Kids are brilliant, brutally honest, and capable of turning the simplest moment into a full-blown parenting lesson. This week Josh and Addison unpack three listener stories that reveal what happens when you underestimate a child, miss a red flag, or accidentally teach them the wrong lesson.From a kindergarten mix-up that starts with a child not even knowing his real name, to a concussion that gets mistaken for attitude, to a painfully awkward family moment that spirals into a bigger conversation about sarcasm, this episode is equal parts hilarious and humbling. Josh and Addison also share their own real-life parenting chaos, from teething tantrums and sauce obsession at In-N-Out to kids who are observant enough to learn your secrets before you realize they know them.

What they discuss:

• Why some “small” parenting oversights don’t show up until school roll call
• How easy it is to confuse pain, stress, and stubbornness in kids
• Why sarcasm can backfire hard when children are always listening
• What kids are really absorbing from your habits, language, and reactions
• The surprising value of car rides, shared routines, and ordinary time together

Josh adds his perspective as a dad who’s coached his kids, tried to stay connected through packed schedules, and learned that the mundane moments often matter most. Addison brings the mom side of the story, with the kind of unscripted kid updates every parent instantly recognizes.If you’ve ever wondered whether your kids are actually paying attention, this one will answer that question fast. Funny, candid, and occasionally cringe-inducing, this episode is perfect for parents who need a laugh, a reality check, or a reminder that nobody gets this whole thing exactly right.

The advice you need most at 15, 25, and 45 is probably the same: stop wasting energy on pride, comparison, and stuff that does not matter. Josh and Addison unpack the mistakes they would tell their younger selves to avoid - and the lessons that only become clear once you have lived a little. What starts as a funny, slightly chaotic conversation quickly turns into a surprisingly honest discussion about identity, parenting, perspective, and the moments that actually shape a life. Josh opens up about realizing he was arrogant and mean in high school, how a brutally honest letter from his mom changed the way he saw himself, and why a mission in Venezuela became a turning point in learning humility and charity. Addison reflects on being more introverted, learning to take more chances, and how marriage and motherhood changed the way she sees effort, responsibility, and grace. You will discover:

• Why pride can quietly wreck your relationships long before you notice it
• The power of being corrected by someone who truly loves you
• How parenting changes the way you judge your younger self
• Why cherishing ordinary moments matters more than chasing the “cool” stuff
• How prayer, perspective, and gratitude can completely change what you carry

Josh also shares a moving story about interviewing his uncle, a Vietnam veteran, and hearing how prayer brought peace in the middle of fear, chaos, and uncertainty. Addison adds a timely reminder about loving yourself because Jesus loves you, and about looking for the good that is always happening, even when the world is loud with bad news.This episode is for anyone reflecting on who they were, who they are becoming, and what they want to pass on to their kids. If you need a reset on what really matters, this conversation will meet you right where you are.

Some of the hardest moments in life are the ones that quietly reroute everything for the better. Josh and Addison unpack the trials that felt frustrating, unfair, or even devastating at the time - and the surprising ways those setbacks became turning points. Josh shares the layoff that sent him from Bank of America to Wells Fargo, then into a community bank where he learned far more than he ever could have in a bigger system. What felt like a blow at the time ended up opening the path to his current role as chief lending officer. He also opens up about nearly backing out of a home purchase, only to later realize that decision connected his family to people who would change his career trajectory. Addison brings her own example of getting shut out of her college major after missing the cutoff by a single grade. The disappointment was brutal, but it eventually placed her in the same class with friends from Las Vegas who became the support system she didn’t know she would need. You’ll also hear:

• Why a bad season can become the exact season that prepares you
• How one “wrong” decision can lead to the right people
• The mindset shift that helps you spot blessings inside setbacks
• A powerful real-life reminder that even painful diagnoses can bring families back together

Josh and Addison also talk about gratitude, service, connection, and why small habits like smiling at strangers or noticing what you’re thankful for can reshape your outlook over time. They close with a deeply human reminder that you may not be able to see the full picture while you’re in the middle of the struggle, but hindsight often reveals the pattern.Essential listening if you’ve ever asked, “Why is this happening to me?” and needed proof that the answer may not make sense yet, but still matters.

Marriage is not built on perfect chemistry, it is built on choosing someone you can actually grow with. Josh and Addison sit down with Renae, for a candid conversation about the relationship mistakes that matter most and the lessons that can save you years of frustration. Renee opens up about her first marriage at 19 and the hard truth she learned the painful way: love is not enough if you are trying to carry a partner instead of walking beside one. From there, the conversation gets practical fast, covering what most people miss before they say yes, why uncommunicated expectations cause so many fights, and how repair after conflict can make or break a relationship. You’ll hear their honest takes on:

• Why “red flags” can look charming at first
• The difference between attraction and compatibility
• How shared goals and shared effort strengthen a marriage
• Why little things like toothpaste, finances, and house habits can become big issues
• The underrated power of dating your spouse long after the wedding

Josh and Addison also talk about the role of grace, patience, and faith in keeping a relationship healthy, plus the surprising ways marriage can help you become a better version of yourself. Renae’s perspective is especially valuable if you are dating, engaged, newly married, or simply trying to build a relationship that lasts.If you have ever wondered what actually keeps couples together after the honeymoon ends, this episode is a must-listen. Honest, funny, and full of real-world wisdom, it is the kind of conversation that helps you avoid the mistakes that most people do not see until it is too late.

Josh and Addison look back at beliefs they once held strongly and how those views shifted with age, marriage, and parenting. They cover everything from sports obsession to having kids young, the pressure to be “established” before starting a family, and the importance of enjoying life in the present instead of always waiting for some future milestone. In this episode, Josh and Addison each share how real life has challenged the assumptions they had in their 20s and teens. They keep coming back to the theme that most of the things that feel urgent, permanent, or overwhelming usually aren’t.

In this episode, we share a string of unforgettable embarrassing moments—from awkward comments and misunderstood jokes to a disastrous best man toast, a piano mishap, and a very unfortunate carnival ride.

We also swap a few weekly joys, including a Lionel Richie concert, a fun work swim party, and a family performance coming up in the community orchestra.

If you’ve ever said something at exactly the wrong time, laughed when you shouldn’t have, or had a moment you can’t stop thinking about years later, this episode is for you.

In this episode, Addison and Josh share personal stories, practical advice, and reflections on life’s joys and challenges. From adventurous climbs and boat outings to managing technology and health, they explore how small habits and perspectives can transform daily living.

Key Topics

• The thrill and safety measures of Via Ferrata climbing adventures
• The importance of taking intentional breaks from technology
• Practical habits for maintaining organization and order at home
• The value of regular date nights and quality time with your spouse
• Insights on health, nutrition, and listening to your body
• The dangers of early cell phone use and social media for kids
• The significance of forward-looking goals and fun experiences
• The importance of learning new skills regardless of age
• How small daily commitments can lead to lifelong habits

In this episode Josh and Addison take a look at financial decisions they have made and how they have impacted their lives. Come learn from and with Josh and Addison while they talk all things finance this episode!

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