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From global music stages to silent breakdowns behind closed doors, this week’s guest - Dr. Clarita De Quiroz - shares her powerful story of healing, identity and reinvention.

In this raw and moving conversation, Clarita opens up about the personal battles behind her success, including anxiety, chronic bulimia, childhood trauma, toxic relationships and the numbing effects of medication. She takes us through the mindset shifts that helped her rebuild from rock bottom, earn a law degree and doctorate and return to the stage sober, present and fully expressed.

This episode is a masterclass in resilience, emotional honesty and redefining success - from someone who’s lived through breakdowns and breakthroughs.

Whether you’re navigating burnout, starting over or struggling to trust your voice, this one will meet you where you are.

In this episode:

• Why Clarita left music (and what brought her back after a 10-year break)
• The truth about anxiety, antidepressants and emotional suppression
• How trauma shaped her inner world and the tools that rewired it
• Growing up with zero emotional support and learning to self-validate
• The moment she realised her environment was the problem
• From bulimia to boundaries: reclaiming her body, voice, and worth
• Why starting over isn’t failure and what success means now.
• 0:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome
• 00:50 Clarita's Academic Journey
• 01:38 Life in Dubai and Business Ventures
• 02:24 Overcoming Personal Struggles
• 04:07 Impact of Medication on Mental Health
• 05:51 Music Career and Break
• 07:39 Childhood Trauma and Family Dynamics
• 13:28 Moving to Dubai and Personal Growth
• 15:57 Therapy and Healing
• 21:30 Setting Boundaries and Self-Worth
• 23:05 The Power of Starting Over
• 23:19 Embracing New Beginnings
• 23:49 The Journey of Self-Improvement
• 26:18 Redefining Success
• 28:29 Overcoming Personal Challenges
• 30:14 Finding Joy in Sobriety
• 31:34 Advice to My Younger Self
• 36:13 Defining Success and Happiness
• 38:34 Future Plans and Reflections
• 40:53 Key Takeaways and Conclusion

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Clarita de Quiroz is an award-winning international recording artist, pianist, composer and entrepreneur, widely recognised as one of the Middle East’s most accomplished independent musicians.

She is the only artist in the United Arab Emirates to have achieved three number-one albums, including A New Key, which debuted at number one after a decade-long hiatus and marked her return as a classical-crossover pianist and vocalist. Her earlier albums, Speak.Delete.Repeat. and A New Key, showcase her distinctive fusion of classical piano, soul, and contemporary pop.

Clarita has performed on prestigious stages across Europe, Asia, and the Middle East, and has opened for global icons including Sir Elton John, Kelly Rowland, Gabrielle, and the Sugababes. In 2012, she was named “Best Singer of the UAE,” and she has since been featured in Ahlan! magazine’s Hot 100 list of influential figures in the region.

Beyond public concerts, she is frequently invited to perform at private royal engagements in the UAE, and recently received a formal award presented by members of the royal family - a rare honour that reflects both her artistic standing and professional reputation.

Alongside her music career, Clarita is also a highly accomplished academic. She holds a Master’s degree

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You don’t need more time. You need one minute of courage.

This week, we’re asking a different kind of question:

How do you want to be remembered?

In this episode, we explore the powerful connection between legacy, courage and momentum, and why a single minute of daily bravery can rewire your self-trust, shift your nervous system and build your future.

We share:

• How to anchor courage (even when you feel small)
• Why most women wait too long to take action
• How repetition creates safety
• A guided visualisation where your 85-year-old self gives you the message you need to hear.

This isn’t about achieving more, It’s about remembering who you are and starting now.

If you’ve been avoiding the thing, second-guessing yourself or waiting for the “right” time, this episode will meet you right where you are (and the vizualisation is powerful!).

🎧 She Reigns in Action
Take one minute today and ask yourself:
What’s one small act of bravery I could take towards the woman I want to become?

Then do it! And let us know what happens.

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What would you allow yourself to want if you truly trusted yourself to have it?

In this first episode of 2026, we explore why thinking big isn’t about ego, pressure or unrealistic goals but about rebuilding self‑trust.

Drawing inspiration from The Magic of Thinking Big and decades of subconscious work, this episode breaks down why so many women stay stuck not because they lack ambition but because playing small feels safer to the nervous system.

We talk about:

• Why “being realistic” often means shrinking your desires
• How playing small slowly erodes self‑trust
• The subconscious reason women drift instead of committing
• Why visualisation works (even before you take action)
• How confidence is built before the leap - not after it.

This episode includes a powerful guided vizualisation to help you experience how the mind and body respond to imagined risk - and how you can use that to build confidence safely, from the inside out.

If you’ve been quietly wanting more, doubting yourself or waiting for permission to begin this conversation is your reminder: thinking big is an act of self‑trust.

🎧 Resources & Next Steps

If this episode stirred something in you our Reignmaker Hypnosis Audio Collection was created for moments like this.

These guided sessions support you to:

• Release self‑doubt
• Strengthen inner confidence
• Rewire your relationship with money and safety.

You can explore the full collection here

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We’d love to hear what this episode brought up for you.

Message us on Instagram @reignwhenitsraining or share your biggest takeaway and tag us.

And if this episode resonated, please rate, review or share it. It helps more Reignmaker women find this space.

Here’s to a braver, brighter 2026 and everything you’re ready to imagine into being!

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As this year comes to a close, so many of us are already questioning ourselves.

Am I doing enough?
Have I achieved enough?
Am I… enough?

In this special Reignmaker Rewind episode, we revisit one of the most powerful conversations we’ve had around self-worth, identity and the subconscious stories women carry for decades, often without even realising it.

In this episode, we explore:

• Why feeling “not enough” is learned, not true.
• How childhood experiences and emotional memory create adult self-doubt.
• The role your subconscious and nervous system play in confidence.
• Why visualisation works (and what happens in the brain when you use it).
• The difference between becoming someone new and releasing an old identity.
• How to begin rewriting your inner dialogue with compassion, not pressure.

We also guide you through a gentle release meditation to help you physically and emotionally let go of the version of you that doesn’t belong in the next chapter.

This isn’t about fixing yourself for the new year. It’s about returning to who you were before you were taught to doubt yourself.

• 00:00 Reflecting on the Year and Self-Worth
• 00:47 Understanding the Root of 'Not Enough'
• 01:06 Personal Stories of Self-Doubt
• 02:13 Overcoming Imposter Syndrome
• 04:42 Childhood Experiences and Self-Worth
• 10:44 Reframing Negative Beliefs
• 13:19 Visualisation and Self-Acceptance Exercises
• 17:13 The Power of Visualization and Meditation
• 21:16 Concluding Thoughts and New Year Wishes

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Listener Reflection (NYE Journaling Prompt)

Before the year ends, ask yourself:

• What version of me am I done dragging forward?
• Where do I still try to earn what was meant to be unconditional?
• If I truly believed I was enough… how would I move differently next year?

Let yourself write freely.

Final Reminder

You are not just entering a new year… you are releasing an old identity.

And you are enough - exactly as you are.

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Christmas isn’t always what we expect it to be.

In this festive Reignmaker Rewind, we share highlights from our Christmas Special - the stories, memories and moments that shaped our Christmases - from laughter in the kitchen and surprise reunions, to missing people and grief.

This is a conversation about:

• Why Christmas can feel heavy even when it 'should' be happy
• Family traditions that shape us more than we realise
• Navigating the first Christmas after loss
• Letting go of perfection and choosing presence instead
• Simple ways to ground yourself during festive overwhelm
• Why the small moments matter more than the big ones.

If you’ve been feeling pressure, sadness, nostalgia or loneliness this season, you are not alone.

This episode is an invitation to take the pressure off… and let Christmas be what it actually is 💛

• 00:00 Introduction: Embracing Imperfect Christmas
• 00:40 Welcome and Weekly Check-In
• 00:59 Christmas Memories and Traditions
• 02:43 Surprise Christmas Reunion
• 04:51 Coping with Loss During the Holidays
• 08:37 Tips for a Stress-Free Christmas
• 14:10 Q&A: Our Christmas Favorites
• 16:37 Reflecting on the Year and Looking Forward
• 18:32 Final Thoughts and Christmas Wishes

Listen to the full original episode here

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• New Website: www.reignwhenitsraining.com
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Thank you for listening, we’ll see you next week 💛

🎄 Happy Christmas everyone! xx

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Ever asked yourself what you'd do if you only had 6 months left to live?
In this Reignmaker Rewind, we reflect on time, grief, gratitude and how quickly life moves when you're not paying attention.

You’ll hear a raw moment of truth about life after loss, fear and what it means to show up fully, even when you're still healing.

Plus: a powerful future-self visualisation to help you reconnect with the version of you who’s already done the thing. She's not waiting. She's ready.

🎧 You’ll walk away with:
– A wake-up call on time, fear and regret
– A 5-minute visualization to meet your higher self
– A reminder that you don’t get today again.

✨ If you’re a woman who feels stuck in doubt, fear or people-pleasing, this is your moment to choose differently.

Listen to the full original episode here

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Download our powerful Hypnosis Audios to rewire your confidence and reconnect with your power:

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📥 Next Steps:

• New Website: www.reignwhenitsraining.com
• 📸 Tag us with your biggest shift → @reignwhenitsraining
• 💌 Join the She Reigns newsletter for weekly tools, truths & transformation
• 🎧 Subscribe to How to Reign When it’s Raining so you never miss an episode!

Thank you for listening, we’ll see you next week 💛

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What would you do if self-doubt wasn’t running the show?
Not fear. Not guilt. Not your past. Just you - fully expressed, unapologetic and powerful.

This She Reigns Minisode is a 5-minute Reignmaker Rewind spotlighting the bold, beautiful moments from our International Women’s Day episode that deserve a second listen.

Inside, you’ll hear from women breaking generational cycles, reclaiming their voice, and redefining what it means to be “too much.” This is your reminder: you don’t need to shrink to be liked.

What’s inside:

• The truth about motherhood, career and choosing yourself.
• Why transformation often triggers you first.
• What to do when the room stays silent and why it’s working.
• The myth of perfection and why messy bravery is the real superpower.
• A mic-drop moment you’ll want to replay.

Listen to the full original episode here

🎧 Want to go deeper than inspiration?

Transformation happens at the subconscious level. That’s why we created the Reignmaker Hypnosis Audio Collection - 3 powerful audios to help you:

• Release Self-Doubt
• Build Inner Confidence
• Rewire Your Money Mindset.

Let this be the moment you stop second-guessing and start showing up.
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🧠 Reignmaker Shift Prompt:

What would you do if you had zero self-doubt?
Say it out loud. Then do one small thing today that moves you closer.

📥 Next Steps:

• ✨ New Website: www.reignwhenitsraining.com
  
  
• 📸 Tag us with your biggest shift → @reignwhenitsraining
  
  
• 💌 Join the She Reigns newsletter for weekly tools, truths & transformation
• 🎧 Subscribe to How to Reign When it’s Raining so you never miss an episode!

Thank you for listening, we’ll see you next week 💛

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This time of year has a way of making women feel behind.
Not doing enough. Not being enough. Not moving fast enough.
But what if you're not behind, you're becoming?

In this short but emotional solo episode of How to Reign When it’s Raining, we share a moment that stopped us in our tracks and reminded us that growth is often invisible until someone mirrors it back. This is your end-of-year reflection if you’ve been questioning your progress, doubting how far you’ve come or forgetting how much you’ve already moved through.

You’ll hear:

• The unexpected message that sparked tears (and truth)
• Why slowing down isn’t failure — it’s wisdom
• How to find the yellow door when the red one slams shut
• A journaling prompt to help you see yourself clearly again

Key themes:
🔹 Nervous system awareness
🔹 Emotional healing
🔹 Subconscious reprogramming
🔹 End-of-year reflection
🔹 Self-worth and identity

And if this stirred something in you - a whisper that you are changing - explore our Hypnosis Audio Collection created for moments exactly like this.

💛 You are not behind. You are becoming.

🎧 Episode Breakdown

• 00:00 Introduction: You Are Not Behind
• 00:38 A Moment of Realisation
• 01:50 The End of Year Reflection
• 02:16 The Yellow Door Metaphor
• 03:34 Personal Growth and Recognition
• 07:05 The Value of Slowing Down
• 08:38 Rainmaker Shift Exercise
• 09:25 Key Takeaways and Final Thoughts

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Thank you for listening, see you next week!