the age of 25 should be debunked. We talk about the importance of living life at your own pace and accomplishing your goals on your own time, on your own terms. In the end, there is no need to have it all figured out, because life is not a race, it's a marathon.

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    49 mins
  • Dear Black Girl, Put Yourself First
    Jun 28 2020
    In today’s episode, we will talk about you, yes you, putting yourself first and prioritizing self care during this time. In this episode, I also touch base on the senseless killings of Black people at the hands of police officers throughout the US and how it is currently affecting the Black community.
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    36 mins
  • Self Love is the Best Love
    May 14 2020

    In this episode of Dear Black Girl the podcast, we will be discussing the importance of self love, self acceptance and self-care.

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    23 mins
  • Give Yourself Grace
    Apr 19 2020

    In this episode, we will talk about self love, self-care and giving yourself time to heal and allowing room for grace as you move through your self-care journey.

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    15 mins
  • Support
    Mar 23 2020

    In this episode of Dear Black Girl, we will be discussing support and what that may look like for artists and small business owners. The host, La'Daja, details her experiences with feeling a sense of entitlement when it came to expecting support very early on in her writing career.

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    18 mins
  • An Ode to Womanhood
    Jan 5 2020
    In the second episode of the Dear Black girl podcast, your host, La'Daja Miller speaks about relationships that Black women endure and how so may be rewarding, they can also be draining.
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    10 mins
  • Dear Black Girl E1: Intro
    Dec 23 2019

    In this episode you will get to know the author, La'Daja Miller a little bit more on how Dear Black Girl came about, mental health health in the Black community and what this podcast means for the Black community overall and the young girls and women in it.

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    7 mins