• Evaluating Your Relationships and Cutting Out the Frenemies in Your Life for Good
    Jan 19 2026

    Evaluating Your Relationships and Cutting Out the Frenemies in Your Life for GoodWhat's the quality of your closest friendships?It's a question we forget to ask ourselves, which leads to normalizing behaviours that would be otherwise deemed harmful, toxic, or completely out of bounds.As everything in life, there are stages and phases that impact the relationships around us. Sometimes the phase and stage are the wakeup call you didn't know you needed.Insight that gives you the clarity of mind to recognize what friendships no longer serve you and rather than suffer through the relationships, you take the stand and walk away.If you have the kind of friends that make it seem pointless to also have enemies, then maybe it's time to reconsider where you're investing your energy in 2026.#relationships #toxicrelationships #cuttingties #growth #clarity0:00 - 1:30 - Introduction1:30 - 16:30 Evaluating Your Relationships16:30 - Wrap Up*RESOURCES*For all topics related to renewing and rebuilding family, communities and relationships, check out our blogs! We post bi-weekly:https://www.spe-projectpurpose.com/blogsMake sure to come visit us, subscribe to the website, and join our Member's Area for more valuable content:*SOCIALS*Website: www.spe-projectpurpose.com Facebook Page: @ProjectPurposeSPEInstagram: @ProjectPurposeSPE or my personal account @realistraeTwitter: @Purpose_SPEPinterest: @ProjectPurposeSPE

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    17 mins
  • How to Change Our Relationship with Fear and Step outside of Our Comfort Zone
    Jan 18 2026

    How to Change Our Relationship with Fear and Step outside of Our Comfort ZoneContrary to what some people believe, fear has great utility in life.Much of the decisions we make have an element of fear that fuelled the course of action we have chosen.Whether it's fear of the unknown, or fear of something tangible in your space, it's the kind of motivator that keeps you moving, pushing, and can be the catalyst to so much change in your life.All good things in moderation, although.It's important that we cultivate self-mastery around our fear, so that we don't inadvertently find ourselves in a situation where our fear is ruling over us and our decisions#fightingfear #mindset #relatable #storytime 0:00 - 1:30 - Introduction1:30 - 16:30 Changing my Relationship with Fear16:30 - Wrap Up*RESOURCES*For all topics related to renewing and rebuilding family, communities and relationships, check out our blogs! We post bi-weekly:https://www.spe-projectpurpose.com/blogsMake sure to come visit us, subscribe to the website, and join our Member's Area for more valuable content:*SOCIALS*Website: www.spe-projectpurpose.com Facebook Page: @ProjectPurposeSPEInstagram: @ProjectPurposeSPE or my personal account @realistraeTwitter: @Purpose_SPEPinterest: @ProjectPurposeSPE

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    11 mins
  • What I Learned the Hard Way by Surviving Narcissistic Abuse and Focusing on Healing
    Jan 3 2026

    What I Learned the Hard Way by Surviving Narcissistic Abuse and Focusing on HealingThe bitter pill about abuse is that it doesn't happen in a vacuum.Chances are, if you grew up normalizing abusive behaviour you will attract this behaviour in the relationships and friendships that you have, as well. Mostly because we normalize and are desensitized to the cues that signal abusive behaviour or bad intentions, given the environments we are familiar with. This was the case for me, as I dealt with breaking ties not only with my family, but in my personal and professional network as well.Healing enables us to break the patterns and the cycles of abusive, if we focus on doing better when we know better, and prioritize our own healing.Do you have any questions? Send us an email: inquiries@spe-projectpurpose.com#narcissisticabuse #healing #breakthecycle #breakthesilence 0:00 - 1:30 - Introduction1:30 - 15:30 What I Learned the Hard Way15:30 - Wrap Up*RESOURCES*For all topics related to renewing and rebuilding family, communities and relationships, check out our blogs! We post bi-weekly:https://www.spe-projectpurpose.com/blogsMake sure to come visit us, subscribe to the website, and join our Member's Area for more valuable content:*SOCIALS*Website: www.spe-projectpurpose.com Facebook Page: @ProjectPurposeSPEInstagram: @ProjectPurposeSPE or my personal account @realistraeTwitter: @Purpose_SPEPinterest: @ProjectPurposeSPE

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    16 mins
  • Breaking Free: My No Contact Journey After 5 Years of Cutting Toxic Family Ties
    Dec 29 2025

    Breaking Free: My No Contact Journey After 5 Years of Cutting Toxic Family TiesExactly 5.5 years ago, I went no contact and cut all ties with my immediate and extended family.It was a hard choice but ultimately, the best choice I could have made to support not only my mental well-being but also mitigate and manage the increasing threat I felt to my physical safety. Rather than treat the subject as taboo, I want to really be transparent about the process. There are a lot of people (women, children, and men alike), who suffer abuse that becomes increasingly violent because the complicit silence from their communities means there is no consequence or accountability for the abuse and mistreatment. In Canada, there are approximately 100 to 187 victims of intimate partner homicide and 187 victims of family homicide each year, according to recent data (Statistics Canada), the majority being women and children. My story not only involved family abuse but also translated as abusive treatment from the mentor that I had at the time.Given my career path and academic background, I had the privilege that many women do not and I was able to start from scratch and build a life that I love, abroad. But there were some challenging years, first... and a lot of inner conflict. So I would like to take the opportunity and speak to those who are going through their own storms... in hopes that they have the courage to maintain alignment, and not go back to abusive and unsafe situations... or to take that leap, and leave them once and for all.Do you have any questions? Send us an email: inquiries@spe-projectpurpose.com#familyabuse #domesticviolenceawareness #innerconflict #healing 0:00 - 1:30 - Introduction1:30 - 16:30 5 Years of Going No Contact16:30 - Wrap Up*RESOURCES*For all topics related to renewing and rebuilding family, communities and relationships, check out our blogs! We post bi-weekly:https://www.spe-projectpurpose.com/blogsMake sure to come visit us, subscribe to the website, and join our Member's Area for more valuable content:*SOCIALS*Website: www.spe-projectpurpose.com Facebook Page: @ProjectPurposeSPEInstagram: @ProjectPurposeSPE or my personal account @realistraeTwitter: @Purpose_SPEPinterest: @ProjectPurposeSPE

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    17 mins
  • 3 Ways to Feel More Creative and Think More Creatively to find Inner Balance
    Dec 27 2025

    3 Ways to Feel More Creative and Think More Creatively to find Inner BalanceCreativity is something we all have in common.Maybe not to the same extent, as not everyone holds creativity to an equal standing. Finding a creative outlet, regardless of what you typically do professionally or even personally, can be a great way to find balance, grounding and maintain a sense of personal wellness.Exercising that creativity muscle is beneficial, whether you're the next Picasso in the making, or good at making stick figures. In 2026, prioritize finding that creative outlet that gives you that sense of balance and recharge.Do you have any questions? Send us an email: inquiries@spe-projectpurpose.com#creativity #creator #balance #wellness 0:00 - 1:30 - Introduction1:30 - 11:30 3 Ways to Feel More Creative11:30 - Wrap Up*RESOURCES*For all topics related to renewing and rebuilding family, communities and relationships, check out our blogs! We post bi-weekly:https://www.spe-projectpurpose.com/blogsMake sure to come visit us, subscribe to the website, and join our Member's Area for more valuable content:*SOCIALS*Website: www.spe-projectpurpose.com Facebook Page: @ProjectPurposeSPEInstagram: @ProjectPurposeSPE or my personal account @realistraeTwitter: @Purpose_SPEPinterest: @ProjectPurposeSPE

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    13 mins
  • 3 Red Flags You Should Never Ignore When Someone Reacts to Your Boundaries In Every Stage & Phase
    Dec 21 2025

    3 Red Flags You Should Never Ignore When Someone Reacts to Your Boundaries In Every Stage & PhaseHealing has no age limit. It's something we can start to do, regardless of the stage and phase we find ourselves in life.When we begin to heal, one of the natural effects of the process is becoming more in tune with our own sense of values, beliefs and convictions. As we discover our voice and what we believe in, we begin to find the language to articulate our thoughts, needs and desires. More importantly, we start to develop the confidence, and sometimes courage, to communicate our boundaries. How people respond and react to your boundaries tells you everything you need to know about how to position those people in your life.Here are 3 red flags you should never ignore when communicating your boundaries. In the most extreme of cases, paying attention to them can save your life.Do you have any questions? Send us an email: inquiries@spe-projectpurpose.com#healing #growth #courage #boundaries 0:00 - 1:30 - Introduction1:30 - 11:30 3 Red Flags You Should Never Ignore11:30 - Wrap Up*RESOURCES*For all topics related to renewing and rebuilding family, communities and relationships, check out our blogs! We post bi-weekly:https://www.spe-projectpurpose.com/blogsMake sure to come visit us, subscribe to the website, and join our Member's Area for more valuable content:*SOCIALS*Website: www.spe-projectpurpose.com Facebook Page: @ProjectPurposeSPEInstagram: @ProjectPurposeSPE or my personal account @realistraeTwitter: @Purpose_SPEPinterest: @ProjectPurposeSPE

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    13 mins
  • Learning to Appreciate Those We Love by Matching their Energy and Showing Up
    Dec 21 2025

    Learning to Appreciate Those We Love by Matching their Energy and Showing UpAs we all are getting ready for the Christmas season, however that translates for each of us, it's an important opportunity to talk about reciprocity.When we think about the holidays, we think about taking the time to show gratitude and thankfulness. It's an opportunity to reconnect and spend time with the people that we love.It's important to recognize that reciprocity is the single best way to ensure that the people you care about, feel care about by you. We can appreciate the things people say and do for us, but taking the time to reciprocate, to match their energy, is the only way to ensure they feel that appreciation and feel equally valued.Rather than approach the holiday season with entitlement or expectancy, let's focus on matching the energy of the people we want in our lives for the long haul.Do you have any questions? Send us an email: inquiries@spe-projectpurpose.com#reflection #growth #holidays #reciprocal 0:00 - 1:30 - Introduction1:30 - 11:30 Why Relationships Require Reciprocity11:30 - Wrap Up*RESOURCES*For all topics related to renewing and rebuilding family, communities and relationships, check out our blogs! We post bi-weekly:https://www.spe-projectpurpose.com/blogsMake sure to come visit us, subscribe to the website, and join our Member's Area for more valuable content:*SOCIALS*Website: www.spe-projectpurpose.com Facebook Page: @ProjectPurposeSPEInstagram: @ProjectPurposeSPE or my personal account @realistraeTwitter: @Purpose_SPEPinterest: @ProjectPurposeSPE

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    12 mins
  • Protect Your Mental Health During Holiday Stress with these 3 Tips!
    Dec 20 2025

    Protect Your Mental Health During Holiday Stress with these 3 Tips!This the season to be... your choice!It's a toss up lately. This is a time of year people either love or hate, or have a love-hate relationship with. But the holidays isn't just for gingerbread house competitions and mistletoe, it's a great time to reflect on the that's past and think about how you've shown up.Specifically, how you've shown up in ways that make you feel proud, feel purposeful and feel prepared for how you plan on making the best of 2026.Christmas isn't just about the hustle and bustle. It's about presence and taking the time to show yourself grace, and recognition for all that 2025 has done to propel your growth.So if you want some tips on how to support your mental health over the holidays, I have three reflections that might just do the trick!Do you have any questions? Send us an email: inquiries@spe-projectpurpose.com#holidays #recognition #reward #christmas 0:00 - 1:30 - Introduction1:30 - 9:30 3 Mental Health Hacks9:30 - Wrap Up*RESOURCES*For all topics related to renewing and rebuilding family, communities and relationships, check out our blogs! We post bi-weekly:https://www.spe-projectpurpose.com/blogsMake sure to come visit us, subscribe to the website, and join our Member's Area for more valuable content:*SOCIALS*Website: www.spe-projectpurpose.com Facebook Page: @ProjectPurposeSPEInstagram: @ProjectPurposeSPE or my personal account @realistraeTwitter: @Purpose_SPEPinterest: @ProjectPurposeSPE

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    9 mins