Episodes

  • Episode #229: From "You're Not Partner Material" To Equity Partner (In Just 5 Years)

    Episode #229: From "You're Not Partner Material" To Equity Partner (In Just 5 Years)
    Feb 24 2026
    He was one of the highest billers in his firm. He was known for his legal and technical proficiency. He got stellar associate reviews. Yet he was told he wouldn't be promoted to partnership 9 years into his career (ever). Why? How can that possibly happen? What did he do? Listen to today's episode with my client and friend, Keith Rawlins, to learn: >>> Why partnership isn't just about how much you bill (or even how profitable you've been for your law firm). >>> What it takes to make partner (and then, equity partner) in a law firm. [Hint: mindset is key]. >>> How he transformed himself and his practice, making equity partner in a perfect-fit law firm 5 years later. This one is a not-to-be-missed episode. ***** Show notes and recommended supplemental episodes can be found at: https://www.lifeandlawpodcast.com/ JOIN SUCCESS WITHOUT SACRIFICE HERE: https://www.coursecorrectioncoaching.com/connect/ Chapters
    • (00:00:00) - Why Making Partner Isn't The Right Thing For You
    • (00:03:05) - I Was Not Considered for Partner
    • (00:09:44) - Have You Determine Your Core Values?
    • (00:13:36) - The Importance of Self-Leadership
    • (00:20:30) - In the Elevator With an Introvert
    • (00:21:56) - Why I Left My Firm
    • (00:24:47) - The Making a Partner Move
    • (00:30:45) - The Transition to a New Firm
    • (00:33:19) - The Right Fit for Your Career
    • (00:36:25) - The Future of the Firm
    • (00:37:14) - A Partner's Take on the Client
    • (00:39:27) - Have You Got the Confidence to Lead?
    • (00:43:50) - Heather's Perfect Fit Law Firm
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    46 mins
  • #228: The Business Development Progress You Aren't Counting (But Should Be)

    #228: The Business Development Progress You Aren't Counting (But Should Be)
    Feb 17 2026
    Most lawyers measure business development progress all wrong and it's costing them. Because before you see the new clients and/or the increase in revenues, you must see growth in other less obvious areas. Listen to learn what to measure and how to measure so that you'll know where you really are (and what's working/what's not working at an earlier stage). Recommended Supplemental Episodes/Resources: Episode 155: Attorney Marketing - Unlock "Why You?" https://www.lifeandlawpodcast.com/podcast/attorney-marketing-why-you/ Episode 204: How To Use LinkedIn for Networking https://www.lifeandlawpodcast.com/podcast/linkedin-for-networking/ Episode 196: How To Network With Friends for Business (Naturally) https://www.lifeandlawpodcast.com/podcast/network-with-friends-for-business/ Episode 212: How To Ask for Referrals Confidently https://www.lifeandlawpodcast.com/podcast/how-to-ask-for-referrals/ Get the Success Without Sacrifice Newsletter for Lawyers: https://www.coursecorrectioncoaching.com/connect/ Chapters
    • (00:00:00) - Life and Law: The Anti-Hustle
    • (00:01:00) - The Need to Measure Progress
    • (00:05:32) - Reasons for Long Term Results
    • (00:12:04) - What Progress Looks Like in Your Network?
    • (00:15:49) - How to Track Your Business Development Progress
    • (00:20:36) - Getting started in marketing, speaking, writing
    • (00:22:12) - Three Attractive Growth Metrics
    • (00:24:04) - How Much Confidence Has Your Networker Got?
    • (00:25:16) - How to Measure Your Business Development Progress
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    26 mins
  • #227: Want to Leave Your Law Firm But Can't - Yet?

    #227: Want to Leave Your Law Firm But Can't - Yet?
    Feb 10 2026
    You want to leave your law firm but can't yet (because you need more experience, want to get through a big deal/case, circumstances or another good reason). Listen to find out how to create a strategic plan for staying, tips for staying sane, and how to know it's time to leave (regardless of the plan). Recommended Supplemental Episodes: Episode 24: Setting Boundaries (Why They Lead to Success) https://www.lifeandlawpodcast.com/podcast/setting-boundaries-for-success/ Episode 93: This Isn't Who You Are (Lawyer Identity Crisis) https://www.lifeandlawpodcast.com/podcast/lawyer-identity-crisis/ Episode 14: Success & Balance As A Lawyer https://www.lifeandlawpodcast.com/podcast/legal-success-and-balance/ Episode 152: Choose Your Hard https://www.lifeandlawpodcast.com/podcast/lawyer-life-choose-your-hard/ Success Without Sacrifice Newsletter for Lawyers: https://www.coursecorrectioncoaching.com/connect/ Chapters
    • (00:00:00) - Life in Law and Burnout
    • (00:01:03) - Should You Always Leave a Place That's Toxic?
    • (00:05:42) - When Staying Is the Right Call?
    • (00:09:46) - Step 3: Create a Plan with an End Date
    • (00:12:38) - Stay Open to Opportunities in the Future
    • (00:15:50) - Step 4, Set Clear Boundaries
    • (00:20:45) - How to Bookend Your Day
    • (00:26:25) - Why You Should Stay in a Difficult Situation
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    28 mins
  • #226: Making Partner Changes Everything (Even Mentor Relationships)

    #226: Making Partner Changes Everything (Even Mentor Relationships)
    Feb 3 2026
    Making partner changes just about everything. One area of change that catches most lawyers off guard is the negative impact your promotion can have on some of your best relationships - especially those relationships with mentors who helped you get to where you are. Listen to today's Life & Law episode to learn: >>> The warning signs that your mentor/mentee relationship has changed, >>> Why it's happening (and why not to immediately judge your mentor), >>> What NOT to do, and >>> How to move forward without burning bridges. Recommended Supplemental Episodes: Episode 171: You're (Finally) A Law Firm Partner - What To Expect https://www.lifeandlawpodcast.com/podcast/what-to-expect-law-firm-partner/ Episode 165: Maximize Your Mentor/Mentee Relationships https://www.lifeandlawpodcast.com/podcast/mentor-mentee-relationships/ Episode 140: How to Draw Boundaries https://www.lifeandlawpodcast.com/podcast/how-to-draw-boundaries/ Success Without Sacrifice Newsletter for Lawyers: https://www.coursecorrectioncoaching.com/connect/ Chapters
    • (00:00:00) - What's the Problem With Your Partner?
    • (00:00:36) - How to Get Out of a Relationship With a Partner
    • (00:03:52) - A mentor's grief and how to help them
    • (00:05:18) - A partner's identity as a mentor
    • (00:07:49) - What to Do When You Realize Your Mentor Has An MO
    • (00:10:27) - What Do You Do When You Have a Split From Your Partner?
    • (00:15:25) - The Signs That Your Mentor's Relationship Has Changed
    • (00:19:25) - Signs That Your Partner Is Turning Away From You
    • (00:22:09) - What Not to Do
    • (00:28:05) - When Your Partner Isn't Ready for You
    • (00:28:46) - How to Get Out of the Hustle
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    29 mins
  • #225: There Are Many Ways to Meditate (Meditation Manual for Busy Lawyers)

    #225: There Are Many Ways to Meditate (Meditation Manual for Busy Lawyers)
    Jan 27 2026
    Have you thought about giving meditation a try, but stopped because you're not sure what, exactly, to do? Or have you tried meditation, and think it's not really a fit for you? Do you worry that you can't meditate because your mind wanders too often? Listen to today's Life & Law episode to learn why it's ok that your mind wanders, discover the benefits of meditation and get 10 different meditation practices (so you can play around with lots of options). There is no "one way" in which to meditate. There are many ways. And one of these is sure to be a good starting point for you. JOIN THE SELF-CARE CHALLENGE: https://www.coursecorrectioncoaching.com/get-reenergized-self-care-challenge/ Chapters
    • (00:00:00) - Are You Ready to Start Meditation?
    • (00:03:08) - The Benefits of Meditation for Attorneys
    • (00:05:15) - Meditation for Lawyers: The Benefits
    • (00:10:20) - Improved Sleep Through Meditation
    • (00:12:04) - Benefits of Meditation for Lawyers
    • (00:13:29) - I'm Bad at Meditating
    • (00:19:05) - Tools of meditation for older people
    • (00:20:02) - Top 10 Ways to Get Started in Meditation
    • (00:22:42) - Unguided Meditation and Insight Meditations
    • (00:27:03) - 10 Ways to Start Meditating
    • (00:31:11) - Body Scan
    • (00:33:34) - Body Scan, Movement Meditation
    • (00:38:15) - What is Maha Mantra?
    • (00:40:28) - What is Vividation Meditation?
    • (00:43:12) - Sound Meditations
    • (00:45:49) - What is a Focus Meditation?
    • (00:48:48) - Reflection and Looking Back Meditation
    • (00:51:13) - Mental Self-Care: Resting Awareness
    • (00:54:21) - The 10 Day Self Care Challenge
    • (00:55:50) - How to Get Out of the Hustle
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    56 mins
  • #224: From Lawyer To Leader (What It Takes To Be An Effective Leader)

    #224: From Lawyer To Leader (What It Takes To Be An Effective Leader)
    Jan 20 2026
    Join me and guest Allison Williams to learn what it takes to be an effective leader (not just a manager). Because your leadership style matters - for building the right team and culture. Today's episode will give you concrete guidance on how to start becoming a better leader and manager. Inside today's podcast, you'll learn: - The difference between managing and leading. - The importance of values for building the right culture. - How to align your hiring and training to your values - The biggest leadership mistake lawyers make (that fuels chaos). - Leadership tips for how to hold your team accountable without micromanaging. For show notes and additional resources: https://www.lifeandlawpodcast.com/podcast/be-an-effective-leader Chapters
    • (00:00:00) - How to Define Your Values in Law
    • (00:00:59) - Allison Williams on Leading Authentically
    • (00:02:55) - The Difference Between Leadership and Management
    • (00:05:10) - Mixed Bag of Management vs Leadership
    • (00:09:37) - In the Elevator With Real Leadership
    • (00:12:34) - The Value of Lawyers
    • (00:14:16) - The Values Fit of a Lawyer
    • (00:20:06) - How to Manage Conflict
    • (00:24:36) - The Importance of Controlling Criticism
    • (00:30:25) - Bradley: The Ego in Law
    • (00:35:36) - Let the Right Person Go
    • (00:39:21) - How to Terminate a Friend
    • (00:46:45) - How to Stop Hard on a Law Firm Employee
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    50 mins
  • #223: Lawyers' Guidebook To Executive Presence - Be An Inspiring & Influential Leader

    #223: Lawyers' Guidebook To Executive Presence - Be An Inspiring & Influential Leader
    Jan 13 2026
    Executive presence is often misunderstood as polish, performance, or playing by outdated rules. It can feel like pressure to become someone you’re not. But real presence isn’t about fitting a mold; it’s about confidence, composure, communication, and emotional intelligence – all grounded in authenticity. Listen to today's episode to: --> Discover how mindset shapes executive presence. --> Understand why impostor syndrome shows up for even the most accomplished leaders. --> Learn practical strategies to own the room without compromising who you are. Chapters
    • (00:00:00) - Your Executive Presence
    • (00:00:35) - Heather Molder on Life in Law
    • (00:01:13) - The 3 C's of Executive Presence
    • (00:03:27) - Executive Presence
    • (00:04:11) - 3 Tips for Building More Confidence
    • (00:11:38) - Three components of communication and presence
    • (00:13:01) - Emotional Intelligence
    • (00:14:02) - Five Pillars of Emotional Intelligence
    • (00:17:12) - How to Overcome Imposter Syndrome
    • (00:20:26) - Three Ways to Develop Your Executive Presence
    • (00:21:03) - The 3-R Reset: How to Get Your Mindset Back
    • (00:22:17) - 3R Reset: Regulate, Reframe, and Refocus
    • (00:24:39) - Developing More Active Listening
    • (00:27:43) - Speak with Confidence Framework
    • (00:30:58) - This Week's Executive Presence: Building Your EQ
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    32 mins
  • #222: Looking Back to Move Forward

    #222: Looking Back to Move Forward
    Jan 6 2026
    Join Heather to learn the big lessons she learned in 2025 that will help her (and you) to move forward more intentionally and fruitfully in 2026. Chapters
    • (00:00:00) - Welcome to 2026
    • (00:02:06) - 2018: Lessons Learned From The Year
    • (00:05:23) - Lessons Learned from Last Year's Change
    • (00:11:23) - Why I didn't Host a Summit
    • (00:15:14) - Follow the Rules of Growth and Scale Your Business
    • (00:19:03) - Lesson 4: Be More Flexible in Your Posting
    • (00:23:33) - Be More Intentional With Money
    • (00:26:51) - The Lessons I Learned From the Year 2025
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    28 mins