In today’s hyper-digital world, children are growing up immersed in screens — and families are feeling the impact.

In this powerful episode, Dr. Taniesha Burke sits down with clinical psychologist and author Catherine Steiner-Adair to discuss how technology, smartphones, gaming, and social media are reshaping childhood and what parents can do to reconnect with their children.

Based on her bestselling book, The Big Disconnect, Catherine shares research-backed insights on screen addiction, emotional dysregulation, family values, AI companions, and how parents can protect their child’s mental health in the digital age.

If you've ever wondered:

• Is my child addicted to screens?
• How much screen time is too much?
• Should I check my teenager’s phone?
• Are devices affecting my child’s brain development?
• How do I rebuild connection in my family?

This episode is for you.

• What “The Big Disconnect” really means for modern families
• The neurological impact of gaming and social media on children’s brains
• Why screen addiction mimics gambling addiction
• Emotional dysregulation and tech withdrawal meltdowns
• The rise in anxiety, depression, and body image issues linked to devices
• Why family dinners are more powerful than parents realize
• How to create a Responsible Use Agreement in your home
• The importance of tech-free mornings, car rides, and bedtime routines
• Should parents monitor their teen’s phone?
• AI companions and the dangers of outsourcing parenting
• How to raise confident, self-advocating children in a digital world
• Why parenting today is an act of rebellion

Children don’t need parents to be perfect; they need parents to be present.

Strong family connection, consistent boundaries, and clearly defined family values are protective factors against digital addiction, online exploitation, anxiety, and emotional isolation.

Parenting in the digital age requires courage, intentionality, and leadership.

• The Big Disconnect by Catherine Steiner-Adair

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Your family connection is worth protecting.

After children, many couples quietly shift from lovers to logistical partners. The romance fades, exhaustion sets in, and intimacy feels like another task on the to-do list.

In this powerful episode of the Family Dialogues Podcast, Dr. Taniesha Burke sits down with certified sex therapist Dr. Rebecca Howard Eudy, author of Parents in Love: A Guide to Great Sex After Kids, to explore how couples can reconnect emotionally and sexually without grand gestures or pressure.

We unpack why feeling like “roommates with children” is a normal and predictable phase of parenting, and how small, intentional daily choices can rebuild connection, safety, and desire over time.

• Why intimacy often declines after children and why it’s not a red flag
• The difference between spontaneous desire vs. responsive desire (and why this matters for couples)
• How exhaustion, mental load, and being “touched out” impact sexual connection
• The pursuer-withdrawer cycle and how it erodes emotional intimacy
• Why obligation sex can damage desire and what to do instead
• How your nervous system (fight, flight, freeze, fawn) affects intimacy
• Micro-moments that keep the emotional climate of your marriage warm
• Rebuilding sexual connection after fertility struggles
• Healing intimacy after traumatic birth experiences
• Navigating desire differences during perimenopause and menopause
• Reconnecting as parents of teens and empty nesters

Dr. Rebecca shares practical tools for rebuilding intimacy in marriage, including:

✔ Expanding your definition of sex

✔ Communicating with vulnerability using “I feel” statements

✔ Creating intentional transition time from parent mode to partner mode

✔ Prioritizing micro-moments of connection (hello kisses, deep hugs, intentional eye contact)

If you’ve ever wondered how to reignite romance after kids, restore emotional connection, or strengthen your marriage while parenting, this episode is for you.

• Parents in Love: A Guide to Great Sex After Kids – Dr. Rebecca Howard Eudy
• Secure Love – Julie Menanno
• Dr. Rebecca Howard Eudy’s Website
• Dr. Rebecca Howard Eudy on Instagram

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In a world where manners are fading, social skills are declining, and family connections feel harder than ever, could etiquette be the missing link to raising confident, respectful children?

In this powerful episode of the Family Dialogues Podcast, Dr. Taniesha Burke sits down with renowned etiquette expert Jackie Vernon Thompson to explore how manners, respect, and social protocols shape children’s confidence, communication skills, and long-term success.

Together, they discuss why etiquette is not about class, wealth, or being “old-fashioned,” but about self-worth, emotional intelligence, leadership, and strong family values. Jackie shares real-life insights from her global work with children, families, and professionals and explains how simple daily habits at home can transform sibling relationships, parent-child connection, and children’s readiness for the real world.

This episode covers:

• Why etiquette and manners must start at home
• How social skills impact confidence, academic success, and career opportunities
• The hidden cost of screen time, blank stares, and poor communication
• How family meals and device-free conversations build emotional safety
• Dressing, hygiene, and non-verbal communication as forms of self-respect
• Teaching children boundaries, gratitude, responsibility, and courtesy
• Why etiquette is for every child, regardless of background

If you’re a parent, educator, or caregiver who wants to raise respectful, emotionally healthy, and socially confident children, this conversation is essential listening.

• From the Inside Out School of Etiquette
• The Polished Society (Membership Program)
• Etiquette Consultant Certification Program
• Youth Empowerment Village (Summer Program)
• Book: Transformative Etiquette by Jackie Vernon Thompson
• Instagram - From the Inside Out School of Etiquette
• Facebook - From the Inside Out School of Etiquette
• TIK TOK - From the Inside Out School of Etiquette
• LinkedIn - From the Inside Out School of Etiquette

For podcast feedback email: info@tanieshaburke.com

What really happens to a marriage after kids arrive?

In this episode of Family Dialogues, Dr. Taniesha Burke sits down with New York Times bestselling author and journalist Jancee Dunn to talk candidly about resentment, emotional labor, and rebuilding a partnership after children. Drawing from her book, How Not to Hate Your Husband After Kids, Jancee shares deeply relatable stories, research-backed insights, and practical tools to help couples move from simmering frustration back to teamwork, respect, and connection.

Together, they explore how unequal mental load, maternal gatekeeping, poor communication, and unspoken expectations quietly erode relationships and what actually helps couples repair after the early parenting years. From FBI conflict-resolution techniques to chore redistribution systems, this conversation offers realistic strategies for overwhelmed parents who still want their relationship to thrive.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why resentment often builds between partners after having children
• How emotional labor and the mental load disproportionately affect mothers
• The impact of micromanaging and “maternal gatekeeping” on fathers
• Why children absorb parental conflict more than we realize
• Practical communication scripts that reduce defensiveness and shutdown
• FBI-backed techniques for de-escalating conflict during heated moments
• How clarifying roles and household systems can reduce resentment
• What gives hope to couples struggling in the early parenting years

This episode is a must-listen for parents navigating marriage after kids, co-parenting stress, emotional burnout, and relationship repair.

• How Not to Hate Your Husband After Kids - Jancee Dunn
• FBI Behavioral Change Stairway Model
• Terry Real (Relational Life Therapy)

In today's episode of The Family Dialogues Podcast, we explore what it really means to be a "good mother" in a culture that glorifies perfection and the idea of the supermom. Host Dr. Burke sits down with Kate Kripke, LCSW, perinatal mental health therapist and author of Reinventing Supermom, to unpack why high-achieving women are especially vulnerable to anxiety, overwhelm, and burnout in motherhood.

This powerful conversation explores the emotional transition from maiden to motherhood, the hidden costs of achievement-driven parenting, and how a parent's nervous system shapes a child's sense of safety and attachment. Kate explains why children "borrow" our nervous systems, how secure attachment is built, and why placing our emotional well-being on our child's behavior can be harmful—though often unintentional.

You'll learn practical, neuroscience-backed tools for emotional regulation, including Kate's 3 Cs framework (Curiosity, Compassion, Choice), which helps parents stay grounded during tantrums, emotional outbursts, and moments of overwhelm from toddlerhood through the teenage years. This episode also addresses cultural and generational beliefs about emotions, why feelings are not the problem, and how repairing ruptures in the parent-child relationship actually strengthens connection.

Whether you're a new mom, a high-achieving parent, or navigating emotional challenges with older children, this episode offers compassionate insight, actionable strategies, and reassurance that you don't have to lose yourself to be a loving, secure parent.

• Why high-achieving women struggle more with postpartum anxiety
• The emotional cost of the "supermom" identity
• Secure attachment and the concept of a safe emotional container
• How parental anxiety impacts infant and child nervous systems
• Why children's emotions are not misbehavior
• The 3 Cs for regulating yourself during tantrums and conflict
• Supporting emotional regulation from toddlerhood through adolescence
• Letting go of perfection while strengthening connection

• Kate Kripke, LCSW – Perinatal Mental Health Therapist
• Book: Reinventing Supermom: Support, Encouragement, and Strategies for Mothers Who Feel Lost – Kate Kripke
• Kate's Instagram: @katekripke
• Kate's Podcast
• Postpartum Support International (PSI)

In this episode of The Family Dialogues Podcast, Dr. Burke sits down with Dr. Willard F. “Bill” Harley Jr., clinical psychologist, marriage counselor, and bestselling author of His Needs, Her Needs, to explore a question many parents wrestle with but rarely say out loud: Should marriage come before children and why does it matter so much?

Dr. Harley draws on over six decades of marriage research and counseling to explain how prioritizing romantic love between spouses creates emotional safety for children, strengthens family stability, and protects marriages from drifting into resentment, distance, or a “roommate” dynamic. He shares why neglecting a spouse’s emotional needs especially after children arrive is one of the biggest threats to long-term marital health.

This conversation dives deeply into Dr. Harley’s emotional needs framework, including why men and women often prioritize different needs, how affection creates the environment for intimacy, and why intimate conversation, recreational companionship, and consistent connection are essential to keeping love alive. Dr. Harley also addresses common parenting challenges, including newborns, toddlers, exhaustion, lack of childcare, and limited time and explains why 15 hours of undivided couple time per week can transform a marriage, even in the busiest seasons of parenting.

Parents will walk away with practical tools, mindset shifts, and reassurance that loving your spouse well is not selfish, but one of the greatest gifts you can give your children.

• Why prioritizing marriage benefits children emotionally and developmentally
• The long-term impact of neglecting emotional needs after children arrive
• Dr. Harley’s emotional needs model and why needs differ between spouses
• Affection vs. sexual fulfillment: environment vs. event
• Why intimate conversation is foundational for lasting love
• Recreational companionship and staying connected through shared enjoyment
• Balancing marriage, parenting young children, and exhaustion
• Avoiding the “roommate marriage” trap
• Why dating your spouse is essential at every stage of family life

• Dr. Willard F. Harley Jr.: Marriage Counselor & Clinical Psychologist
• Book: His Needs, Her Needs – Dr. Willard F. Harley Jr.
• Book: Love Busters – Dr. Willard F. Harley Jr.
• Book: Five Steps to Romantic Love – Dr. Willard F. Harley Jr.
• Marriage Builders Program – marriagebuilders.com
• Marriage Builders Emotional Needs Questionnaire
• Marriage Builders Coaching & Courses
• Marriage Builders Radio Show / Podcast
• Dating the One You Married (Marriage Builders resource)

What does it really take to raise teenagers who still talk to us, trust us, and stay connected even as they push for independence?

In this episode of the Family Dialogues Podcast, parenting expert Alyson Schafer joins the conversation to unpack one of the most challenging transitions for families: moving from parental control to parental influence during the teen years.

Alyson explains why adolescence begins much earlier than many parents expect, how brain development and neuroplasticity shape teenage behavior, and why conflict often increases just as teens are doing exactly what development requires of them. Drawing from Adlerian psychology and decades of counseling experience, she reframes teenage resistance not as defiance, but as preparation for adulthood.

You’ll hear practical guidance on:

• The three stages of adolescence and what parents should expect at each stage
• Why fear leads parents to overcontrol and how that erodes connection
• The critical shift from being the “pilot” to becoming a trusted co-pilot in your teen’s life
• How strong relationships, not punishment, protect teens from risky behavior
• Why teens who feel emotionally connected to their parents are more likely to make safer choices
• How to replace punishment with agreements, consequences, and family meetings
• Concrete strategies for keeping communication open, even with withdrawn or resistant teens
• How parents can rebuild trust and connection if the relationship already feels strained

This conversation is essential listening for parents of preteens and teenagers, caregivers navigating power struggles, and anyone who wants to raise emotionally resilient teens without losing the relationship that matters most.

• Parenting the Adlerian Way Podcast – Hosted by Alyson Schafer
• Alyson Schafer’s Parenting Books (HarperCollins Canada)
• Alyson Schafer Parenting Teens Facebook Group
• Alyson's Instagram
• Parent Education Classes (Adlerian / democratic parenting approach)
• Family Meetings (as a structured parenting practice discussed in the episode)

Family life can feel overwhelming, meltdowns, tension in your relationship, emotional distance, and the constant question, “Am I failing at this?” But thriving homes are possible, even when things feel hard.

Hosted by Dr. Taniesha Burke, research psychologist, parenting coach, and mother of three boys, Family Dialogues Podcast tackles the real, unspoken challenges of parenting, marriage, intimacy after kids, shared responsibility, and raising confident, capable children.

Each episode brings:

• Evidence-based family and child development insights
• Conversations with leading psychologists and family experts
• Practical tools you can use in everyday life
• Support for couples, new parents, and caregivers navigating stress or advocating for children with special needs

Because happy, connected families don’t happen by accident. They happen through understanding, teamwork, and intentional dialogue.

The future is the family.

Subscribe now and start your family’s new chapter.