Episodes

  • Healing Shame After Being a Bully or “Mean Child”
    Feb 16 2026
    Are you carrying the weight of shame from your past? In this episode, Dr. Margaret Paul addresses how to heal shame rooted in childhood disobedience, rebellion, or bullying, and why these behaviors are expressions of a wounded self rather than evidence of being a bad person. Drawing on the Inner Bonding® process, Dr. Paul explains how hurtful behavior often develops as a way to manage fear, pain, and powerlessness. She explores why feeling shame is actually a sign of conscience and emotional health, and how compassionate self-inquiry enables real healing. Explore the full episode of Healing Shame After Being a Bully or “Mean Child.” About Dr. Margaret Paul

    Dr. Margaret Paul, PhD, is a bestselling author, relationship expert, and the co-creator of the Inner Bonding® self-healing process. She is the author and co-author of twelve books, including “Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved by You?”, “Healing Your Aloneness,” “Inner Bonding,” and "Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved by God?

    Through her work, Dr. Paul teaches individuals how to take responsibility for their feelings, heal anxiety, depression, and relationship challenges, and develop a deep, loving connection with themselves and their spiritual guidance. She facilitates Inner Bonding Workshops and Intensives, administers the Inner Bonding website, and works to make the Inner Bonding® process available worldwide through the SelfQuest® online self-healing program.

    You can learn Inner Bonding now by visiting her website for a FREE Inner Bonding course at https://innerbondinghub.com/7-lessons/ or by emailing her at margaret@innerbonding.com.

    Connect with Dr. Margaret Paul:

    Website: https://innerbonding.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/innerbonding1/

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/margaretpaul/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/innerbonding

    Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/ideas/inner-bonding-margaret-paul/923777849815/

    Books: https://innerbonding.com/list-product/10/books.html

    Courses: https://innerbonding.com/show-page/159/home-study-courses.html

    Free Resources: https://innerbonding.com/show-page/160/free-help.html

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    10 mins
  • How to Take Loving Care of Yourself Without Guilt
    Feb 9 2026

    What does it truly mean to take loving care of yourself without guilt?

    In this episode, Dr. Margaret Paul explores the profound difference between surface-level self-care and deep emotional self-responsibility. Moving beyond spa days and external fixes, she invites you into a compassionate understanding of emotional self-care—learning to listen inwardly, honor your feelings, and respond to your inner needs with love rather than judgment.

    Dr. Paul explains how tuning into your feelings allows you to recognize when you’re abandoning yourself and how guilt, anxiety, depression, and shame often signal a call for deeper self-attunement. Through the lens of the Inner Bonding® process, she reveals why loving yourself is not selfish, but essential for healthy relationships, emotional fulfillment, and authentic connection with others.

    Listen to the full episode of How to Take Loving Care of Yourself Without Guilt.

    About Dr. Margaret Paul

    Dr. Margaret Paul, PhD, is a bestselling author, relationship expert, and the co-creator of the Inner Bonding® self-healing process. She is the author and co-author of 15 books, including “Lonely No More: The Astonishing Power of Inner Bonding”, “Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved by You?”, “Healing Your Aloneness,” “Inner Bonding,” and "How to Become Strong Enough to Love.”

    Through her work, Dr. Paul teaches individuals and couples how to take responsibility for their feelings, heal anxiety, depression, and relationship challenges, and develop a deep, loving connection with themselves and their spiritual guidance. She facilitates the Inner Bonding Mastercircle and Intensives, and works to make the Inner Bonding® process available worldwide through her books, her powerful 30-Day courses, and through the SelfQuest® online self-healing program.

    You can learn Inner Bonding now by visiting her website for a FREE Inner Bonding course at https://innerbondinghub.com/7-lessons/ or by emailing her at margaret@innerbonding.com.

    Connect with Dr. Margaret Paul: Website: https://innerbonding.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/innerbonding1/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/margaretpaul/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/innerbonding Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/ideas/inner-bonding-margaret-paul/923777849815/

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    12 mins
  • Healing Social Anxiety
    Feb 3 2026

    Do you experience intense anxiety in social situations? Discover the root cause and how to heal it.

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    26 mins
  • Most Fear Cannot be Trusted
    Jan 26 2026

    Do you know the difference between fear coming from your own thoughts and when is it coming from real and present danger? Learn to distinguish what fear you can trust and what fear you can’t trust.

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    26 mins
  • You Are the One You’ve Been Waiting For
    Jan 19 2026

    Are you waiting for someone to rescue you? Wait no longer for someone else. Instead, learn to become the loving adult that your inner child has been waiting for.

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    25 mins
  • Are You Ready for Permanent Weight Loss?
    Jan 12 2026

    Discover the underlying cause of the cycle of losing and gaining, and what you can do to permanently lose weight.

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    25 mins
  • Loving Yourself Is What Creates Self-Worth
    Jan 5 2026

    Developing self-worth is an inside job – not something someone else’s approval can give to you. Others love can help you, but not until you are also loving yourself.

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    21 mins
  • Healing the Inner Child: Connecting with Your Deepest Self
    Dec 30 2025

    Discover the profound healing that occurs when you learn how to heal the false beliefs of your wounded self and reconnect with your inner child – your true soul self.

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    22 mins